ok, i will give you all a run down.
i have been swinging with a couplefor quite a while now, and had a great deal of fun, now they have decided to also swing seperatly, and was asked by the female if i would oblige her, to which i said yes.( after consulting her husband, and getting the ok), so last weekend we met up, and things went really well.
i suppose by now your wondering what the problem is so far...well i will tell you.
halfway during the evening, she asked me to wear her knickers, stockings and suspenders. i had not done anything like this before, and have never been asked before either, but, being one to try "new" things, i obliged...and wow..fantastic, ..the problem is, i now seem to want to do this again. i've never had the urge to do this before. i dont want to wear womens clothes, just the underwear. the lady in question told me her husband would never wear ladies undies, and that is why she wanted to go seperate. i dont know what i'm actually looking for in an answer here, but if anyone could shed some sort of light on things for me, it would be greatly appreciated. i would like to experiance this again, but i'm unsure if this is everyones cup of tea....no disreaspect to anybody on here, and i do not wish to offend anybody, but this is a very new feeling to me.
sorry if i have prattled on a bit, but i have bottled this up, and it's taken quite a bit of courage to post this..and i think that the only sane reply's / answers?? i will get are from people here. i have spoken to my wife about it, but she could not give any advice, so it's to all here, to possibly help.
i have worn knickers suspenders, stockings and a basque before to the rocky horror show, but never had these sort of feelings.
oh, the hairy legs in stockings was not a pretty sight...
teppic
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Dont worry about it Teppic - I think most women will tell you that lingerie does the same for a blokes legs that it does for a womens legs.
In fact, some will even tell you that they look better.
Kit loves to see me (and other blokes) in lingerie - it does nothing for me personally to wear it, I wear it because of the effect it has on her, which DOES do wonders for me! :twisted:
A quick text from me at about 3 in the afternoon saying "I am at home, with my stockings on", usually results in an early knock off for Kit, and I get out of making the tea! :twisted:
lhk
Kat
In fact, some will even tell you that they look better.
Kit loves to see me (and other blokes) in lingerie - it does nothing for me personally to wear it, I wear it because of the effect it has on her, which DOES do wonders for me! :twisted:
A quick text from me at about 3 in the afternoon saying "I am at home, with my stockings on", usually results in an early knock off for Kit, and I get out of making the tea! :twisted:
lhk
Kat
Sex God
you mean some actually cook for you if you wear their undies, are you reading dear.............. 
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staggy
:lol: :lol: staggy
Sex God
oh sorry teppic , on a serious note why not if it does it for both of you enjoy it mate
staggy
staggy
thanks kat, i know i should really go with the flow, and enjoy it...which i very much say i did, and hope to do so again, it's just that i enjoyed it a little too much i think, and, even asked the wife if i could wear some of her knickers to work..to which she has agreed. the only problem is, when i wear them, the hard on is constant, and belive me, when you work with some of the people who i work with, thats not good.
Sex God
If it is something you enjoyed then where's the harm in doing it again.
Lots of women love men dressed in womens undies.
I think the difference for you is that when you went to the Rocky Horror Show, it was just for a laugh and a night out. When you dressed for the female, you turned her on so much which obviously turned you on as much.
I personally love to feel a guy in sussies and stockings. It is a real turn on going out with him knowing that he is wearing them under his jeans.
Absolutely nothing wrong with wearing them for your own pleasure too. They feel so nice against the skin.
G x
Did you have any pics taken :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Lots of women love men dressed in womens undies.
I think the difference for you is that when you went to the Rocky Horror Show, it was just for a laugh and a night out. When you dressed for the female, you turned her on so much which obviously turned you on as much.
I personally love to feel a guy in sussies and stockings. It is a real turn on going out with him knowing that he is wearing them under his jeans.
Absolutely nothing wrong with wearing them for your own pleasure too. They feel so nice against the skin.
G x
Did you have any pics taken :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Sex God
i did it once with wild roses undies , wore them for the day , loveley lacey little numbers , bit on the small side and they did tend to rub after a while but never the less very sexy, shit she'll kill me for telling you this lol got to admit every time they did rub it reminded me they were there and my thoughts turned to her sexy body and what might come later on.
go for it!!!
staggy
go for it!!!
staggy
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No advice needed to be given and no dilema for you to condider really, if you like it go for it!!!
What did you like about it - the actual look of yourself in the underwear or the effect it had on your partner?
not so much the look, but the feel, and yes the effect it had on my partner...to say she went wild, would be an understatement, she has had so much dificuly in getting men to wear her undies, she was beginning to thing that she was "odd" now i can tell her otherwise....i'm going to try to get her to join up with s/h, so she can find out that she's not alone.
Sex God
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Did you have any pics taken :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
no pic's this time, but for you...next time i will :twisted:
Look forward to it
Gill x
Sex God
Quote by teppic
No advice needed to be given and no dilema for you to condider really, if you like it go for it!!!
What did you like about it - the actual look of yourself in the underwear or the effect it had on your partner?
not so much the look, but the feel, and yes the effect it had on my partner...to say she went wild, would be an understatement, she has had so much dificuly in getting men to wear her undies, she was beginning to thing that she was "odd" now i can tell her otherwise....i'm going to try to get her to join up with s/h, so she can find out that she's not alone.
i look shit hot in her knicks
though i say it myself, lol
staggy
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No advice needed to be given and no dilema for you to condider really, if you like it go for it!!!
