and get the chance to have a meet, how long should the meet last?What would you the woman want at a minimum?
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Quote by m1970
IF I ever get lucky
What would you the woman want at a minimum?
The meet would last for as long as all parties want it to be....so basically from an hour to well a lot longer.....
I met My better half at a munch and she hasnt decided to get rid of me yet.....that was nearly 2 months ago.....:shock:
Quote by m1970
I think 2 hours is enough
there's no feckin wonder your Mrs doesnt want it
somewhere in my head there's a little phrase thats just popped up to say hello - it says ' if he cant do the job properly, do the fucker yourself'
she's probably got shares in Ann Summers hun and you wouldnt have the first clue :doh:
Quote by Darkfire
Hun, listen to yourself for just one minute will ya?
you are in the wrong place.
IMO, 1.5 hours max aint worth it - to you in terms of risk of being caught out or to us in terms of taking our knickers off.
sorry, but its true
I kniw what you aresaying, and yes you are correct, but if i can meet someone in my area who is happy with meets 1-5---2hrs long meets that suits me, although my chances have been reduced.
Quote by Darkfire
I think 2 hours is enough
there's no feckin wonder your Mrs doesnt want it
somewhere in my head there's a little phrase thats just popped up to say hello - it says ' if he cant do the job properly, do the fucker yourself'
she's probably got shares in Ann Summers hun and you wouldnt have the first clue :doh:
I haven't had sex in probably 2 years, she is not interested in sex one bit, and no it's not me, it's her choice, some people like it, some people don't.
Do you think Id be looking for a playmate otherwise?
Quote by Dlep
IF I ever get lucky
What would you the woman want at a minimum?
The meet would last for as long as all parties want it to be....so basically from an hour to well a lot longer.....
I met My better half at a munch and she hasnt decided to get rid of me yet.....that was nearly 2 months ago.....:shock:
Agreed totally, met my other half through a 'meet' and three months later he's still here
Sex God
Quote by m1970
I haven't had sex in probably 2 years, she is not interested in sex one bit, and no it's not me, it's her choice, some people like it, some people don't.
Do you think Id be looking for a playmate otherwise?
oh so it`ll be about 10 seconds 4 the actual sex bit???
:D Getting a meet on this site for any male comes down to supply and demand.
There's a huge supply of single males and a great demand for single fems. So the odds are stacked against you before you start.
Now just for 1 minute look at this from the point of view of the women on this site (a swingers site).
I'm not being big headed here, but practically if I wanted a quick shag, I could go out in my local town and get one pretty easily and so could most of the single fems. :happy:
So why do single females join a swingers site?
I can't speak for everyone but most I know are looking to explore their sexuality in other ways - be it exploring their bi side,group sex, club experiences.
So in terms of personal marketing, what can you offer these lovely ladies?
I've also quoted something I wrote in the married men thread, which I hope also gives you an insight into what goes through some of our minds
There's a huge supply of single males and a great demand for single fems. So the odds are stacked against you before you start.
Now just for 1 minute look at this from the point of view of the women on this site (a swingers site).
I'm not being big headed here, but practically if I wanted a quick shag, I could go out in my local town and get one pretty easily and so could most of the single fems. :happy:
So why do single females join a swingers site?
I can't speak for everyone but most I know are looking to explore their sexuality in other ways - be it exploring their bi side,group sex, club experiences.
So in terms of personal marketing, what can you offer these lovely ladies?
I've also quoted something I wrote in the married men thread, which I hope also gives you an insight into what goes through some of our minds
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
To answer the original question without getting into the moral argument, to me their are a few practical reasons why people might not want to meet a married person playing away.
a) Arranging meets can be more difficult. If their other half doesn't know, chances are you can only contact/meet them at awkward times.
b) They might be more liable to pull out at the last minute if the spouse wants to know where they are
c) They may be limited to time and therefore want to shag and run
d) If they're selfish enough to cheat on someone they claim they love and justify it in some way to themself that they think this is perfectly all right they may well be a selfish lover.
e) If you're texting/phoning/emailing the person to make arrangements and the spouse finds the messages, you could end up with someone screaming at you down the phone or worse turning up at your house :shock:
On the upside at least you know they're going to be discreet :dunno:
Sex God
i can not imagine that many ladies would be impressed by the "looking at watch constantly" actions that would go with you having a bif of a deadline to leave. likewise - i reckon you jumping off in midflow to cries of "thats your two hours done" would cause more than slight anoyance.
the way i see it is - if you cant put 100 percent time and effort in to do the job propperly, then i will damn well get a better workman to get it done!
admitedly there ARE some women who are after a "quick shag", but their number is dwarfed by the number of men offering the same.
to succeed in this kind of thing, its hard enough when you can offer as much or more than everyone else. its nigh on impossible when you are offering less.
the way i see it is - if you cant put 100 percent time and effort in to do the job propperly, then i will damn well get a better workman to get it done!
admitedly there ARE some women who are after a "quick shag", but their number is dwarfed by the number of men offering the same.
to succeed in this kind of thing, its hard enough when you can offer as much or more than everyone else. its nigh on impossible when you are offering less.
Sex God
I will go for 3 hours, 15 mins and 26 seconds
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Quote by dambuster
Agreed totally, met my other half through a 'meet' and three months later he's still here
3 MONTHS ? ? ? ? ?
These titties came here in June last year to have their pic taken for an avatar, and they're is STILL here :shock:
it's no wonder I've got back ache.
And very nice they are too :wink: :lol:
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
I'm not being big headed here, but practically if I wanted a quick shag, I could go out in my local town and get one pretty easily and so could most of the single fems. :happy:
So why do single females join a swingers site?
I can't speak for everyone but most I know are looking to explore their sexuality in other ways - be it exploring their bi side,group sex, club experiences.
I agree hun. If I want a quick shag with a bloke, I have an SB for that. Here, I can meet like minded women, share the experience and make some nice new friends on the way. I can't talk about my bi side to my 'normal' female friends and girls being girls, we DO chat about stuff sexual or otherwise
Quote by PoloLady
my god you must be good :P
I think 2 hours is enough
and I think your question is one of the stupidest I have heard for a while.
Why is it a stupid question, I only have a limited amount of time, wheras you probably have all night, I was just trying to get a few thoughts on the matter.
Sex God
OK serious answer to your question.
It depends on each partner, but I would have thought for a really enjoyable time you need to be avaiable - and I mean body, soul and mind here - for at least 4 hours. If you are worrying about timings, having to explain your absence or getting back for the boss/babysitter then that will reduce the pleasure for both (all) of you no matter how long you have.
Personally I always want to spend the whole night or day really getting to know someone - even if it'll just be the once. As a few have said a quick shag is avaibale 24/7 if I'm not too fussy. Which I am, so that explains why I don't do that.
It depends on each partner, but I would have thought for a really enjoyable time you need to be avaiable - and I mean body, soul and mind here - for at least 4 hours. If you are worrying about timings, having to explain your absence or getting back for the boss/babysitter then that will reduce the pleasure for both (all) of you no matter how long you have.
Personally I always want to spend the whole night or day really getting to know someone - even if it'll just be the once. As a few have said a quick shag is avaibale 24/7 if I'm not too fussy. Which I am, so that explains why I don't do that.
