With respect to the original question -- I think its basically the numbers game again – lots of single guys, lots of couples looking for single women, not very many single women!
The only advice we can possibly give is be patient and eventually you will find what you are looking for,we are new to this site and like yourselves were looking for a fem to join have had a few pm's to our adverts and have now talked to some good people and were lets say in advanced stages with 1 fem and were looking to meet up socially but our position has changed now and as such we will not be meeting people for at least 12/18 months(baby on board) but we will be back and hopefully will meet some likeminded people for some fun.
Sara
we never go looking for single fems....
but have met quite a few at parties and socials n made some good friends,,,,,,
and i was never bi till i join this site...
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