How can I tell..?

12 Apr 2007

Hi all
This is my first Post on here so hope I'm going about it the right way.
My problem is how to tell if someone is into swinging or not.
When I'm out with my husband anywhere we can't help but look at other women and wonder if they are interested in a possible 3sum but without actually asking them and risking getting a slap or worse we cant tell.
I know this may sound corny but is there any kind of a sign eg: a ring or something like that.
If this question has been asked before I apologise as I must have missed the Posting.
Thanks LUSTYLADY confused

12 Apr 2007

Hi Lustylady and welcome to the forums.
It sounds to me like the would they, wont they game, I / we play !!!
Pure guess work,IMO, there is a Sh pin badge available from munches for SH peeps, but this does not help with 'others' who you might meet.
lol

12 Apr 2007

If they are on this website thats a good pointer,
if they are wearing stockings, suspenders and crotchless panties with a very short skirt and touching up every couple in the bar that is another decent indication,
If they are walking around asking the clientèle if they would like to follow them to the bogs for a "quickie" that might also be worth pursuing.
Or alternatively go to a "Swinging Club" alist of which is available on the homepage of this very website,
Good Luck and have fun!!

12 Apr 2007

Hi Sarah
Thank you for your help,I know its like a mine field out there,you can't tell who the genuine people are.
The trouble is I know what I want but I'm a shy and private person untill I get to know someone.
Thanks again Sarah.

12 Apr 2007

Not much help in how to really tell but we enjoy the are they/aren't they game - can liven up any evening down the pub. smile

That of course the leads to the "what are they wearing under those clothes game" lol

which in turn leads to the "What would you like to do to them " game rotflmao

Which eventually leads to the "Sod this , lets go home and fuck ourselves silly" game :grin:
All good fun.
j xx

13 Apr 2007

they will have a pampas in thier front garden ! lol
Jay

13 Apr 2007

Go to a supermarket and hang around the fresh bread aisle - swingers will be the ones buying tiger bread. lol

13 Apr 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
Go to a supermarket and hang around the fresh bread aisle - swingers will be the ones buying tiger bread.

oooh i bought loads this morning ready for the weekend lol
i also walk around at work with my sh pin badge on just out of curiosity lol
Earthy xx

13 Apr 2007

Quote by earthchild
Go to a supermarket and hang around the fresh bread aisle - swingers will be the ones buying tiger bread.

oooh i bought loads this morning ready for the weekend lol
i also walk around at work with my sh pin badge on just out of curiosity lol
Earthy xx
any one got a picture of this pin ?

13 Apr 2007

Quote by earthchild
i also walk around at work with my sh pin badge on just out of curiosity lol

what are you curious about? that you have the dexterity to be able to put one on without stabbing yourself?

13 Apr 2007

Quote by essex34m

i also walk around at work with my sh pin badge on just out of curiosity lol

what are you curious about? that you have the dexterity to be able to put one on without stabbing yourself?
oh no i still stabbed myself lol i have to so i can check i am real redface

13 Apr 2007

Quote by earthchild

i also walk around at work with my sh pin badge on just out of curiosity lol

what are you curious about? that you have the dexterity to be able to put one on without stabbing yourself?
oh no i still stabbed myself lol i have to so i can check i am real special redface

13 Apr 2007

Quote by essex34m

i also walk around at work with my sh pin badge on just out of curiosity lol

what are you curious about? that you have the dexterity to be able to put one on without stabbing yourself?
oh no i still stabbed myself lol i have to so i can check i am real special redface

:shock:

13 Apr 2007

Quote by Ukwineman
any one got a picture of this pin ?

No. You won't find one on here either. I'm sure posts describing it have been deleted/edited before now.

13 Apr 2007

Quote by Freckledbird

any one got a picture of this pin ?

No. You won't find one on here either. I'm sure posts describing it have been deleted/edited before now.
why are they ashamed of it, dont they want them in use any more? dunno

13 Apr 2007

not ashamed, we are proud lol.
i would imagine there are two reasons, firstly security. anyone can look on the site, so you wouldnt want some journalist noticing your badge in the street and snapping pics of you, its better for just the real swingers to have the swingers badge, if that makes sense.
secondly, i think it may be something to do with the site is now commercial, unlike when the badges were first made.

13 Apr 2007

Quote by well_busty_babe
not ashamed, we are proud lol.
i would imagine there are two reasons, firstly security. anyone can look on the site, so you wouldnt want some journalist noticing your badge in the street and snapping pics of you, its better for just the real swingers to have the swingers badge, if that makes sense.
secondly, i think it may be something to do with the site is now commercial, unlike when the badges were first made.

:thumbup:

13 Apr 2007

Quote by Ukwineman
dont they want them in use any more?

You can buy them at munches/socials when Sarah is attending.

13 Apr 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
dont they want them in use any more?

You can buy them at munches/socials when Sarah is attending.
or if you ask nicely, and send me a sae with the correct payment, I could post you one.
Some munch organisers also have them.
lol

13 Apr 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
Go to a supermarket and hang around the fresh bread aisle - swingers will be the ones buying tiger bread.

I buy that :shock:
Louise xx

13 Apr 2007

I agree it's tough if you are a bit shy. Try to take the first step of striking up conversations with people, I know that is easier said than done. I am sure sexually brave people will respond more easily in a friendly manner than the usual run of folk. Then when the conversation is up and running make a slight sexual joke to see the reaction. Then mention in passing that you have a little more experience than the normal person. Each time you give the other person or couple something to respond to without burning your bridges.
Good luck anyway and if you have luck, come back and tell the rest of us how it is done.

13 Apr 2007

why not just come out with fancy a a threesome....
pretty direct to the point...if they so no, they so no.
if they say yes will you run away?

13 Apr 2007

Is it just me?
If a total stranger in a pub approached me and said "do you swing?" I would have to say "what's that?" :shock: :giggle:
Seriously, I would not go in to all that in a vanilla pub, to me, thats what the swing sites are for lol

13 Apr 2007

Quote by louise_and_joe
Go to a supermarket and hang around the fresh bread aisle - swingers will be the ones buying tiger bread.

I buy that :shock:

Seeeeeeeee - point proven? :lol:

13 Apr 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
Go to a supermarket and hang around the fresh bread aisle - swingers will be the ones buying tiger bread.

I buy that :shock:

Seeeeeeeee - point proven? :lol:
The thing is I dont get what you mean by it redface

or am i missing something................like a working brain :giggle:
Louise xx

13 Apr 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
Go to a supermarket and hang around the fresh bread aisle - swingers will be the ones buying tiger bread.

I buy that :shock:

we buy that too! :shock: :shock:
Seeeeeeeee - point proven? :lol:

13 Apr 2007

there was a thread while ago where some people said that swingers buy tiger bread and/or have Pampas grass in their garden.

13 Apr 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
there was a thread while ago where some people said that swingers buy tiger bread and/or have Pampas grass in their garden.

Ohh yeh I remember the grass bit. Ok. Point proven :lol:
When I go shopping tomorrow i'll have a look whos buying it.
Louise xx

13 Apr 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
there was a thread while ago where some people said that swingers buy tiger bread and/or have Pampas grass in their garden.

It's a theory we're working on since someone who stayed at ours commented that all the swingers they knew bought tiger bread too. Seems to be holding up so far :giggle: