My wife likes spontaneous, and her idea of a good meet is to go out on the town and some how pull another bloke or a cpl to come over have a few drinks then head back all together. now i'm thinkng how the hell would you go about it. single male wont be as hard she will just batter her eyelids but i could not even guess how to do it with a cpl.
Has any one succeeded in this or is it as hard as it sounds.
Thanks all.
Fraggle
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The only way we can think of the spontaneous approach working is if you happen to be at a munch or some other SH social - and frankly even then nothing could be guaranteed.
Anything else would be way way to risky in any case
We are reminded of a phrase that an old friend of ours always used to say - we think it went something like this
"piss poor planning leads to piss poor performance"
- that doesn't mean that every single possible outcome of every meet should be planned in advance but at least a reasonable idea of who and what and where is good.
best of luck and we hope you find the spontanaity your looking for without incurring undue risk
Anything else would be way way to risky in any case
We are reminded of a phrase that an old friend of ours always used to say - we think it went something like this
"piss poor planning leads to piss poor performance"
- that doesn't mean that every single possible outcome of every meet should be planned in advance but at least a reasonable idea of who and what and where is good.
best of luck and we hope you find the spontanaity your looking for without incurring undue risk
i know the saying its the 6 p's propper planning prevents piss poor perfomance.
I think the idea of meeting acpl like this would be hard if not imposiible i think the next best way is if i planed it and only let her in on it when we all meet up at a pub or something, she still gets the spontaneous aspect but its all cosher.
Single men should be easy single woman though hmmm lol propberly harder than findong a cpl lol
Thanks all
Fraggle.
I think the idea of meeting acpl like this would be hard if not imposiible i think the next best way is if i planed it and only let her in on it when we all meet up at a pub or something, she still gets the spontaneous aspect but its all cosher.
Single men should be easy single woman though hmmm lol propberly harder than findong a cpl lol
Thanks all
Fraggle.
Hi Fraggle, having chatted to you a bit, my guess is you adopt the same approach as I do, involving, a subtle, thought-provoking, considered and measured approach, in other words:
You blurt it out quickly, have very thick skin if you intend staying in the bar/club or simply know where the nearest exit is!
Either that or start at the furthest town away from you and gradually get nearer to home as you feel more confident
You blurt it out quickly, have very thick skin if you intend staying in the bar/club or simply know where the nearest exit is!
Either that or start at the furthest town away from you and gradually get nearer to home as you feel more confident
Quote by Fragglerocks
My wife likes spontaneous, and her idea of a good meet is to go out on the town and some how pull another bloke or a cpl to come over have a few drinks then head back all together...
Fraggle
Sounds good to me so far! I like spontaneous too!
Quote by Laff_n_Chilli
The only way we can think of the spontaneous approach working is if you happen to be at a munch or some other SH social
Yep, I find that can work. You've been out, had a flirt and want to take it further. Hopefully the others involved are happy with that too and Bob's yer uncle!
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