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how many times a year does every one play.

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we had a meet on saturday night and it looks like another meet in two weeks time, the ball is rolling now just wondering if we are doing to much.
cheers
Naomi
Quote by Cossie
we had a meet on saturday night and it looks like another meet in two weeks time, the ball is rolling now just wondering if we are doing to much.
cheers
Naomi

i would say only you would know yourself if you are doing too much or not as everyone is different and its down to personal preference/circumstances.
some people play most days some once a month some once a few months.
There is no right or wrong amount. Do whatever you both feel comfortable and happy with.
I do when the opportunity arises, there's no set pattern.
thanks guys.
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I do when the opportunity arises, there's no set pattern.

thats what we thought, we may have a dry spell for months
If I'm right you've only played twice - hardly a case of overdoing it! lol
no quite, but close, but it just like buses you wait and wait and then they all come together
if it happens the it does ,if we going to a club or private meet then but we do meet a lot a swinging freinds socially to.
Not very often for us, we have been here for over 2 years and met only 4 cpls, were either very choosy or nobody loves us lol
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Not very often for us, we have been here for over 2 years and met only 4 cpls, were either very choosy or nobody loves us lol

The former, I'm sure and, er... good for you wink
We've been on here about 2 years and met 3 blokes - quality over quantity for us biggrin
There's a lot to be said for quality!! lol
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Not very often for us, we have been here for over 2 years and met only 4 cpls, were either very choosy or nobody loves us lol

The former, I'm sure and, er... good for you wink
We've been on here about 2 years and met 3 blokes - quality over quantity for us biggrin
Shireen and I have been here 3 1/2 years and havent generated one meet with a cpl...
That cant be us being choosey :lol:
when you say meet...does that also include club visits?...if so for us is always when the opportunity takes us...every other weekend,once a month...in fact just when we feel like it...but can say that its more in the summer than the winter!
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when you say meet...does that also include club visits?...if so for us is always when the opportunity takes us...every other weekend,once a month...in fact just when we feel like it...but can say that its more in the summer than the winter!

Tart(s) lol
Yes i think its that we are choosy and believe the quality of the wine is more important than how much you might drink, we dont just guzzle any ols shite you know, were right posh, iv got 3 GCE's lol
PS - IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT - Not a thread hijack but, Jesus Blokes where the hell have you been we thought u had dropped off the face of the planet!!
As eveyone says really, as often as you want to and are able to, only you two know. Once you start you'll find out what feels right.
We went manic at first when we started swinging last year, sometimes play dates backed up against each other :shock: , but then we've just gone through a quiet period where we hadn't played for ages....we've been so busy in RL, it just goes like that sometimes. .Thank God we're back on track for a few meets soon winkWe also try to space ours out (being such an organiser) to look forward to the meets and also for ease of babysitters.
pink x
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when you say meet...does that also include club visits?...if so for us is always when the opportunity takes us...every other weekend,once a month...in fact just when we feel like it...but can say that its more in the summer than the winter!

Tart(s) lol
and bloody proud of it! wink
Quote by Mr-Powers
when you say meet...does that also include club visits?...if so for us is always when the opportunity takes us...every other weekend,once a month...in fact just when we feel like it...but can say that its more in the summer than the winter!

Tart(s) lol
and bloody proud of it! wink
Maybe you suffer from SADS (Seasonal Affective Disorder Swinging)? :lol:
Quote by Srne
when you say meet...does that also include club visits?...if so for us is always when the opportunity takes us...every other weekend,once a month...in fact just when we feel like it...but can say that its more in the summer than the winter!

Tart(s) lol
and bloody proud of it! wink
Maybe you suffer from SADS (Seasonal Affective Disorder Swinging)? :lol:
my joints seize up in the cold weather! :lol:
one or two of the clubs we visit are more summer places...not so nice to visit when its cold or pissing down!
Hi all, not been in the cafe for such a long time we just can't remember.
Anyway, we are PoshnBecks, used to be quite well known, not so much these days, keeping busy though.
To answer your question, when we first started out we took our time, then we got into it so much we had a queue of guys waiting, still do to a degree lol.
Anyway, we now like to take part on average once every two weeks depending how we feel.
the guys and gals on her will put you straight so to speak lol, just have fun and be safe.
PoshnBecks x
we have been lucky as the wine has been very fine, its been so fine we going to meet one couple again biggrin :D :D :D
anyone thats getting more than me is meeting to much lol
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anyone thats getting more than me is meeting to much lol

Is there such a person dunno
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we have been lucky as the wine has been very fine, its been so fine we going to meet one couple again biggrin :D :D :D

Have I :shock:
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