I read this and wondered how much truth is in it ........
Is cheating a health risk?
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Category: Health
Published on Wednesday, May 16 2012 13:26
A recent study from The Journal of Sexual Medicine found that that people, who cheat in relationships, are less likely to practice safe sex with all their partners. For this conclusion researchers collected data on 801 individuals. 308 of them reported being unfaithful to a partner and 493 were in negotiated non-monogamous relationships, meaning people who have an agreement with their partner to engage in sex with others.
Now I take it that those cheating were, errrr, cheating and those in non-mongamous relationships were basically swingers in one form or another.
So over the last 3 days I have conducted my own little survey by going into the chatrooms that explicity say they are for those who like bareback and guess what I found, of the single males in the rooms at all times most were married or in relationships according to thier profile status but using single male profiles, of the others a great % were those without any pictures and unable to accommodate (does not always mean they are cheating but more often than not does) There were not enough single females or couples who stated in thier profiles that they were cheating to come to a conclusion about them at this time.
What do you think ?
Would this help confirm the study above ?
Can anyone think of a reason why those in a relationship but cheating would take greater risks ? I can't think of one
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I read this and ......
Quote by Dawnie
I think that sometimes men fantasise about having sex without condoms in a chatroom, doesn't always mean they do it.
I also think that men and women (not from a swinging scene)don't use condoms because they can cheat without planning. We go out prepared to have sex, not many others do
Your second point is a good one and validated by the fact that I did sell 17 condoms last night, all were to "single" men and none to couples, the couples either expected the single guys to provide them (oh so so dangerous a practice and should never ever be considered) or they came prepared with thier own condoms.
The first one I don't disagree with but I do know that loads of "single" guys actually do have unprotected sex and often in gangbang scenarios.
If what you say is true can we ban most of those guys from the site since whilst logged into the room loads of them whispered us wanting to arrange a meet, so if they are just fantasising they are self confessed timewasters
Now I know there is no such thing as safe sex, no not even masturbation, (I fell off the bed while wanking this morning and bruised my bum) but you can minimalize risk as much as possible and I do believe that as consenting adults we should be allowed to make our own choice re safe sex, but if someone is cheating on thier partner has no part in that choice and that is wrong.
Sex God
It does nto surprise me that those that cheat dont use a condom. They have little respect for their significant other as shown in the act of cheating and then again in the possible act of passing them a life threatening disease. Melodramatic but true. Mind you as most people on here will tell you we shoudent judge them as they all have their reasons. Now wheres my small violin... ohh here it is
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Sex God
Quote by tweeky
It does nto surprise me that those that cheat dont use a condom. They have little respect for their significant other as shown in the act of cheating and then again in the possible act of passing them a life threatening disease. Melodramatic but true. Mind you as most people on here will tell you we shoudent judge them as they all have their reasons. Now wheres my small violin... ohh here it is
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Oh yes Tweeky I agree aint that the bloody truth eh.
F*ck it though I am judgemental. Those who play without condoms are nuts and lack respect! :kick:
Sex God
Quote by Lost
It does nto surprise me that those that cheat dont use a condom. They have little respect for their significant other as shown in the act of cheating and then again in the possible act of passing them a life threatening disease. Melodramatic but true. Mind you as most people on here will tell you we shoudent judge them as they all have their reasons. Now wheres my small violin... ohh here it is
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Oh yes Tweeky I agree aint that the bloody truth eh.
F*ck it though I am judgemental. Those who play without condoms are nuts and lack respect! :kick:
As long as its themselves they lack it for thats no problem. Its when they go home and subject the unknowing other to the potential risk thats the problem
Quite a few valid points being made already. We all know the risks of unprotected sex, and we all agree that it's unfair, big time, on an unsuspecting partner.
I have mentioned before that a common request made of prostitutes, both male and female, is to ask if they will provide unprotected sex.
I've also mentioned before that most of a prostitutes clients are likely to be married men; and yes, that does go for male prostitutes too. It does make you wonder what some guys are prepared to share with their wife and mother of their children.
I have mentioned before that a common request made of prostitutes, both male and female, is to ask if they will provide unprotected sex.
I've also mentioned before that most of a prostitutes clients are likely to be married men; and yes, that does go for male prostitutes too. It does make you wonder what some guys are prepared to share with their wife and mother of their children.
Yes skinny that is very very true.
And now I am going to upset some people, I am surprised by the amount of bi males I see in pictures who have pubic hair !
We only play with shaved women and we ourselves are both fully shaved and I am 100% straight, for this reason we know that we are safe from crabs (yes horrible to talk about but a danger in swinging) we are surprised at the amount of undhaved males willing to play with or around other unshaved males where crabs could be transferred.
And now I am going to upset some people, I am surprised by the amount of bi males I see in pictures who have pubic hair !
We only play with shaved women and we ourselves are both fully shaved and I am 100% straight, for this reason we know that we are safe from crabs (yes horrible to talk about but a danger in swinging) we are surprised at the amount of undhaved males willing to play with or around other unshaved males where crabs could be transferred.
Does it not simply come down to the desire for the greater sensation experienced when having unprotected sex compared to having it wrapped up? In my experience wearing a condom never feels as good as playing bare, but the risk of catching something or unplanned pregnancy is far too severe for me to want to play bare with someone I'm not in a long term relationship with. These married men are already selfish enough to want to cheat on their partners just for a bit of sexual gratification, so it doesn't surprise me that they would want to have as much fun out of it as possible with little/no regard for the consequences.
