Apparently straight women are more delicate and I 'shoved my tongue' down his throat. He likened it to being dominant I went

So, as I kiss like I kiss.. can someone else shed some light on kissing, do other women like playing tonsil tennis. Are women really more delicate than the butch, dominant splendid_?
(obviously those of you who have kissed me, please be a teeny weeny bit more discreet than to give me feedback on here)