I think probably you need to read the above suggested thread and get to grips with the etiquette of Forums/Chat before you post any more: http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/15156.html Or, based on your few posts to date, it might not be worth it Good luck :P
I think you need to make it more clear what exactly your seeking when you post in the LMU section of the forum.. that way your post might not keep getting locked. How about you have a look at other people post's and how they write them? That was you might learn a little, maybe catch somebody's eye and not come over quite so abrupt. Good luck