How did you react after your first dabble :)

5 Feb 2010

Come on now its confession time. How did you feel and what was it like after your first dabble into swingworld? No i don't mean jazz, you know what I mean biggrin

Were you sullen and quiet. were you excited and could hardly stop from jumping up and down like a loony. Did you feel dirty, liberated, sexy, sluttish, gulity, did it not even make you bat an eye for good or bad?
I know our first Swing was a horror, with guilt, shame, fright & worry all over the shop. Getting over it took a lot out of us both although I think in ways it brought us together emotionally far more than most things, Because of fundemantal newbie errors made by us through not researching how to do things better our first was at the very most an unmitigated disaster. However, because we came to realise what we had done wrong we decided that as swinging was something we really did want to try and experience previous to this awful first swing, that we would do it once more and that would make it or break it for us.
Well our next swing though a nervous start went really well and we still thank that (swing, and actually we regard it as our first swing usually nowadays) for making it the great experience it was. After it had happened we couldn't stop talking about it and in an upbeat way. an altogether "freeing" experience.:swingingchair:

5 Feb 2010

I had many firsts. First with someone's wife. First with a man at all. First as a couple with a couple/single man/woman/ two bi-men.
I have enjoyed them all. I do much prefer swinging with worlass as the pleasure at seeing her have pleasure is intense. Seeing someone else making her cum somehow deepens the feelings of love I have for her. Also seeing someone so obviously attracted to her makes me appreciate her more too.

5 Feb 2010

The first time as a threesome was fantastic, all of us were buzzing for months after, and people commented that we were looking well/lost weight or seemed happy lol.
I would recommend it to anyone.

5 Feb 2010

I have to admit the first one was really good, very relaxed, good company, sexy as hell and I`m just happy that he knew what he was doing even tho I shook his hand when he first came in, we still laugh about that now, however some of the meetings after weren`t so good and I`m really glad it started the way it did, and ended the way it did with BMW being first and last :inlove:

5 Feb 2010

We had talked about having a 3sum for months before we actually did it. We'd chatted to the guy for quite a while but I don't think anything actually prepares you for it! A lot of people say the fantasy is better than the reality but in this case that 3sum was way better.
We were buzzing afterwards. However for a couple of days after we both felt really down - I think it was probably just coming down from the experience but that was also something we weren't prepared for. Maybe that only happens the first couple of times because it hasn't happened since.
That first experience definitely left us wanting more but I've got to say that 3sum was definitely one of the best we've had. :twisted:
Mrs Secksy

5 Feb 2010

Quote by Lost
Come on now its confession time. How did you feel and what was it like after your first dabble into swingworld? No i don't mean jazz, you know what I mean Were you sullen and quiet. were you excited and could hardly stop from jumping up and down like a loony. Did you feel dirty, liberated, sexy, sluttish, gulity, did it not even make you bat an eye for good or bad?
I know our first Swing was a horror, with guilt, shame, fright & worry all over the shop. Getting over it took a lot out of us both although I think in ways it brought us together emotionally far more than most things, Because of fundemantal newbie errors made by us through not researching how to do things better our first was at the very most an unmitigated disaster. However, because we came to realise what we had done wrong we decided that as swinging was something we really did want to try and experience previous to this awful first swing, that we would do it once more and that would make it or break it for us.
Well our next swing though a nervous start went really well and we still thank that (swing, and actually we regard it as our first swing usually nowadays) for making it the great experience it was. After it had happened we couldn't stop talking about it and in an upbeat way. an altogether "freeing" experience.
:swingingchair:

Our first was fantastic, however we spent lots of time talking and planning and reading, We even wrote up a contract/ agreement which we both signed wink

Torn it up since as things moved forward so fast. Best thing of all was we shagged none stop for weeks after while talking dirty to each other about the meet.

5 Feb 2010

After my first dabble I gave timothy a quick wipe on the curtains, dressed and left. It felt kind of rough (cheap curtains I guess) but I still went back for more lol

5 Feb 2010

Quote by goodporking
After my first dabble I gave timothy a quick wipe on the curtains, dressed and left. It felt kind of rough (cheap curtains I guess) but I still went back for more

:laughabove::laughabove::laughabove:

5 Feb 2010

Quote by Lost
Come on now its confession time. How did you feel and what was it like after your first dabble into swingworld? No i don't mean jazz, you know what I mean Were you sullen and quiet. were you excited and could hardly stop from jumping up and down like a loony. Did you feel dirty, liberated, sexy, sluttish, gulity, did it not even make you bat an eye for good or bad?
I know our first Swing was a horror, with guilt, shame, fright & worry all over the shop. Getting over it took a lot out of us both although I think in ways it brought us together emotionally far more than most things, Because of fundemantal newbie errors made by us through not researching how to do things better our first was at the very most an unmitigated disaster. However, because we came to realise what we had done wrong we decided that as swinging was something we really did want to try and experience previous to this awful first swing, that we would do it once more and that would make it or break it for us.
Well our next swing though a nervous start went really well and we still thank that (swing, and actually we regard it as our first swing usually nowadays) for making it the great experience it was. After it had happened we couldn't stop talking about it and in an upbeat way. an altogether "freeing" experience.
:swingingchair:

My first dabble was with my ex wife and another couple we swapped partners and loved it xxx this went on for over a year.
My dabble in to threesomes was with an older experienced couple and this again went on for 3 years with them .
No bad feelings at all in either scenario and the same fun element is still there to this day with 2 couples I see regularly......all fun a giggles and of course lots of sex.
trav..

5 Feb 2010

Quote by goodporking
After my first dabble I gave timothy a quick wipe on the curtains, dressed and left. It felt kind of rough (cheap curtains I guess) but I still went back for more

Nothing worse than rough haberdashery :giggle:

6 Feb 2010

My first introduction to swinging came when I worked the doors of clubs and pub's in the northeast, one night a young woman came to me on the door, with what I thought was going to be a complaint, but instead she asked if I would take her home and have sex with her in front of her husband who was in the bar,now she was a very good looking woman, and my first thought's were along the line's of(I go home with them,get down and dirty with her, her bent over the sofa, me with my trousers around my ankle's in storm's two or three past adversaries, me getting a kicking with said trouser's holding me rooted to the spot, and with a hard on) not a good look, being a young hot blooded male the only thing to do was strike a deal, we ended up in the back of there car, while hubby drives around the town for an hour,a good time was had by all, went on to be a regular thing every couple of week's, and never looked back

6 Feb 2010

oh my, our first, lets fire up the memory banks lol

After much horny fantasing about xxxx who we both fancied like mad, we all got quite drunk in the student union bar and at some point kev suggested to xxxx that he come back with us,
I still remember the tube journey home, i was so excited i couldnt sit down and kev and xxxx were both laughing at me, tho when i sat betweeen them it brought out my exhibitionist side :twisted: theres still one commuter on the victoria line who must have been wondering quite wat he wittnessed :giggle:
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Well now, this thread takes my mind back to London also - was it 1968 or 1969? Anyway a similar memory of the Tube is involved, the Northern line comes to mind.
Perhaps you meet a better class of person on the Victoria line?
Plim wink

7 Feb 2010

Shook hands and said "thank you very much" and left.