How did you get noticed ?

7 Aug 2008

Afternoon all
A few pointers plse, We are a couple (male & bi female) and currently struggling to meet anyone genuine who is within a commutable area (say 50 mile for argument sake)who is around our age for some fun
Does / Did anyone out there have the same trouble and did you manage to reverse the trend ?
Answers on a postcard to the usual address :-)
Thanks in advance for your help
x

7 Aug 2008

Hiya

There are a few ways ... I notice you joined in Aug 07 but you only have 2 posts on the forum.
The Forum .. a great way to make friends, get to know people, find out how they tick :) You will also find out about socials.
Socials .. exactly that .. a great way to put faces to names and meet people. Most socials are held locally and can be an excellent starting place.
The Chatroom .. pretty much like the Forum but in real time.
Adverts .. having a good advert and linking it with the forum and chatroom can increase your profile.
:thumbsup:
It just depends what you "cup of tea" is ... put effort in and the rewards are definitely there.
Callie biggrin

7 Aug 2008

I notice people by watching them chat to other people in the chatroom. Or, I watch them post in here and approach them. As my most successful meets have been with people whom I have approached that is the way I 'weigh' them up.
Welcome by the way.
xx

7 Aug 2008

I post a lot innocent

:whistling:

7 Aug 2008

I've had a good look at your profile and your ads and although I can't say that my opinion or ideas will make any difference this is what I think.
It's great that you have some face pics up, but by the sound of it you have some great assets to show too, get some sexy pics up, doesn't have to be full on, suggestive works well.
You could also put an av on here for forum posts, which help people remember who you are and notice you easier.
You have 2 ads up at the moment, but one of them is out of date. Kick the out of date one and dont forget to regularly renew the current one.
I don't know if it is just me, but I get a bit annoyed when I keep hearing the word 'geniune' it implies that you get mucked about a lot and to be honest, you could find yourself attracting more weirdos because of it, as they think you're fair game. It is better to concentrate on what you have to offer and what you like, than negative things.
You also are looking for something very specific. A lot of couples are not just looking for female bi fun, it sounds a little to me like your objective is to find girl on girl play, which might put the guy in a couple off. Are you open to soft swap, full swap? Do you want to make friends with other couples or have one off meets?
Of course there is nothing wrong with it if you are looking for girls to share, but you might just find as there are less of them about you will have to wait longer to get the right combination.
Hope you don't mind me saying this and good luck. You look like a nice couple from what I can see and I'm sure you will have lots of fun.
Vx

7 Aug 2008

All of what venus has said is spot on. (I hadn't looked at your profile before) What I would say in addition to you wanting the whole bi fem thing, if that was my bag I would want to see a picture of you both together that would indicate that you are actually a couple. In the heady days when I considered couples I got a lot of 'interest' from couples where the female wasn't actually able to answer the phone, go on cam, turn up for the meet etc.

7 Aug 2008

Quote by flower411
All of what venus has said is spot on. (I hadn't looked at your profile before) What I would say in addition to you wanting the whole bi fem thing, if that was my bag I would want to see a picture of you both together that would indicate that you are actually a couple. In the heady days when I considered couples I got a lot of 'interest' from couples where the female wasn't actually able to answer the phone, go on cam, turn up for the meet etc.

That`s why we use the chatrooms and open our own room ...
Mrs f really really doesn`t like chatting on the phone or having anything at all to do with the arranging process rolleyes

But she`s perfectly happy to be seen on cam so that people know that we are a couple lol

She is also ok with going to socials :lol: as long as nobody talks to her :roll: :roll: :roll:
Fuck me !!!!! what the hell am I doing with this woman ??? :shock:
you are meant to take the hired doll back to the fancy dress shop after the stag...lol

7 Aug 2008

Quote by venus68
I've had a good look at your profile and your ads and although I can't say that my opinion or ideas will make any difference this is what I think.
It's great that you have some face pics up, but by the sound of it you have some great assets to show too, get some sexy pics up, doesn't have to be full on, suggestive works well.
You could also put an av on here for forum posts, which help people remember who you are and notice you easier.
You have 2 ads up at the moment, but one of them is out of date. Kick the out of date one and dont forget to regularly renew the current one.
I don't know if it is just me, but I get a bit annoyed when I keep hearing the word 'geniune' it implies that you get mucked about a lot and to be honest, you could find yourself attracting more weirdos because of it, as they think you're fair game. It is better to concentrate on what you have to offer and what you like, than negative things.
You also are looking for something very specific. A lot of couples are not just looking for female bi fun, it sounds a little to me like your objective is to find girl on girl play, which might put the guy in a couple off. Are you open to soft swap, full swap? Do you want to make friends with other couples or have one off meets?
Of course there is nothing wrong with it if you are looking for girls to share, but you might just find as there are less of them about you will have to wait longer to get the right combination.
Hope you don't mind me saying this and good luck. You look like a nice couple from what I can see and I'm sure you will have lots of fun.
Vx

now those are the gospel facts!

8 Aug 2008

How did I get noticed, I never noticed being noticed.
I post a lot, sometimes I do not even offend people.
I am told that posting is good. Others who like the way you post will notice you if you keep posting. It lets people get to know you. If they like you they may drop a PM.
The thing is the cafe is full of surprises, I had one last week.
My advice read the post, say something you real believe. Do not be afraid of a joke....and see what happens.
Ttravis

8 Aug 2008

:welcome: gordi1975
I got my butt cheeks out & then ended up cooking pork chops for me first meet!
:doh: The things a single guy has to lower himself too! redface

But hey... your not that far from a major city are you?
Just chill out for a bit get to know a few more peeps in the chat rooms forums etc... before long one social will expand your group of contacts & then hey presto... you too will be cookin' pork chops! :giggle:

Quote by splendid_
As my most successful meets have been with people whom I have approached that is the way I 'weigh' them up.

I just may let you handle my balls & weigh them up with a view to some afternoon tiffing? :twisted:

9 Aug 2008

Outdoor_sex Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 6:11 pm Post subject:
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All of the above, and if and when I get noticed
if it was anything not already covered, I will let you know. Good luck in finding what you are looking for..
Just wanted to say yay yay Patrick !!!!