How did you end up here

22 Nov 2009

Well I was looking for a swing for my garden.... lol

years later I still havent found the gardening department:angel:
ok.. truth is.. i was fairly fed up a couple of years after my husband left.. he had really left my confidence at an all time low.. a friend was a member on here and she showed me the site and i decided to join... i found the chat rooms and have made some amazing and wonderful friends.. and i have also learnt by being a member on here what a liar my ex was!! and that people do like big girls!!!!

22 Nov 2009

Quote by Witchy
Guess its as our sig says either that or we just stink. Not that we have had a huge amount of time to go looking though

You're not- I know other young (very lovely, but sadly very quiet of late) swingers in Bristol. :waves:
Sounds like theres a fair few of us then wave

I *think* we can just be classed as young (ish) lol.
Not sure I even remember how we found this place tbh. It's something i'd discussed with my ex, then discussed with *Him* and I think google was our friend. We joined, went to our first munch the next weekend and the rest as they say is history!
*Her*

22 Nov 2009

I was on the old site as well, just moved onto here when it came along. But the swinging scene has changed so much over the years, its no longer the same as it used to be and too many time wasters which is a shame.

22 Nov 2009

How old is this site then?

22 Nov 2009

T'was set up in 2002 I believe.
I joined the chatroom, an old MiRC thing without about 30 people in there on a saturday night, in 2003 aged a mere 22, the forums were kind of just a message board back then... a bit like group message boards, as was.
The previous owner, known as the Black Dalek, changed the boards then sold off the site and built a new life for himself somewhere abroad, with the site now being run by the Symbios group, or the 4 Tops, as they became known... then the rather more annon 'admin'. smile

The site is very much more different to how it used to be and rather more people in the chat and on the boards. I think there are only a handful of the people that were around in 2003, that I remember anyway. Some disappeared into the ether, others banned, some I suppose moved on or changed user names? Who knows. dunno

:)
HTH

22 Nov 2009

Quote by little gem
MiRC

When I joined the Chat room in Aug 2005 (as Dlep in chat, Plum in forum) I spent every waking hour in there (literally) I think I still have the (unofficial) record for longest time spent in there (which as I recall was 2 days, 5 hours and 32 minutes, and that's only because my laptop of the time crashed :shock: ) *Ahem*
The reason why I had two names concurrent was because I used the chat rooms to start off with and then was encouraged to use the forum (October 2005). I chose Dlep. However, when the site was taken over every user had to have only one name, and Dlep was deleted. When I was asked to be a Chat Op, I requested my name to be changed as most people had by then known me as Dlep and not Plum, so it was changed.
Now most people call me various names "Dollop" being most common, although as you can see from my signature there are an increasing amount of other nicknames I'm called now too rolleyes

23 Nov 2009

Quote by couplefunuk
Guess its as our sig says either that or we just stink. Not that we have had a huge amount of time to go looking though

You're not- I know other young (very lovely, but sadly very quiet of late) swingers in Bristol. :waves:
Sounds like theres a fair few of us then wave

I *think* we can just be classed as young (ish) lol.
Not sure I even remember how we found this place tbh. It's something i'd discussed with my ex, then discussed with *Him* and I think google was our friend. We joined, went to our first munch the next weekend and the rest as they say is history!
*Her*
I am clinging to the young banner with both hands. Not sure I can keep my grip past 35 so a few months to go yet.
We've discovered a rather nice Cocktail bar not to far from you BTW. Will be arranging an evening again soon (went Friday) Will send you a PM at some point.

23 Nov 2009

Wish we had found this site earlyer, although new to this site, and swinging, we are not new to the wold of porn, we showed pitures of Lady Alwych for many years on several web sites as we enjoyed voyuer side of things and mens feed back on those pictures.

23 Nov 2009

I came across this site a few years back and now im so glad....I have met my hubby through this site whilst swinging as a 4sum with my ex. Im so glad for swinging heaven!
We have had some great times swinging but i have my soulmate for life!

23 Nov 2009

we talked about it for many years and even put adds in contact mags back in the day but i kept chickening out actually meeting anyone
then we stumbled across dogging litterally, we had gone out for the night to the cinema which finished earlier than anticipated so decided to make most of evening and have a bit of outdoor fun so went to a car park we knew expecting it to b quiet as it was late at night and in the middle of nowhere but found it fuller than we had ever seen it in the day lol

frightened the life outta me but curiosity over took fear and we stuck around to find out what was occuring and then found ourselves becoming regular night time visitors to the car park
then after finding out our new activity was called dogging and getting our first pc we signed up to a few sites this being one of them and have since moved on to clubs and left dogging behind who needs a cold wet carpark when you can have a hot wet jacuzzi wink

24 Nov 2009

I took the wrong turn at Albuquerque and here we are.......was looking for Macrame addicts anonymous dunno

:doh:

24 Nov 2009

Quote by little gem
I was dragged in by the cat. ;)

Really, I used a well known search engine to look up what dogging was after the Stan Collymore episode was reported in a tabloid and I had never heard of it. I found the explanation that I was after, then the chatrooms, the forums later.
Good old Stan. :lol:

I remember the member figures jumping by the thousands after the publicity :lol:

24 Nov 2009

Quote by bouncy332
we talked about it for many years and even put adds in contact mags back in the day but i kept chickening out actually meeting anyone
then we stumbled across dogging litterally, we had gone out for the night to the cinema which finished earlier than anticipated so decided to make most of evening and have a bit of outdoor fun so went to a car park we knew expecting it to b quiet as it was late at night and in the middle of nowhere but found it fuller than we had ever seen it in the day frightened the life outta me but curiosity over took fear and we stuck around to find out what was occuring and then found ourselves becoming regular night time visitors to the car park
then after finding out our new activity was called dogging and getting our first pc we signed up to a few sites this being one of them and have since moved on to clubs and left dogging behind who needs a cold wet carpark when you can have a hot wet jacuzzi

now that sounds like fun :lol: