I ask this question beacause I try to keep an air of mystery to my potential meets by delibrately avoiding adverts with cock shots.
I want to go on the voyage of discovery, which includes that first sighting or coping the first feel. Now even when I haven't needed two hands to wrestle the monster out of the trousers I have rarely been disappointed as I have done all my vetting up front.
Don't ask me what my vetting process is because it is mostly based on instinct and personality compatability, but what do you guys think?
Does seeing the goods upfront, help or hinder ?
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How much do you really want to know up front?
Sex God
Depends on what you mean by seeing the goods.
Not interested, necessarily, in physical attributes so I'm into personality, sexuality and general attitude. I usually know what I'm getting in those areas before I'll meet - I guess the answer is 'Yes' see the goods before I meet.
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Not interested, necessarily, in physical attributes so I'm into personality, sexuality and general attitude. I usually know what I'm getting in those areas before I'll meet - I guess the answer is 'Yes' see the goods before I meet.
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Quote by westerross
Depends on what you mean by seeing the goods.
Not interested, necessarily, in physical attributes so I'm into personality, sexuality and general attitude. I usually know what I'm getting in those areas before I'll meet - I guess the answer is 'Yes' see the goods before I meet.
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for the purpose of this thread I mean cock or kebab shots ( to keep this open to all).
What I'm getting at is some people use their nerther regions as their selling point, does this work for you or not ?
For us as a couple we are just not interested in "cock shots" i really wonder if a male penis can actually look attractive on camera they are not the most photogenic part of the human anatomy some resembling a baby mole in colour and shape when flaccid :shock:
It is definitely more about the dynamics of a person's personality for us, the reason why we don't swing very often as in a lot of cases we find that one partner has "it" and sadly the other doesn't. Not sure what !it" is exactly but we know what "it" is when we chat to them etc.
It is definitely more about the dynamics of a person's personality for us, the reason why we don't swing very often as in a lot of cases we find that one partner has "it" and sadly the other doesn't. Not sure what !it" is exactly but we know what "it" is when we chat to them etc.
Sex God
Quote by Velvet Lips
for the purpose of this thread I mean cock or kebab shots ( to keep this open to all).
What I'm getting at is some people use their nerther regions as their selling point, does this work for you or not ?
Definitely not!
Sex God
Quote by Velvet Lips
Depends on what you mean by seeing the goods.
Not interested, necessarily, in physical attributes so I'm into personality, sexuality and general attitude. I usually know what I'm getting in those areas before I'll meet - I guess the answer is 'Yes' see the goods before I meet.
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for the purpose of this thread I mean cock or kebab shots ( to keep this open to all).
What I'm getting at is some people use their nerther regions as their selling point, does this work for you or not ?
In that case No. The genital issue is so shallow.
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Sex God
Quote by Velvet Lips
to expand on this, I have a meet set up soon, but in the mean time the "cock shot" has "popped" up in the msn conversation. Now the surprise is spoilt !!!
Yes but that, on its own, not going to stop you meeting is it.
To cancel because you've seen it would be just as shallow as insisting you would only meet if you could see it.
Think of it as a different experience - you've seen the cock - now you're gonna find out who's on the other end of it. I suppose the fact that it has been gratuitously displayed, has probably already told you something about that.
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Quote by goose35
I can take em or leave them makes no difference to me but i like seeing well set up and made pics more of a glamour nature than porn stylee
Couldn't agree more, I can take or leave them, pictures on galleries still don't reflect a person's personality anyway so a cock/kebab (I hate that word.. kebab :shock: ) wouldn't deter me.
However, I do rather like an erect penis
Quote by westerross
to expand on this, I have a meet set up soon, but in the mean time the "cock shot" has "popped" up in the msn conversation. Now the surprise is spoilt !!!
Yes but that, on its own, not going to stop you meeting is it.
To cancel because you've seen it would be just as shallow as insisting you would only meet if you could see it.
Think of it as a different experience - you've seen the cock - now you're gonna find out who's on the other end of it. I suppose the fact that it has been gratuitously displayed, has probably already told you something about that.
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I have no intention in cancelling, in fact I'm really looking forward to it. :happy: The point is I have seen his face and torso and that was all I needed, I didn't ask his size or anything else about his bits.
I think its just thinks is a bit sad that some people seem to think its the norm or even necessary to provide genital shots.
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Does seeing the goods upfront, help or hinder ?
It does help me sometimes to be honest. I dont usually meet based on what the goods look like or the size etc but occasionally I do ask in my adverts for well endowed
so its sometimes helpful to see whats on offer. Although the personalilty has to match too.Louise xx
we where confused when we first joined this site as, nearl every profile i looked at had cock shots or kebab shots as some one nicely put it. so thought it was the norm hint my first pictures i had up, personaly i dont like the look of cocks(mr fraggle here) and hate it when i just get a pic or a cock. If a single male out there wants to impress us and entice my wife to let him join us then we need a nice profile and a torso/head shot, head shots can wait till private pm's but on profiles last thing we want to see is a bloke jerking his meet. but on the other side we both find a womans body beautifull and quite happy with full nude shots.
i'll stop rambling now lol.
Fraggle
i'll stop rambling now lol.
Fraggle
i actually like a nice cock shot, but not only that.
some cock pics are just ewghhh, but thats cus ethey are taken while sitting on the loo, or pants lines are visabe.
wihoit being horrible so many gus are umm lets say disillussioned (sp) with size.
height... 5'9 turns out to be 5'5
build..... rugby build turns out to be weeble
cock size.... vwe turnes out to be 7 inches
but in the same way average has turned out to be owww thats huge.
so yes i like to see a artfull cock shot.
regarding ladies, well i tend to ask if the lady is shaven, for me personally i dont like unshaven, its like a squashed spider. also been scared before when ive come across a shaven haven lol then discover a very hairy bum hole.
what i really hate is when single guys send out pics of their latest conquest showing faces, makes me think NOOOO WAY thats not discrete.
xxxx fem xxx
some cock pics are just ewghhh, but thats cus ethey are taken while sitting on the loo, or pants lines are visabe.
wihoit being horrible so many gus are umm lets say disillussioned (sp) with size.
height... 5'9 turns out to be 5'5
build..... rugby build turns out to be weeble
cock size.... vwe turnes out to be 7 inches
but in the same way average has turned out to be owww thats huge.
so yes i like to see a artfull cock shot.
regarding ladies, well i tend to ask if the lady is shaven, for me personally i dont like unshaven, its like a squashed spider. also been scared before when ive come across a shaven haven lol then discover a very hairy bum hole.
what i really hate is when single guys send out pics of their latest conquest showing faces, makes me think NOOOO WAY thats not discrete.
xxxx fem xxx
Sex God
Quote by fem_4_taboo
build..... rugby build turns out to be weeble
'Rugby build' could describe pretty much any shape when you think about the build of players in the different positions.
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And before we meet for a play we like to see a face, torso and cock shot first.. just our preference though
Tony
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Someone is really looking for a slapped arse tonight!
Although Shaz might be a bit of a perve
many moons a go though, we used to just ask for face shot but had a couple odd experiences so now ask for the other 2 also :D
Tony :wink:
