i have this thing about looking at personal ads, for some reason, they attract my attention, perving at the pics, reading the pearls of wisdom contained within etc
so i googled personal ads, and somewhere in the listings, it showed SH, so i popped in, and while looking at the site, found they had a chatroom
enjoyed the chat and the banter, so stuck around a few days, then started to join in, and then found i couldnt leave the place
i still, to this day dont consider myself a swinger, i just happen to have friends and aquaintances involved in the swinging scene
Pulled into a country park car park to have a wee, interior light goes on in a car about 10 feet away, woman in car waves me over, so I wonder over(thinking i'm gonna get mugged or something!) she's starker's sitting next to hubby and I ended up shagging both of them!!
Me and my ex were talking one night about fantasies and what we'd like to try and I mentioned other women. We never did get around to doing anything about it so when we split last year I decided to give it a go. I found SH when I googled and I've been here ever since. Damn glad I gave it a go too :thumbup:
I was (what I now know to be) swinging from my late teens.
My very first experience was with a couple I knew. She fancied his mate and he said he wouldn't mind giving me one. So one night the drinks flowed, we played strip-poker, the baby oil came out and it just seemed to happen from there.
I also had a CB for sometime - it was pretty much like the chatroom.
And how I found this place....
Well I had changed jobs and was travelling much more to small towns in the back of beyond (rather than just plodding along motorways). I didn't have hands-free on my mobile so I found myself pulling over a fair bit to check messages on my way home. I decided it was probably better to use the lay-by with more people in (rather than be the only car). As this was November time it was dark and it didn't take long before I came across lay-bys with flashing interior lights. I had noticed a few strange goings-on and being the nosey fecker that I am, one evening I asked one of the guys who walked by my car. I had a full and detailed verbal intro into dogging. He also told me about websites etc - so google brought me here.
Having always been attracted to the more unorthodox side of sex - I felt right at home amongst the pervs and deviants.
Had been talking about fetish clubs with a friend of mine for some time then one day I just decided that I'd go so hired an outfit and went along to Torture Garden ... through one of the fetish clubs I heard about a swingers club 'Mystique' (now defunct I think) and basically it's gone on from there. Dabble a bit with dogging once or twice a month but am not hardcore about that as I find it a bit of a waste of time in the sense that there are lots of other things I can/should be doing with my evenings than sit in near empty car parks ...
good heavens! so many varied beginnings!
i answered an ad when i was 18 from a couple in north london, met in a pub for a few drinks and then back to their place for my initiation from which I have yet to recover ............. and have enjoyed ever since!
most fun when with lady friends with similar "tastes" but still good as part of a MF sandwich! can't say that i'm "addicted" (well, maybe just a bit!) yet not averse to leading the conversation in that direction!
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