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How did you know your partner was ''''the one''''
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Sex God
I thought he would have a huge willy .....and then by the time I found out, he had me anyway 
Sexlightened
she told me!
Sex God
I didnt
Still dont..
It just progressed into what it is today
Still dont..
It just progressed into what it is today
Sex God
J knew I was the one when I told her my name was Duncan Macloud and I went around trying to lop some peoples heads off 
Truth is we went on a blind date and I said to myself if she comes out with me the night after then I'd marry her. She did and 3 years later we were wed. A good days work Mr Lost respect! :thumbup:
Truth is we went on a blind date and I said to myself if she comes out with me the night after then I'd marry her. She did and 3 years later we were wed. A good days work Mr Lost respect! :thumbup:
Sex God
I don't know. Can you know?
I mean in the past there has been an occasion where I thought I knew. Turns out I couldn't have been further from the mark... I was well and truly shafted and my heart broken.
I'm not so sure anymore. Maybe I'm just cynical. Maybe I'll change my mind and know the answer one day. I just don't envisage meeting someone and having that 'moment' of love at first sight.
Oh bugger it, I'm off to sit in a corner and be unromantic all by myself...
Rest of you carry on with the nice stuff!
I mean in the past there has been an occasion where I thought I knew. Turns out I couldn't have been further from the mark... I was well and truly shafted and my heart broken.
I'm not so sure anymore. Maybe I'm just cynical. Maybe I'll change my mind and know the answer one day. I just don't envisage meeting someone and having that 'moment' of love at first sight.
Oh bugger it, I'm off to sit in a corner and be unromantic all by myself...
Rest of you carry on with the nice stuff!
I've been thinking about this :shock:
Can we ever really know? Surely life changes us, and shapes us day in, day out. Mr right when you're 25 may be Mr Very Wrong when you're 39.
Some relationships will see people grow together, some apart.
Things change, and people change....I'm having a Transvision Vamp moment.
In edit- Nola, may I join you in pragmatic corner?
Can we ever really know? Surely life changes us, and shapes us day in, day out. Mr right when you're 25 may be Mr Very Wrong when you're 39.
Some relationships will see people grow together, some apart.
Things change, and people change....I'm having a Transvision Vamp moment.
In edit- Nola, may I join you in pragmatic corner?
Quote by danne-gary
as soon as i saw him and he looked at me, i fell in love but as it was a "meet" via here i never thought he would want more than nsa fun
thank goodness he did and that we both plucked up courage to tell each other that eventually
Same goes for me to.....thought she would never be interested in me tho as I am nothin special in my eyes.....thank goodness for sh....I found the love of my life xxxx :)
Gary....
Sex God
Quote by winchwench
In edit- Nola, may I join you in pragmatic corner?
Please do... :rose:
:wink:
Sex God
Quote by noladreams30
In edit- Nola, may I join you in pragmatic corner?
Please do... :rose:
:wink:
And me too please.....
Quote by TanKinky
I didnt
Still dont..
It just progressed into what it is today
Miss Unromantic along with Mr Couldnt-give-a-flying-fuck
Oh and hyperthetically i wont spend the rest of my life with him that is of course if everything goes to plan
Sorry boney am off to join winchy and nola in the corner
Surely (almost) everyone who ever got married, and subsequently divorced believed -wholeheartedly- they'd met "the one."
Just goes to show, we change. Falling out of love with someone is as commonplace as falling into it.
I think it's more realistic to say we've met "the best person for us at that time."
IMHO, unless you're on your deathbed looking back on your life, it's impossible to say for sure.
Nola, Tan......pass the vino, but I'll skip the hearts & flowers
Just goes to show, we change. Falling out of love with someone is as commonplace as falling into it.
I think it's more realistic to say we've met "the best person for us at that time."
IMHO, unless you're on your deathbed looking back on your life, it's impossible to say for sure.
Nola, Tan......pass the vino, but I'll skip the hearts & flowers
Sex God
Quote by winchwench
Surely (almost) everyone who ever got married, and subsequently divorced believed -wholeheartedly- they'd met "the one."
Just goes to show, we change. Falling out of love with someone is as commonplace as falling into it.
I think it's more realistic to say we've met "the best person for us at that time."
IMHO, unless you're on your deathbed looking back on your life, it's impossible to say for sure.
Nola, Tan......pass the vino, but I'll skip the hearts & flowers
:thumbup: Oh and I'll happily pass on the hearts, unless they're of the swizzley sweetie Love Heart variety... cos I could do with a bit of a sugar fix at the mo!
