How do i get my girlfriend involved

1 Nov 2005

Hi everyone can anyone come up with suggestions on how to go about getting my girlfriend involved in swinging. I am new to this myself and still a virgin at swinging
but allways wanted to give it a go as i am always horny i am a young raring to go 49.
My girlfriend is 38 and we have brill sex she did once mention that she had wondered what it would be like to go with another woman but would want me to be there we have never gone any further in to that and i think its been forgotten about,can anyone give me any help or do i start by trying swinging on my own first chris

1 Nov 2005

Swinging on your own first is not really a good idea....talk to your girlfriend about it,ask if she was serious about it first and tell her how you feel about it!

1 Nov 2005

Quote by da69ve
Swinging on your own first is not really a good idea....talk to your girlfriend about it,ask if she was serious about it first and tell her how you feel about it!

sound advice from da69ve..
OMG..what have i just said :shock:

1 Nov 2005

Quote by teppic
Swinging on your own first is not really a good idea....talk to your girlfriend about it,ask if she was serious about it first and tell her how you feel about it!

sound advice from da69ve..
OMG..what have i just said :shock:
Go and sit down if you feel dizzy!

1 Nov 2005

been thinking thats best idea but finding it hard to aproach subject with her our sex life is brill and dont want to spoil it but then again it might make it better

1 Nov 2005

Quote by da69ve
Swinging on your own first is not really a good idea....talk to your girlfriend about it,ask if she was serious about it first and tell her how you feel about it!

sound advice from da69ve..
OMG..what have i just said :shock:
Go and sit down if you feel dizzy!
never met anyone called dizzy, so does that mean i cant sit down???? confused

hijack over.....

1 Nov 2005

Wait until channel 4/5 shows another 'documentary' about it. Should be about five minutes, now.
Talk about it whilst you/watch, after it. That way it won't seem like it's comingout of the blue and you can sound out her opinions relatively safely.

1 Nov 2005

Quote by targaid
Wait until channel 4/5 shows another 'documentary' about it. Should be about five minutes, now.
Talk about it whilst you/watch, after it. That way it won't seem like it's comingout of the blue and you can sound out her opinions relatively safely.

A relatively safe idea, if you don't blurt out "I fancy that, do you??" rolleyes

1 Nov 2005

Oh and if you want to take Daves very soundadvice.............
try doing it by way of pillow talk smile

after the event :shock:

1 Nov 2005

How about getting her to tell you a fantasy of hers and you act it out - then do yours...

1 Nov 2005

Always makes me laugh threads like this, sorry but i have to wonder what kind of a relastionship people have thats they have to ask a bunch of strangers about getting their mrs swinging instead of sitting down and talking to her about it!

1 Nov 2005

Naughtynymphos..... not everyone is as bold and brassy as you hun lol.....
Me personally, I would show her this website that i had 'accidentally' come across while researching the defineative history of childrens park attractions.......... and see how she reacts to it

1 Nov 2005

trade her in for a new model biggrin

1 Nov 2005

Quote by sleazy
Naughtynymphos..... not everyone is as bold and brassy as you hun lol.....
Me personally, I would show her this website that i had 'accidentally' come across while researching the defineative history of childrens park attractions.......... and see how she reacts to it

Or better still Sleazy tell her about a "new" place thats just opened not 5 minutes from home :grin:

1 Nov 2005

Quote by sleazy
Naughtynymphos..... not everyone is as bold and brassy as you hun lol.....
Me personally, I would show her this website that i had 'accidentally' come across while researching the defineative history of childrens park attractions.......... and see how she reacts to it

Brill idea sleazy she has been looking through it for about half an hour some quite good coments made, will have to see if i can get her to look through again another day and see what happens from there thanks