Quote by berksbex
Don;t worry mate the ladies can get a bit tetchy in here sometimes lol
I understood you mate

And how many have you met to suss out that we are tetchy? I'm guessing none with that attitude :P
LOL....chill a bit Bex.....Take a deep breathe and sit down and relax. I've met Stuart recently, and knowing what he is like, it was all meant tongue in cheek and a bit of fun. (he's a nice guy really, and if he thought he would offend anyone he wouldn't have posted it)
As for Playguy's original request.................
Quote by playguy
My question is how on earth can I convince my missus to venture into the realms of this "seedy" world of swinging? Personally I cant wait to lose my "cherry" and meet loads of new people, but er indoors doesnt seem to understand.
Thanks guys
There's not really a lot of advice I can give you, except, DON'T try to push her into anything that she's not prepared to do. You could sit her down and try telling her your feelings on swinging in a calm and sensitve way (with no alcohol involved), but be ready for her dismissing the idea totally. If she does that, then I suggest you let it drop, as she will see it as "badgering" her and will no doubt fall out with you to such an extent that your relationship will be all but over.
Ask yourself this question. Are you really prepared to jeopardise your relationship for what might only be a few meets?
If so, then I think you have to question your commitment to the relationship as a whole.
Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear, and it may be totally wrong, but you did ask for advice.
Marcuso