I apologise now in case this thread has been done before but as we are quite new here we will not know if it has already been covered, and may be interesting any way for all us new people.
We found our way here because I (Bluefish) wanted to see the wife (Lady Aldwych) with other men. Once the initial subject was broached, which was a big step for me, luckily we are both open minded, Lady Aldwych took to the idea very quickly and we played out the fantasy during love making. This enhanced our sex life by quite a bit.
We both got used to the idea very quickly and started to look for a site which could help us out. After popping in and out of this site for many months we thought we would give it a go.
After a very short time here we had our first meet with a new friend from Hampshire. If you’re interested in how this went you can read about it here.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/groups/1015/forum/thread/2503/
Our question is, how did you end up on this site and how did you first find your way into swinging
funny though
it's me age you know
lp
...but to keep it on topic, after all, one little comment wouldn't want to run on and become something... errm... personal would it? or bitter or anything?
... I was introduced to this site by a friend... she's done rather well for herself now, good on ya!
I didn't like the site at first, I was far more at home elsewhere that appeared much more intimate and friendly. However, that other place went the way of many, and became commercial...this site wasn't at the time, so I popped back in here for a looksee... appear o have been annoying ever since.
but 'swinging' in general?
well... no idea at all really.
Im no good whatsoever at relationships, and never prenteded I was... I like the 'liberated' feel of the scene... and had/have no expectations of it.
When people around about you have an open mind and are free to express that... be it funny, sarcastic, barbed... or indeed sexual... it all adds up to a rather lively 'thing' all in all.
I rather like it.
sometimes
lp
when I was newly single I wanted to shag people's wives without all that love or relationship stuff.......I googled swinging and this was the best site I could find. It still is.
its taken me a few years to even talk about this.
the person i loved i found dead in bed one morning.
i never dreamed of end up on sites like this because i just didnt need it i had what i wanted and needed but in a flash everything changed.
when i pulled myself together and started to go out again a friend introduced me to these sort of sites. was extremely nervous at first but that all soon changed when a few members invited me to socials and meet others.
now i enjoy it and just dedicated myself to what was important for me.
i still have her as a memory pushing me forward and driving me in places like the gym as i feel so cheated at what i had and lost.
at least those that have met me say im a nice guy so i must be doing something right.
Thanks for sharing your stories with us, it sure is a good site and has had a Profound effect on our lives. Hope to spend many more hours here making many more new friends.
I joined because of someone i was sort of seeing at the time, he told me he swung a little with his ex and i should take a look, so i looked and have met some truly lovelly people along the way but untimately its love that has kept me here as we like to meet people with similar interests
split with my husband, was very naiive didnt even know places like this existed, spent 2 yrs recovering from the smashing of my confidence he managed to induce, started using chat rooms on places like , joined a couple of friendship sites, got chatting to a guy in scotland, swapped msn etc, msn sessions got a bit more and more saucy each time, all of which was new to me, he pointed me in the direction of sh, i had a quick look round, put an ad up, got five million responses a day, (exageration but felt like it) panicked like hell, deleted advert and all emails and hid for a bit. Then mooched through some ads, replied to one guy and met him, then found the forums and lived on them for ages, used to rush home to see what had moved as they were hard to keep up with in those days, found the chat rooms a couple of yrs ago, been here 5 yrs now and never looked back.
I was looking to improve my golf swing and clicked on the wrong link.
I found bigger woods, bouncier balls and far more holes in here, so I stayed.
). Never looked back 