What did you like about it - the actual look of yourself in the underwear or the effect it had on your partner?
not so much the look, but the feel, and yes the effect it had on my partner...to say she went wild, would be an understatement, she has had so much dificuly in getting men to wear her undies, she was beginning to thing that she was "odd" now i can tell her otherwise....i'm going to try to get her to join up with s/h, so she can find out that she's not alone.
i look shit hot in her knicks
though i say it myself, lol
staggy
lol, i should have looked in the mirror...all i could see, were the hairs poking through the stockings.
Sex God
Quote by wild rose and the stag
No advice needed to be given and no dilema for you to condider really, if you like it go for it!!!
What did you like about it - the actual look of yourself in the underwear or the effect it had on your partner?
not so much the look, but the feel, and yes the effect it had on my partner...to say she went wild, would be an understatement, she has had so much dificuly in getting men to wear her undies, she was beginning to thing that she was "odd" now i can tell her otherwise....i'm going to try to get her to join up with s/h, so she can find out that she's not alone.
i look shit hot in her knicks
though i say it myself, lol
staggy
You got any pics for me to perv over??? :twisted:
Gill x
My man wears opaque stockings because he has hairy legs. I don't want him to shave them.
Sex God
Surely it's a case of "whatever turns you on", Teppic, it's obviously nothing that does any harm at all to anyone else.
Hmmm, maybe I should try it, it's something I never have done before.
Good luck,
Mike.
Hmmm, maybe I should try it, it's something I never have done before.
Good luck,
Mike.
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not so much the look, but the feel, and yes the effect it had on my partner...to say she went wild, would be an understatement
Ohhhhhh teppic, everything Kat says is absolutely true :twisted:
Truth be told though, it wasn't until I was introduced to this site that I had even thought about men instockings and sussies :shock: But after trying it, wow, what a great experience :twisted:
So, from experience, my advice is - if you like it, do it - lots! and don't worry what others think
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i look shit hot in her knicks
though i say it myself, lol
staggy
hey now thats a sight cant wait to see hahahahahaha
On another note, I think dressing up is individual. I am not that interested unless with someone who would appreciate it and make me feel it was okay and vice versa. I think it can be just a great laugh to me rather than erotic :shock: :shock: well whats wrong with that anyway - cant sex be fun as well as being all about erotic ???????????????
It was a bit weird for me when a friend asked if I would be ok with him wearing lingerie when we played, I wasn't sure if I would be turned on/put off or just indifferent by it and was a little wary but when it actually got around to it, it didn't bother me in the least. Then when I went to a party and there were a number of men in womens undies I found it quite sexy, not scary like I thought it would be! I don't even know what I was worried about now!
But in your case Teppic, you and your swinging partner are turned on by it so what's the problem? Who is going to know what you do in private if you don't tell them anyway? Go for it and enjoy it!
But in your case Teppic, you and your swinging partner are turned on by it so what's the problem? Who is going to know what you do in private if you don't tell them anyway? Go for it and enjoy it!
i now think by all the very positive feedback that i have had, i will go with the flow..and maybe will dress accordinly at the essex munch....beneath the everyday clothing that is...dont want to scare/offend/upset or send people into hysterics, the sight of me may scar some for life....i scare myself sometimes :shock: :twisted:
but seriously....thanks for all the support
i love you all
but seriously....thanks for all the support
i love you all
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thanks kat, i know i should really go with the flow, and enjoy it...which i very much say i did, and hope to do so again, it's just that i enjoyed it a little too much i think, and, even asked the wife if i could wear some of her knickers to work..to which she has agreed. the only problem is, when i wear them, the hard on is constant, and belive me, when you work with some of the people who i work with, thats not good.
I have one particular fetish which I have yet to satisfy (& find out if I actually enjoy it)... watersports, but I've had great fun trying a few others. And so far the ladies I've been with have been all for it. So why not. As was said to me a few years ago, if it doesn't cause any harm & everyone enjoys it, just do it. :P
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i now think by all the very positive feedback that i have had, i will go with the flow
I think with all the positive feedback you've had I might just nip off and check out Mrs Cueballs skimpies drawer
go for it, i admit i got home and imidiatly got changed....but realised that my wife does look better in the undies...but they feel soooooooo damn good....now...where can i find some size 9 stilleto's?????
Sex God
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i now think by all the very positive feedback that i have had, i will go with the flow
I think with all the positive feedback you've had I might just nip off and check out Mrs Cueballs skimpies drawer
go for it, i admit i got home and imidiatly got changed....but realised that my wife does look better in the undies...but they feel soooooooo damn good....now...where can i find some size 9 stilleto's?????
E-bay has lo0ads of size 9 stiletto's
Personally if it makes u feel good wearing womens underwear and your play partner enjoys it too then go for it. You aren't harming anyone
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go for it, i admit i got home and imidiatly got changed....but realised that my wife does look better in the undies...but they feel soooooooo damn good....now...where can i find some size 9 stilleto's?????
Kat has just the place you are looking for - he had some fabulous shiny knee high boots made to order :twisted:
Hold that thought whilst I find the link for you
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go for it, i admit i got home and imidiatly got changed....but realised that my wife does look better in the undies...but they feel soooooooo damn good....now...where can i find some size 9 stilleto's?????
Kat has just the place you are looking for - he had some fabulous shiny knee high boots made to order :twisted:
Hold that thought whilst I find the link for you
at this rate, i'm going to end up with a whole wardrobe :shock: :shock: :shock: , i was only thinking a pair of stilettos would set the look off
, but thigh length boots....always look better on a woman...siouxsie sioux 1984... :rascal: 