Sex God
Quote by noladreams30
I don't know. Can you know?
I mean in the past there has been an occasion where I thought I knew. Turns out I couldn't have been further from the mark... I was well and truly shafted and my heart broken.
I'm not so sure anymore. Maybe I'm just cynical. Maybe I'll change my mind and know the answer one day. I just don't envisage meeting someone and having that 'moment' of love at first sight.
Oh bugger it, I'm off to sit in a corner and be unromantic all by myself...
Rest of you carry on with the nice stuff!
Room for one more?
Sex God
I used to live in hope of finding 'the one'
I gave up a long time ago. Im of the opinion if ya look ya dont find, so Ive given up looking
I gave up a long time ago. Im of the opinion if ya look ya dont find, so Ive given up looking
Sex God
Quote by flower411
I started a thread some time ago about knowing "the one"
As others have mentioned things change and we move on, either voluntarily or we get pushed.
Mrs flower isn`t my "one" and I`m not hers either, but due to the experiences we have had in our lives I strongly suspect that we will grow old together.
Don`t get me wrong, this is not a "second best" thing it`s just a case of finding that maybe perfection isn`t the goal but compromise and acceptance is ..
I left "the one" many years ago and I wouldn`t change much, maybe the bitterness and violence could have been toned down a bit
Oh and btw !! I know this is a bit contradictory, but all I can say to anybody who was gonna point that out is ....
Summed it up far better than i could
To me "the one" (in my head) is quite perfect but its not only the person who is perfect its the life and that never works out imo anyway fecked that up at 15 :roll: and i accepted a few years ago my life wasnt headed for the perfection route :dunno: 
Sex God
I'll join those in the pragmatic corner if I may?
I didn't know that MrFB was 'the one'. I didn't feel as if I'd been hit by some strange feeling, it just became what it is now. It's evolved into a strong relationship with a new dimension added by our experiences in the last few years. I dare say it will evolve further too. As long as we're happy, does it matter if you've not had a feeling of 'yippeee, they're the one!'?
I didn't know that MrFB was 'the one'. I didn't feel as if I'd been hit by some strange feeling, it just became what it is now. It's evolved into a strong relationship with a new dimension added by our experiences in the last few years. I dare say it will evolve further too. As long as we're happy, does it matter if you've not had a feeling of 'yippeee, they're the one!'?
Quote by Freckledbird
I'll join those in the pragmatic corner if I may?
I didn't know that MrFB was 'the one'. I didn't feel as if I'd been hit by some strange feeling, it just became what it is now. It's evolved into a strong relationship with a new dimension added by our experiences in the last few years. I dare say it will evolve further too. As long as we're happy, does it matter if you've not had a feeling of 'yippeee, they're the one!'?
I just wanted to say I always knew by hubby was the one, but that doesn't mean to say it has always been plain sailing, there have been many times over the years where we have both questioned if we had made the right choices. I believe as you have said Fecks it is also about evolving.
Life is to me like an obstacle race it is finding out if you have the strength to get over the obstacles together, and never get complacent.
As they say true love never runs smoothly.
You know the saying the grass always looks greener on the other side!
My views on this is, it as green, needs watering as much, still needs attending and cutting as often, and weeds would still appear.
Sex God
Quote by Freckledbird
I'll join those in the pragmatic corner if I may?
I didn't know that MrFB was 'the one'. I didn't feel as if I'd been hit by some strange feeling, it just became what it is now. It's evolved into a strong relationship with a new dimension added by our experiences in the last few years. I dare say it will evolve further too. As long as we're happy, does it matter if you've not had a feeling of 'yippeee, they're the one!'?
:thumbup: Oooh, there's hope for me yet then!! :giggle:
I sometimes think I'd be a bit scared by the whole all-consuming-thunderbolt-feeling-thing to be honest... once bitten and all that. But I like the sound of that FB, think something that evolves and develops sounds like something I could handle a bit better.
Nola x
Sex God
Quote by Freckledbird
I'll join those in the pragmatic corner if I may?
I didn't know that MrFB was 'the one'. I didn't feel as if I'd been hit by some strange feeling, it just became what it is now. It's evolved into a strong relationship with a new dimension added by our experiences in the last few years. I dare say it will evolve further too. As long as we're happy, does it matter if you've not had a feeling of 'yippeee, they're the one!'?
Just about sums it up for me as well :thumbup:
