How did you feel after your ''first'' time party??

3 Oct 2007

Hi as some of you know... im a person who keeps saying no to meets and socials, and parties.. out of fear more than anything else... but i have to say i dont know what i was worried about!!
I went to my first 'party' at the weekend... and it was nothing like i expected.. for astart no one had horns or fangs, or were wierd... everyone was so normal an nice...
2ndly no one forced me into to do anything i didnt want to do.....
3rdly everyone made me feel so welcome and no one thought ohoooohhhh a single female POUNCE!!! which is what i thought would happen.. not cos im anything special.. but simply because im single, bi and at a couple party!!!!!!
and no one thought i was after there husbands and thewoman made me feel like one of them.........
So im starting a thread, just to see if i am the only one who was scared to meet an greet.. did anyone else shit themselves sideways at the thought of turning up to a house not knowing what would happen??
and after all done.. did you feel like me and think..........NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HEHE... anyway would love to hear about any one elses scarymary moments so i dont feel such a wooose...
furby xxx

3 Oct 2007

exackly the same i was so bad i booked a hotel just in case i had to do a runner out of the back door. now its a case of "any floor space please" :twisted:

3 Oct 2007

I think i shall keep a duvet in the back of the car at all times... just in case!

3 Oct 2007

LOL

furbs, i was sooooooo nervous from when I put our names down for our first party in may. Theres a thread about it somewhere with a diart of my feelings from may to the party in september. I can assure you you are not alone in your feelings lol

Afterwards I wanted one every weekend..... lol

3 Oct 2007

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3 Oct 2007

Thanks sara kiss

youre a gem lol

3 Oct 2007

Furby, I am still the way you were about house parties.
I feel exactly how you felt, but at the same time I'd quite like to go to one.
But I'm a big scaredy cat.
Did you go on your own?

3 Oct 2007

We felt exactly the same, then wondered what we had been worried about!

3 Oct 2007

Was a great experience though by 4:00 a.m started to flag lol

It is strange how nervous we feel on doing these things then wonder why we did biggrin

3 Oct 2007

We were taken to our first and only house party by a lovely couple. Yes we were very nervous! It's lucky they were with us as I don't think we could have coped on our own confused

Having said that though it turned out not to be the thing for us. I don't know if we're abit prudish after all or whether it was the amount of single males there were just hanging around the different doorways or whether it was just the fact that everyone was complete strangers to us. Either way we're not waiting with bated breath for another.
Arn't we wusses lol

3 Oct 2007

I've never been to a house party from here so I can't comment on that, but i can say that the first munch I went to I was absolutely petrified and even whilst getting ready had a paddy and said that I wasn't going and I was going to stay in the hotel room on my own. Luckily the lovely lady I was sharing a room with managed to calm me down and I turned out having a fab night lol

3 Oct 2007

Quote by firelizard
We were taken to our first and only house party by a lovely couple. Yes we were very nervous! It's lucky they were with us as I don't think we could have coped on our own
Having said that though it turned out not to be the thing for us. I don't know if we're abit prudish after all or whether it was the amount of single males there were just hanging around the different doorways or whether it was just the fact that everyone was complete strangers to us. Either way we're not waiting with bated breath for another.
Arn't we wusses

No we dont think your wusses for sure! Luckily the parties we have gone to have all but one been couples only, and then the largest party was in a BIG house with 14/16 of us there. Plenty of space and the dining room was a great chillout zone
We did go to one party where the guys outnumbered the girls by quite a few and it was all a bit seedy compared to the 1:1 ratio ones (sorry but its the truth) It was a little oppressive so we said that we were sorry but decided it was not our thing and left about an hour later still fully clothed and actually feeling distinctly unhorny.

3 Oct 2007

Quote by poshkate
I've never been to a house party from here so I can't comment on that, but i can say that the first munch I went to I was absolutely petrified and even whilst getting ready had a paddy and said that I wasn't going and I was going to stay in the hotel room on my own. Luckily the lovely lady I was sharing a room with managed to calm me down and I turned out having a fab night

You?? Scared, wow... i'm shocked, Bless you xxx.
Mike x

3 Oct 2007

I had a wonderful time at my first party and felt wonderful afterwards as well....
:twisted:

3 Oct 2007

We went to a party some time ago and decided that it was'nt for us, but would perhaps try it again redface

maybe we were just too nervous.
Invites on a blank post please. lol

3 Oct 2007

Quote by mdr2000
I've never been to a house party from here so I can't comment on that, but i can say that the first munch I went to I was absolutely petrified and even whilst getting ready had a paddy and said that I wasn't going and I was going to stay in the hotel room on my own. Luckily the lovely lady I was sharing a room with managed to calm me down and I turned out having a fab night

You?? Scared, wow... i'm shocked, Bless you xxx.
Mike x
I was.....I'm a shy thing deep down really......got myself worked up into a right tis-was about it :lol2: Needn't have done though....everyone was lovely and friendly, and only a few of them had horns :giggle:

3 Oct 2007

Quote by poshkate
I've never been to a house party from here so I can't comment on that, but i can say that the first munch I went to I was absolutely petrified and even whilst getting ready had a paddy and said that I wasn't going and I was going to stay in the hotel room on my own. Luckily the lovely lady I was sharing a room with managed to calm me down and I turned out having a fab night

You?? Scared, wow... i'm shocked, Bless you xxx.
Mike x
I was.....I'm a shy thing deep down really......got myself worked up into a right tis-was about it :lol2: Needn't have done though....everyone was lovely and friendly, and only a few of them had horns :giggle:
Bet the ones with horns were men lol

3 Oct 2007

Im so pleased that i wasnt the only one who felt like this .... i have turned down so many nice peoples offers for meets, and socials.. now im looking bck an wondering what ive missed out on!!!
How many partys is to many partys to go to in a week!!
furby x

3 Oct 2007

I went to my 1st party as a single fem and was absolutley SHITTING myself redface

but had arranged with a great couple from here to get a lift there and back(ty mr &mrs NWC) I spoke with mrsNWc a few times beforehand and felt sooo comfy with her, but was still a bag of chatted all the way there like we had always known each other, which was fabb!! I walked in and everyone knew me FFS!! the embarressing bit for me was asking who people were redface

I thought everyone was going to be super models and up their own ass's but they were NORMAL!! had a fab time and played loads,(I was dragged out kicking & screaming about 4am i think)OHH how I miss the singleton days xxxj

3 Oct 2007

Quote by FurbyHug
Im so pleased that i wasnt the only one who felt like this .... i have turned down so many nice peoples offers for meets, and socials.. now im looking bck an wondering what ive missed out on!!!
How many partys is to many partys to go to in a week!!
furby x

hehe i would say 8 is 1 too many in a week lol

3 Oct 2007

We have had a few parties at my "wee shed" and we try to make everyone welcome whether it is their first party or their 1000th.
Once you get to know people well, then its easier and sometimes just chatting to them in chat can work wonders cos it can bring out the best and worst in some people.
Even by reading regular postings by someone can give you an idea of that person/s sense of humour, their morals and such like.
You should be in no rush and never feel obligated to attend anything, take things at your own pace and it should be great.
Sooo furby when you coming up to Bonnie Scotland then wink

4 Oct 2007

Quote by woohoo
We have had a few parties at my "wee shed" and we try to make everyone welcome whether it is their first party or their 1000th.
Once you get to know people well, then its easier and sometimes just chatting to them in chat can work wonders cos it can bring out the best and worst in some people.
Even by reading regular postings by someone can give you an idea of that person/s sense of humour, their morals and such like.
You should be in no rush and never feel obligated to attend anything, take things at your own pace and it should be great.
Sooo furby when you coming up to Bonnie Scotland then

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh when i get a tom tom, a new car and a sense of direction!!!! ohhhhh and some money!! ohhhhhh and an invite!!!
lol..
when you coming to pboro !!!
lol.. you rock whoooooooooohooooooooooooo
((((((((((((((((furbyhugs)))))))))))))))))))

28 Nov 2007

I was shitting myself the first time i had a visitor off here , so much so that I ended up absolutely plastered.
Luckily she was a very nice forgiving woman and we had fun anyway.

28 Nov 2007

Quote by Staggerlee
I was shitting myself the first time i had a visitor off here , so much so that I ended up absolutely plastered.
Luckily she was a very nice forgiving woman and we had fun anyway.

you prob had nothing to be forgiven for ... at least you had the balls to meet in the first place.. Its hard to find that someone special.. or even someones!! keep the faith, keep smiling, and keep the hats on ... hugs an kisses...
furby xx

30 Nov 2007

i was more nervous about munches and socials than parties biggrin

mainly cus im not a sociable person at all so not good at the chatting in big groups thing ..... but i wasnt to nervous about meeting for sex biggrin

i was also nervous about going to a club because i thought all the other women would be young and skinny ..... how wrong i was .... and i had a great time and couldnt wait to go again biggrin

4 Dec 2007

Each time Ive been invited to a houseparty Ive either had to work or a prior commitment I couldn't change :cry:
The clubs Ive been to Ive REALLY enjoyed :grin: , the socials Ive been to have been excellent :cheers:
So Im still waiting to be invited to a houseparty I can actually attend (hint hint)
Still its my birthday on sat Jan 5th, maybe I should arrange a b'day meet at chams and get b'day fooked silly?
mmmmmmmm The Minx :rascal: xxxxxxxxx