how do you say sorry

9 Mar 2008

how do you say sorry to someone and tell them you miss them.. any advice welcome !!!!!!!

9 Mar 2008

those words you state yourself might just do it....
pick up the 'phone
lp

9 Mar 2008

What he ^^^^^^^^^ said.
Simple as that - the hard bit is getting the first word out - but it gets easier after that.

9 Mar 2008

Sincerely.
Good luck.

9 Mar 2008

Can only say what the others have said. alternatively, if they are a member of this site, send them a link to this post and Im sure they would get the message.
Good luck kiss

9 Mar 2008

what about an e-card from something like 123greetings, they have cards that you can personalise for all sorts of occasions, and then send them on any date via the net.
might be a way of breaking the ice.

9 Mar 2008

Quote by ____horrid____
those words you state yourself might just do it....
pick up the 'phone
lp

They could put the phone down before you had finished though.
Plim :shock:

9 Mar 2008

Quote by Plimboy
those words you state yourself might just do it....
pick up the 'phone
lp

They could put the phone down before you had finished though.
Plim :shock:
stuff'em then!
lp

9 Mar 2008

Quote by Rusty6666
how do you say sorry to someone and tell them you miss them.. any advice welcome !!!!!!!

I was going to say, through gritted teeth at times lol

Pm, email, phone/text message, card, and if your ignored......move on!! Cos one thing i have learnt, if someone is not prepared to talk about it in an honest, open meaningful and sincere manner or accept an apoligy there is nothing you can do about it... confused

Good luck rusty xx

9 Mar 2008

>>>>>Of to look it up in the dictionary<<<<<<
innocent

9 Mar 2008

Quote by Rusty6666
how do you say sorry to someone and tell them you miss them.. any advice welcome !!!!!!!

I really think it all depends on what you are sorry for, and who it is to.
If its something quite small then a text/email/e-card seem ok, but if its something quite serious I do think to see them in person maybe with flowers is the only way to truly mean it.
LG

9 Mar 2008

Having given it some thought.....
A letter, if it's serious.
A letter cannot be hung up on. It will be read- pretty much no matter how peeved the recipient is.
You can take the time to show just how sorry you really are- and explain why.
Ask for nothing though. Good luck.

10 Mar 2008

Quote by Plimboy
They could put the phone down before you had finished though.
Plim :shock:

Good to see there is still positivity on this site sad

........not!
Apart from this little gem, good advice from everyone.
I sometimes think sorry is all too easy to say and actions speak louder than words but if its meant sincerely, sorry is a good start to righting wrongs.

10 Mar 2008

sometimes only a fish will do ...
<}}}<

10 Mar 2008

has it workedyet?
Has anyone asked?
lp
not the fish...it may get forgotten and left at the back of the larder.. to slowly go-off... it'll turn into another of those 'revenge is sweet' urban myths in no time... and all because the poor fella wanted to say sorry... the smell!
lp

10 Mar 2008

Quote by __random_orbit__
has it workedyet?
Has anyone asked?
lp
not the fish...it may get forgotten and left at the back of the larder.. to slowly go-off... it'll turn into another of those 'revenge is sweet' urban myths in no time... and all because the poor fella wanted to say sorry... the smell!
lp

ingrate :P

10 Mar 2008

Quote by Warmer
has it workedyet?
Has anyone asked?
lp
not the fish...it may get forgotten and left at the back of the larder.. to slowly go-off... it'll turn into another of those 'revenge is sweet' urban myths in no time... and all because the poor fella wanted to say sorry... the smell!
lp

ingrate :P
flounder
lp

10 Mar 2008

Phone me up or see me face to face, even better.
Yu say
Sorry did i hurt u i didnt mean to......... then explain then listen
An ounce of listening is worth a ton of talking.
Hugs Ben

11 Mar 2008

Quote by helnheaven
I sometimes think sorry is all too easy to say and actions speak louder than words but if its meant sincerely, sorry is a good start to righting wrongs.

Yes, sorry is far to easy to say and it not being genuine or it can be used as a *feel better exercise* by the wrongdoer so not said for the right reasons.
If you know the person in real life, its better said face to face really as Ben said, with sincerity!! Ive had plenty of sorry's via email and to be honest, it didnt mean twopence to me! I would have believed it was sincere if the person had made an effort, come round and sorted out the issue. However horrible and uncomfortable both may feel.
If its only online I stick by what I said earlier....
Good look Rusty and hope you manage to sort it out...

11 Mar 2008

Quote by __random_orbit__
has it workedyet?
Has anyone asked?
lp

11 Mar 2008

Just say it.
If they are ready to listen and you really mean it, it will work out.

11 Mar 2008

Quote by helnheaven

They could put the phone down before you had finished though.
Plim :shock:

Good to see there is still positivity on this site sad

........not!
Apart from this little gem, good advice from everyone.
I sometimes think sorry is all too easy to say and actions speak louder than words but if its meant sincerely, sorry is a good start to righting wrongs.
I totally agree.

12 Mar 2008

Quote by Rusty6666
wish i was better at hanging on to the things that matter most :!: :!: :!: :!:

A timely reminder maybe, to practice this

12 Mar 2008

Quote by helnheaven
wish i was better at hanging on to the things that matter most :!: :!: :!: :!:

A timely reminder maybe, to practice thisyour so right so tonight im gona make that call wink

12 Mar 2008

Quote by Rusty6666
wish i was better at hanging on to the things that matter most :!: :!: :!: :!:

A timely reminder maybe, to practice thisyour so right so tonight im gona make that call wink

Good luck <hugs>

13 Mar 2008

Did he? Didnt he? and if not why not? and if he did what happened?
Soap? Corrie aint got nothing on this
To be continued...........

13 Mar 2008

popcorn, anyone????