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i have this thing about looking at personal ads, for some reason, they attract my attention, perving at the pics, reading the pearls of wisdom contained within etc
so i googled personal ads, and somewhere in the listings, it showed SH, so i popped in, and while looking at the site, found they had a chatroom
enjoyed the chat and the banter, so stuck around a few days, then started to join in, and then found i couldnt leave the place
i still, to this day dont consider myself a swinger, i just happen to have friends and aquaintances involved in the swinging scene
Pulled into a country park car park to have a wee, interior light goes on in a car about 10 feet away, woman in car waves me over, so I wonder over(thinking i'm gonna get mugged or something!) she's starker's sitting next to hubby and I ended up shagging both of them!!
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Pulled into a country park car park to have a wee, interior light goes on in a car about 10 feet away, woman in car waves me over, so I wonder over(thinking i'm gonna get mugged or something!) she's starker's sitting next to hubby and I ended up shagging both of them!!

Oh my God!!!!!! :shock:
Me and my ex were talking one night about fantasies and what we'd like to try and I mentioned other women. We never did get around to doing anything about it so when we split last year I decided to give it a go. I found SH when I googled and I've been here ever since. Damn glad I gave it a go too :thumbup:
Went to a club with a expartner and got hooked lol
i discovered the joys of 3som sex and the couples scene through the backdoor i.e naturism,though not literally lol
well i discovered swinging by chance chatting to a couple in a chatroom boring i guess but we all start somewhere dont we really even thou i knew it excisted before
i had internet access i was quite unaware of the swingclub lifestyle and other activitys that have been going on for any years i guess it also depends where you live
and what your social circals were well that was the case in the 1970s and 80s
but obvously the internet has opened it up to everyone wether that for the better im not sure biggrin
I was (what I now know to be) swinging from my late teens.
My very first experience was with a couple I knew. She fancied his mate and he said he wouldn't mind giving me one. So one night the drinks flowed, we played strip-poker, the baby oil came out and it just seemed to happen from there.
I also had a CB for sometime - it was pretty much like the chatroom.
And how I found this place....
Well I had changed jobs and was travelling much more to small towns in the back of beyond (rather than just plodding along motorways). I didn't have hands-free on my mobile so I found myself pulling over a fair bit to check messages on my way home. I decided it was probably better to use the lay-by with more people in (rather than be the only car). As this was November time it was dark and it didn't take long before I came across lay-bys with flashing interior lights. I had noticed a few strange goings-on and being the nosey fecker that I am, one evening I asked one of the guys who walked by my car. I had a full and detailed verbal intro into dogging. He also told me about websites etc - so google brought me here.
Having always been attracted to the more unorthodox side of sex - I felt right at home amongst the pervs and deviants.
This is a really good question - it made me think back.
I guess it all kind of "started" when after a pretty intense 3 day relationship with a lady from Cambridge. After explaining that what we had was only physical as her husband was "unable" she then recommended me to a friend...
The rest as they say is history.
As for the internet, I am still undecided - but it is a big world out there and I do like new places and to make new friends. biggrin
Gambit
Had been talking about fetish clubs with a friend of mine for some time then one day I just decided that I'd go so hired an outfit and went along to Torture Garden ... through one of the fetish clubs I heard about a swingers club 'Mystique' (now defunct I think) and basically it's gone on from there. Dabble a bit with dogging once or twice a month but am not hardcore about that as I find it a bit of a waste of time in the sense that there are lots of other things I can/should be doing with my evenings than sit in near empty car parks ...
Found this site two years ago but just had quick looks through the ads to see what went on (and have a perv lol ).
Then i was i'll just over a year ago and thought i was a gona and i thought well let's look into it more so i joined up.
good heavens! so many varied beginnings!
i answered an ad when i was 18 from a couple in north london, met in a pub for a few drinks and then back to their place for my initiation from which I have yet to recover ............. and have enjoyed ever since!
most fun when with lady friends with similar "tastes" but still good as part of a MF sandwich! can't say that i'm "addicted" (well, maybe just a bit!) yet not averse to leading the conversation in that direction!
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One of the best answers to this question was given to me by a "youngster" I had coffee and cakeybun with recently.
"Years. I just didn't realise my that sexlife was called swinging"

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