I have just been thinking..................

18 May 2005

Out of all the people that post a little ad about themselves on these forums saying stuff like "any1 up for a meet up tonight for fun, pm me".......well how many of those are successful...? would i have more succss on these message boards, or more success by posting an ad about myself in the add part of the site confused

18 May 2005

You'd have more success if you stuck around and got to know people.
So.... welcome to SH.... tell us about your good self.......... that's always a good place to start lol

:lol: :lol:

18 May 2005

Well i am a youngish lad who is new to swinging, but from what i have heard it can be amazing. I am 5'10, dark brown hair, blue eyes about 7inches and i am willing for couples, women, men, groups etc, pretty much anything. I can accomodate at certain times so what are y'all waitng for? lol

18 May 2005

what indeed biggrin

19 May 2005

Quote by duder
Well i am a youngish lad who is new to swinging, but from what i have heard it can be amazing. I am 5'10, dark brown hair, blue eyes about 7inches and i am willing for couples, women, men, groups etc, pretty much anything. I can accomodate at certain times so what are y'all waitng for?

Awwww Bless! :therethere:
Hi and welcome Duder wave

The best things come to those who wait (and put the effort in to be no pressure and normal, Ok well not all the members here are normal, some of them are mad as a box of frogs and their president, well the less said about him the better! :lol: )
There are tons of single males and the ones who get the meets are the people who are calm, respectful, willing to chat without expecting things and give you room to respond.
Good luck and see you around the cafe.
kiss

Gem. x

19 May 2005

Hi and welcome to the world that is SH :welcome:
The only thing I would say is just relax, join in if appropriate, but most importantly be yourself.
The cafe is a great place to hang out, the conversation is great, the mods are great and the contributors are great.
Have fun.