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Sex God
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Sorry to hear your news Clyde sad Hugs to you hun :therethere:
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Perhaps putting this in a letter may do a better job? Things seem easier to understand when you can keep going over it to yuor own satisfaction. I'm very sorry to hear this clyde. Fingers crossed thats yous get back together.
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what can i say
nothing to make you feel better really
but thinking of you and hope you get to sort it out
i think your brave to post but you know were all friends on here so i think its just natrual youd wanna be about us if your feeling crap passionkiss sillyassionkiss: :passionkiss:
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Im really sorry to hear that. Myself and Mr Pink have had major problems a short while ago and we where seperated for a short time. I know its of no console to you at the moment because we both know how you feel, but we have started getting back on track. It is of no difference if the kids are hers or not, at the end of the day, as you said, she has been their mother for 3 years, and it is them who are the most important thing in all of this. They are probably being affected by this as much as you so you need to be there for them. I really hope you two sort out the issues you have.
Mr & Mrs Pink
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Sorry to hear this Clyde - i know what your going through - not nice!!
Keep your chin up
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Aw, i hope you can work things out, if its not for the best then i hope you can both find happiness.
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Wishing you well and hope things turn out good for you whatever is best.
There's always someone here willing to chat if u need to
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Oh shit mate,I know what you're going 's been a tough few months here at Chez Lazee as well.
If you need to chat, p.m or Msn me,sharing does help believe me. wink
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Thankyou all for your kind comments and good wishes they are all very much appreciated.
Warming the Bed
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HIYAS HUN,
AS SAID PREVIOUSLY IT IS IMPORTANT TO LET YOUR FEELINGS OUT XX
BOTH MIKE AND I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH DUE TO PAST RELATIONSHIPS XX
IT MUST FEEL THAT YOU ARE SO ALONE AT THE MOMENT BUT................
YOU MUST REMEMBER YOUR MATES ON HERE XX
THEY WILL ALL BE WILLING TO GIVE YOU SUPPORT XX
I MYSELF HAVE FOUND SUPPORT FROM MY GOOD FRIENDS ON HERE WHO HAVE UNDOUBTABLY HELPED ME THROUGH ALOT OF ISSUES THIS YEAR XX
I THINK THIS SITE IS NOT JUST ABOUT SHAGGING BUT THE FRIENDSHIPS AND THESE TYPES OF THREADS DEFINATELY PROVE THIS CONSTANTLY XX
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Don't lose hope Clyde - you might be able to work it out so.
If anyone here is troubled in some way and needs to share it they will find many who can relate to them,maybe some who can even offer genuine help,more than words alone even.
The reason why some here have such passion and joy in how they live is because they've known loss and pain before but now want to embrace life again.
Whatever way this goes there is a future,nobdy says it will be easy but there is a future,honestly.
Orgasminator
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Poor Clyde. I agree with the poster who said write it down in a letter. I always find it easier to express myself in that way. Good luck.
Orgasminator
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Sorry to hear your bad news, i hope you can work things out , it is better to talk than to bottle it all up hope you can work things out , don,t give up hope
luv ann :therethere:
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Sorry to hear of your problems. I don't have anything useful to say to you, other than sympathising because its bad enough without children, but many times worse when they are involved. And have no fears about posting this sort of thing on here. The Forum is for good times & for the bad.
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Ok, i'm sat semi alone at home the kids are in bed and I feel totally shattered and drained you see thing is Bonnie has left Clyde. Why I'm posting this beats the shit out of me. Bonnie isn't to blame I am mostly if not fully and I cant see a way back this time, she has left 3 times before and this time I did something stupid before she left and if I'm honest it was to give closure to the relationship because the kids when all said and done cant keep going through the leaving and coming back there natural mother hurt them enough. Bonnie is not the natural mother of the kids but for the last 3 years she has done her best and for that I am gratefull and always will be as she helped them through some difficult times and I may not have been able to alone. You probably think I should be telling her this but thing is she wont believe me and I cant blame her so perhaps that is why I am posting this here I dunno. I'm sorry if this should not have been posted and if it gets removed thats ok I just feel like shit.

chin up mate , things will turn out for the best, i know how tough it is as ive been through a break myself, but really things do turn out for the best,
good luck
staggy
Warming the Bed
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my sympathy Clyde. Its horrible. Having been there with kids, I know this. Kids can handle things that would crack us up, so long as they know the score and know they are loved.
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really sorry mate,cant say alot to make you feel any better about this but a letter does sound a good things turn out how you,d like them to and remember ,your amongst friends here.
Orgasminator
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Really sorry to hear the news, been there as have many people and i cannot give advice to you on anything and nor shall i try.
Best of luck to you.
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Thanyou all for your comments, I felt a right prat this morning after posting this last night but it just goes to show there are some good people out there who really do care even though you have never met me. I really do appreciate you taking the time to send your thoughts on to me. Thankyou
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i thought it would be fitting to ad a small post here from myself, i could never begin to belive how you are feeling, but all i can say is, i consider all on here a friend, and as a friend we stick together...so, if you ever need anything, i'll be around, pm me or e-mail...get it all off your chest if you want...i do listen....
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our hearts go out to you m8,be strong kiss
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Well all, I'm over the moon, Bonnienclyde may have a chance. It may not be easy but Bonnie is willing to give us a go. We have talked as well as cried with each other over the last couple of days, but the great thing is we are also laughing. I made a massive f*** up and nearly lost forever the most wonderfull woman I know and for a reason I'll never know she is willing to try and get through this and Bonnie doesn't give up easily.
Thanks to all who gave support and probably some who had nothing to say but did understand the pain. Your all great people. biggrin
Sex God
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Aww nice to know that you are both giving it another go, I hope everything goes well for you smile
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:rose: Awwww...We love a happy ending.
Good luck mate :thumbup:
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thats really good news clyde...i hope it all works out for you....
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glad things are looking brighter for you all.
G x
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Quote by bonnienclyde
Well all, I'm over the moon, Bonnienclyde may have a chance. It may not be easy but Bonnie is willing to give us a go. We have talked as well as cried with each other over the last couple of days, but the great thing is we are also laughing. I made a massive f*** up and nearly lost forever the most wonderfull woman I know and for a reason I'll never know she is willing to try and get through this and Bonnie doesn't give up easily.
Thanks to all who gave support and probably some who had nothing to say but did understand the pain. Your all great people. biggrin

Very glad to hear the news smile :!:
From a man whos been married a long time it certainly pays to write things down that you cant say face to face. Theres no manual to read or courses to go on, all you have to do is your best. If you can, keep talking to each other. Get away from the kids, have a break.
Marje Proops signing off!
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Great news, I hope everything will work out well for both of you.
Now
Down to business.
I know this BANK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Pleased to hear things on the up again, best wishes xxxxx