how long do you go without an orgasm or near one

1 Jul 2004

as some of you may know im on a two week regime partly self inflicted to not have an orgasm, im on day four and dont mind admitting thats about as long as ive ever gone, i coping but it isnt easy, so what about you lot , obviously we are including masturbation here, so no orgasm or near orgasm how long can you go?
btw its quite funny at times and kinda pervy but what the hell only a couple of weeks it isnt that long is it confused

1 Jul 2004

You know whats gonna happen here mate dont you? About to reach your goal and BAMM wet dream...LOL!

1 Jul 2004

hadnt thought of that, never had one in my life , horny dreams loads wet ones never , quite like the sound of that though, i hope the girl in the dreams is a bit of alright lol

1 Jul 2004

I went a couple of weeks while I was ill earlier in the year, but then I was barely eating so it's kinda not a fair test. sad

I think the first few days would be the hardest... if you can get through them, you'll find it easier to go on.

1 Jul 2004

glad to see youve chaanged your pants roger
what if it has a lasting effect, im told the more you masturbate the more you want sex

1 Jul 2004

Quote by midlandsmale39
the more you masturbate the more you want sex

That's the way it works for me, for sure. It's as though your body gets trained to expect regular sexual activity.
Of course, the downside is that you can make yourself rather sore. sad

Do girlies have that problem?

1 Jul 2004

A wet dream is something rare for some guys, but it is kind of weird? Maybe you will have to wear mitts to stop inadvertant fumblings???

1 Jul 2004

bloody hell im wearing mits while im awake to stop that already

1 Jul 2004

Quote by midlandsmale39
glad to see youve chaanged your pants roger

OMG maybe he is slowly fading away...
as for the question posed: ithink that this depends on whether it is self induced or partner induced, the two could be very different
the wet dream option is completely outwith any determined male orgasm they still surprise me!
Gilbert

1 Jul 2004

And keep of ANY public transport because they make your willy stiff on the hard potholes especially if your abstaining!

1 Jul 2004

more serious replies requires boys and girls,

1 Jul 2004

OK.... serious reply!
Why the hell are you depriving yourself of an orgasm for two weeks anyway :shock: ? Unless it's for a good medical reason, I think you're mad wink

The last time I can remember going any length of time without an orgasm was for 5 days when I had really bad flu about 3 years ago sad

. Other than that, I make sure I have one most days, unless I'm really tired then I might miss a day :shock: . If I go any longer than that I get really ratty, so to keep my job and to stay out of jail it's best that I just get the deed done and stay on an even keel lol

This might be a bit gross but even when I was in hospital having a baby I went for a wank in the bogs :shock: ..... I kept getting disturbed though so I had to wait til I got home - good job they only keep you in hospital for a few hours these days or I would have killed about 12 nurses :shock: :wink: :wink: :wink:

1 Jul 2004

why because i never have before, plus one or two other reasons which are boring, not medical just because i never have really, ive gone one or two days in the past but never longer i really thought id get loads of people say things like only two weeks etc but it seems most of you are just like me sexually and two weeks is massive, perhaps i should do it for charity. confused

1 Jul 2004

You're a braver man than me cool

Even for charity, I'm not giving it a go!

1 Jul 2004

its nice to know that apart from this madness im quite normal, lol

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1 Jul 2004

If you are really serious about not giving in to the wank, why don't you try a chastity divice? I know quite a lot about it, and know of some men who haven't had an orgasm for months. They get their sexual pleasure from giving sexual pleasure to their women....
is that a bit too heavy and serious for you?

1 Jul 2004

i have an orgasm nearly everyday.. appart from the days i am playing.... and then i have loads! wink

i guess i COULD go without one for some time, just the same as i COULD live on bread and water if i had to.
but WHY put yourself through sutch hell?

1 Jul 2004

Same here... at least one a day.... Sometimes 4 or 5 but generally i find myself coming one way or another everyday.
Magik

1 Jul 2004

4 or 5! :shock: :shock: :shock:
Ah, those were the days......... I'm too old for that now, just the one does me rolleyes

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1 Jul 2004

Quote by bluexxx
4 or 5! :shock: :shock: :shock:
Ah, those were the days......... I'm too old for that now, just the one does me :roll: :roll:

Ha Ha oh come on blue.. you mean you never have a "busy" day every now and again? I dont believe that for a minute.. I mean i dont go 4 or 5 every day.,.. but when i do its normaly in the middle of one of those real horny phases.
Magik

1 Jul 2004

:lol: :lol: :lol:
OK, OK, maybe I can manage 4 once in a while in good company, but I would need to sleep for about 3 days to recover wink

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1 Jul 2004

Quote by bluexxx
:lol: :lol: :lol:
OK, OK, maybe I can manage 4 once in a while in good company, but I would need to sleep for about 3 days to recover :wink: :wink:

:twisted: see.. you cant pull the wool over my eyes blue!!. you sexy minx
:wink:
Magik

1 Jul 2004

Quote by Rachel80
If you are really serious about not giving in to the wank, why don't you try a chastity divice? I know quite a lot about it, and know of some men who haven't had an orgasm for months. They get their sexual pleasure from giving sexual pleasure to their women....
is that a bit too heavy and serious for you?

hey hang on if i lost the key id be in serious trouble , this is for fun as much as anything else, probably wont last the week let alone two lol

1 Jul 2004

Well mids u know what im like and im very young too!!! but the longest time i've been without an big O is about a month and a half cause when i was preggers i couldn't reach and well i didn't fancy it...but before that it was about 4 months...i was getting over an ex and just didn't feel very sexy so i didn't think about it..that was about 5 years ago now..and cause im young i don't really think i knew what an big O was...but know any time i get 5 mins to myself i'm touching and rubbing lol

sorry if thats abit to much info peeps but i love to share wink

2 Jul 2004

Wow i really have to agree when its been said that your a bit mad for doing thisbut hey,what ever floats your boat!!!
The longest ive ever gone without was for 3weeks after i had my first child,stitches and all that,doesnt exactly make you feel like it!!!
Apart from that everyday all the time so never had to hold off fopr no reason.
Clare,xxx
wink

2 Jul 2004

well normally its once or more a day for me, now and again it might be a couple of days usually because I'm just to busy or dont get the chance.
Longest ever was 4 weeks when I was 21 and had joined the Royal Navy doing my basic training, probably down to the extreme shock to the system, all the physical activity and the bromide in the food! Worse than that I didn't have a hard on for 4 weeks either, I was getting a bit worried at that point and had to take a trip to the toilets one night, after lots of persuasion I managed to get it up in the end and that seemed to break the spell because after that

2 Jul 2004

5 days for me now, had enough of this madness tonights the night, errrr i think confused

2 Jul 2004

the longest ive ever gone with out .......mmmmm 2 or 3 days
after that i was screaming and clawing at the walls

2 Jul 2004

be strong you can do it... go for 6 days
you will be a bitter man for it
Gilbert

2 Jul 2004

I usually have at least one a day