How to meet a cuckold couple

31 May 2012

We recently had a PM from someone asking for advice on how to make contact with a cuckold couple who are looking for a man to have regular sex with the cuckold's wife. Most wives describe the other man as a lover, boyfriend or playmate. It may be helpful to others if we repeat what we said here.
First you must understand what cuckold couples are looking for and decide if you are really in a position to provide it. You have to think when and how you would be able to make yourself available to a couple given your work commitments, personal life, etc. Meeting someone who lives a long way from you is not likely to lead to a regular relationship unless you are seriously motivated.
Most definitely cuckolds' wives are not looking for a one-off or quickie. They are looking for an ongoing relationship which includes their husbands in a cuckold role. This usually - but not necessarily - involves him watching his wife and lover in action. Some cuckolds are mildly bi and are happy to give warm-up oral to the lover in front of his wife before the lover takes possession of his wife. These cuckolds enjoy this act of submission to the lover - and some lovers find this surprisingly arousing! This is always optional, of course, and does not arise until the everyone is comfortable with each other in a sexual environment. If the lover wants it he eventually has the confidence to ask for it.
Wives appreciate a lover who takes the time to satisfy them fully. You have to be dedicated but the rewards of regular, exciting sex are great!
Now to the practical side of presenting yourself to a cuckold couple. They will almost certainly want to see a recent photo of yourself showing your face and body build. Most are very clear what they are looking for so do not be offended if you do not fit the bill. If you have tattoos or piercings say so. Generally, non-smokers only want to meet other non-smokers. If you are a smoker do not lie about it -we have turned men away at first meeting for that. Also, because they are looking for friendship - as well as lots of sex! - they will want to know more about you as a person. If you can tell them a little about your work, interests and tastes (sexual as well as otherwise) they will be be clearer about the sort of person you are. Take the time to compose your message with care and show that you are a literate person.
They will also be interested in your previous sexual experience and current relationship status. Some cuckolds' wives take a strong moral stand and will not meet married men or partners playing away. They do this out of solidarity with the other woman and because the cuckold lifestyle is based on total honesty. Others are more understanding and accept everyone's right to find some sort of fulfilling sexual relationship if this is not possible within the marriage. In these circumstances total discretion is essential.
Anyway, those are a few thoughts to be going on with.

1 Jun 2012

was saying as much the other night....
way more fun screwing your sh mates than random guys in clubs....
you both know what makes the other tick n dont offend em by accident

1 Jun 2012

Nice post, so... anyone interested?