Hi, thanks for looking and I hope you can offer me some tips here. My wife, who doesn't actually live with me, remains my favourite lover of all time and recently told me she fancied getting on the receiving end of some group activity. I've been a member of the site for some time, but as an almost single guy...I live in sussex and she's in lincs..
I recently posted an ad in forum but fell foul of the site moniters, I wasn't supposed to advertise "on behalf of a non member" apparently. The suggestion to join a swingers site, although it doesn't frighten her, is just something she isn't sure about at the moment and, although I'm sure she will join this or a similar site in future, she is really looking to explore, as most of us have done, the swinging scene and the fullfilling of initial sexual fantasies. Do you have any suggestions for me? I've never tried the club scene and I wouldn't want her to get involved in anything the least bit pushy. Thanks for taking the trouble to read this post, have fun. xxx
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Hi Group Fun, can I introduce the wife.......... 
Quote by skinny
Hi, thanks for looking and I hope you can offer me some tips here. My wife, who doesn't actually live with me, remains my favourite lover of all time and recently told me she fancied getting on the receiving end of some group activity. I've been a member of the site for some time, but as an almost single guy...I live in sussex and she's in lincs..
I recently posted an ad in forum but fell foul of the site moniters, I wasn't supposed to advertise "on behalf of a non member" apparently. The suggestion to join a swingers site, although it doesn't frighten her, is just something she isn't sure about at the moment and, although I'm sure she will join this or a similar site in future, she is really looking to explore, as most of us have done, the swinging scene and the fullfilling of initial sexual fantasies. Do you have any suggestions for me? I've never tried the club scene and I wouldn't want her to get involved in anything the least bit pushy. Thanks for taking the trouble to read this post, have fun. xxx
Why dont you try a a club to start of with. I shoud think that you could find one thats not pushy. Try the parties and clubs section or try and get a recommendation from someone who has already been. That way she can test the water and see if she likes it or not.
Louise xx
Hiya skinny... thanks for asking us 'how not to manipulate your wife'
Soooooo many guys & gals think we know the secrets on how to get their partners to do things against their nature.
I'm sure you would agree that's just not on don't you :thumbup:
In response to your inquiry here is my advice to ya
-Please note this is just my feelings on your particular scenario & as such please feel free to seek advice elsewhere.-
please read the above...
please read the above...
When & if your wife decides to 'make up her mind...' take the sound advice from louise_and_joe
check out the club reviews....
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/index.html
Hey... Since you have shared this with us please let us know the outcome!
It's only fair :P
Soooooo many guys & gals think we know the secrets on how to get their partners to do things against their nature.
I'm sure you would agree that's just not on don't you :thumbup:
In response to your inquiry here is my advice to ya
-Please note this is just my feelings on your particular scenario & as such please feel free to seek advice elsewhere.-
Quote by skinnyIf she ain't sure then please back off & let her make up her own mind
...is just something she isn't sure about at the moment...
Quote by skinny
...although I'm sure she will join this or a similar site in future...
please read the above...
Quote by skinny
...Do you have any suggestions for me?
please read the above...
Quote by skinnyplease read the above...
...I wouldn't want her to get involved in anything the least bit pushy.
When & if your wife decides to 'make up her mind...' take the sound advice from louise_and_joe
check out the club reviews....
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/index.html
Hey... Since you have shared this with us please let us know the outcome!
It's only fair :P
Quote by redpanthermanIf she ain't sure then please back off & let her make up her own mind
Hiya skinny... thanks for asking us 'how not to manipulate your wife'
Soooooo many guys & gals think we know the secrets on how to get their partners to do things against their nature.
I'm sure you would agree that's just not on don't you :thumbup:
In response to your inquiry here is my advice to ya
-Please note this is just my feelings on your particular scenario & as such please feel free to seek advice elsewhere.-
...is just something she isn't sure about at the moment...
Quote by skinny
...although I'm sure she will join this or a similar site in future...
please read the above...
