How do I tell the girlfriend i want to swing?

26 Dec 2005

Quote by berksbex
Don;t worry mate the ladies can get a bit tetchy in here sometimes lol
I understood you mate

And how many have you met to suss out that we are tetchy? I'm guessing none with that attitude :P
LOL....chill a bit Bex.....Take a deep breathe and sit down and relax. I've met Stuart recently, and knowing what he is like, it was all meant tongue in cheek and a bit of fun. (he's a nice guy really, and if he thought he would offend anyone he wouldn't have posted it)
As for Playguy's original request.................

Quote by playguy
My question is how on earth can I convince my missus to venture into the realms of this "seedy" world of swinging? Personally I cant wait to lose my "cherry" and meet loads of new people, but er indoors doesnt seem to understand.
Thanks guys

There's not really a lot of advice I can give you, except, DON'T try to push her into anything that she's not prepared to do. You could sit her down and try telling her your feelings on swinging in a calm and sensitve way (with no alcohol involved), but be ready for her dismissing the idea totally. If she does that, then I suggest you let it drop, as she will see it as "badgering" her and will no doubt fall out with you to such an extent that your relationship will be all but over.
Ask yourself this question. Are you really prepared to jeopardise your relationship for what might only be a few meets?
If so, then I think you have to question your commitment to the relationship as a whole.
Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear, and it may be totally wrong, but you did ask for advice.
Marcuso

26 Dec 2005

Quote by Marcuso
Don;t worry mate the ladies can get a bit tetchy in here sometimes lol
I understood you mate

And how many have you met to suss out that we are tetchy? I'm guessing none with that attitude :P
LOL....chill a bit Bex.....Take a deep breathe and sit down and relax. I've met Stuart recently, and knowing what he is like, it was all meant tongue in cheek and a bit of fun. (he's a nice guy really, and if he thought he would offend anyone he wouldn't have posted it)

Oi now who's being tetchy wink

and donâ€™t be so condescending, I donâ€™t need to sit down and relax (I need shag! :twisted: ).
He got the deserved response by referring to swingers as seedy and though he later qualified that remark by saying it wasnâ€™t him who thought of them as seedy, it was too late for the reply. If he thinks the â€˜ladies can get a bit tetchy in here sometimesâ€™ thatâ€™s nothing compared to how his wife will be when she find out what he has planed! Lol oh and that btw was a joke :wink: :lol:

28 Dec 2005

Quote by DJohn
Get her so druck she does not Know what she's doing! Sounds like to me.

You'd think so, wouldn't you? But then this story popped up a recently: . The woman could not remember giving or refusing consent. Fortunately "the outcome did not set a precedent for other cases".
I don not think you understand the ruling in that case, so let me put it the context.
Man1 know that Woman1 will fuck him 121 in their own bed with no one watching. Man1 gets Woman1 drunk to reduce her judgement and/or ability to say no. Man1 pickes-up Man2. they both shag Woman1. Man2 thinks Woman1 is up for it, she doe's not say 'no', it is not . Man1 Know Woman1 would if not drunk say 'no', Man1 Woman1.
it as much in the mind of the man as anywhere else. Sorry women that's a fact of law.