Quote by skinny
...Do you have any suggestions for me?
please read the above...
Quote by skinnyplease read the above...
...I wouldn't want her to get involved in anything the least bit pushy.
When & if your wife decides to 'make up her mind...' take the sound advice from louise_and_joe
check out the club reviews....
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/index.html
Hey... Since you have shared this with us please let us know the outcome!
It's only fair :P
Well said, hublet.
Now we just need to teach you how to manipulate yourt wifelet- into all manner of interesting positions!
:rascal:
Quote by redpanthermanIf she ain't sure then please back off & let her make up her own mind
Hiya skinny... thanks for asking us 'how not to manipulate your wife'
Soooooo many guys & gals think we know the secrets on how to get their partners to do things against their nature.
I'm sure you would agree that's just not on don't you :thumbup:
In response to your inquiry here is my advice to ya
-Please note this is just my feelings on your particular scenario & as such please feel free to seek advice elsewhere.-
...is just something she isn't sure about at the moment...
Quote by skinny
...although I'm sure she will join this or a similar site in future...
please read the above...
Quote by skinny
...Do you have any suggestions for me?
please read the above...
Quote by skinnyplease read the above...
...I wouldn't want her to get involved in anything the least bit pushy.
When & if your wife decides to 'make up her mind...' take the sound advice from louise_and_joe
check out the club reviews....
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/index.html
Hey... Since you have shared this with us please let us know the outcome!
It's only fair :P
Quote by skinny
My wife, who doesn't actually live with me, remains my favourite lover of all time and recently told me she fancied getting on the receiving end of some group activity.
The best suggestion I have is to try a club, they are very relaxed and non pushy and you only have to go as far as you want to. If you want to sit all night & just take in the atmosphere its all up to you both & your own comfort levels.
Main thing is enjoy & have fun
Thanks for your response...and thanks for pointing out that this is the ladies request to find some extra fun in her bedroom...not something that I'm unhappy about this...We've set up a non premium account, a suggestion from you peeps, as skinny_n_jo and posted a couple of ads which as you can imagine have attracted some response. I'm going to meet some guys and hopefully some couples over the next week or so and hope to take it from there. I think as far as clubs go we would probably like to go along with another couple first of all so it kinda takes us back to where we were....I think it's fairly certain that as long as she continues to feel she wants to try two lovers, or more, then we are fairly certain to fix that for her...I'm very biased but she's not only my favourite wife (of three) she's my favourite lover of all time....been together 10 years now and I love to please her. Watch this
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I'm very biased but she's not only my favourite wife (of three) she's my favourite lover of all time....been together 10 years now and I love to please her. Watch this
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
:? :? :? :?Yep, I thought the same Shireen :shock:
Quote by Freckledbird
I'm very biased but she's not only my favourite wife (of three) she's my favourite lover of all time....been together 10 years now and I love to please her. Watch this
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
:? :? :? :?Yep, I thought the same Shireen :shock:
Ah - let's be fair, skinny is only up to Mk III
My Mk IV is certainly my favourite of all the "wives" I've ever had. Mine or other peoples :grin:
Just letting you all know that my darling wife seems likely to acheive her goal on the specified date...we have taken on board some of your suggestions and at the moment I'm being trusted with shortlisting " those who have responded". Only looking fo rone, maybe two (or a couple), friendly fun people so shouldn't be too difficult. I shall keep you all updated of course.
Quote by redpantherman
...Now we just need to teach you how to manipulate your wifelet- into all manner of interesting positions!
:rascal:
Why don't you sit on my lap... then we can discuss the first thing that 'pops up' :giggle:
You said that to me last weekend
skinny, sounds to me like your Mrs needs to come along and have a look around this place for herself before making her own mind up. So often we hear about guys trying to talk their wives/girlfriends into this for thei own pleasure but it seems yours has thought about this already for herself. Why not join as a couple, spend some time looking around but most importantly, MAKE YOUR DECISIONS AND CHOICES TOGETHER.
Good luck !
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