i thinkthats whats caused somuch confusion,verification and feed bacare different things, problembeing this thread formwhat i can remember has raised feed back as a positive who are voting yes for verification.
dave you ikkle minx, just noticed ya signature
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taken from else where on photo verification....
""""For single females and couples it is a great way proving you are a genuine female, or a couple, and it makes the site better for everyone who is genuine and harder for fakers and idiots pretending to be something they're not. For single guys it proves your pics are genuine and it helps you stand out from the crowd. Verification photos are 100% private and only seen by the site owners or trusted admin.
It's quick and easy to get photo-verified:
1. Hand write the sitename xxxxxxxxx and your username clearly on a piece of paper
a photograph of yourselves holding the piece of paper (we need to either see your faces OR the photo needs to be nude and full length if you're concerned about privacy; your choice).
3. Upload using the link xxxxxxxx
4. We'll review the photo and check that it matches the photos on your account and your account type (so if you're a couple we need to see both of you) and approve it. If you're not holding the piece of paper with your username and sitename on, we won't accept the verification pic because it proves nothing.
5. Your profile page will show the "photo-verified" icon
Benefits
For females and couples, proves you are who you say you are and that you're not single guys pretending.
Proves your photos are genuine because we check they match your verification pic.
Highlights your profile with a special photo verified flag:
Makes the site better for everyone who is genuine and harder for fakers and timewasters.
We'll be giving extra benefits to those who are photo-verified shortly so stay tuned get verified
Some Frequently Asked Questions about photo-verification
Q. I'm already verified by others, why should I should not automatically get photo-verified?
This is in addition to the verification system where other site members verify you, not a replacement for it. If you want to get photo-verified in addition to being verified, you'll need to spend 2 minutes taking the pic and uploading it.
Q. I don't want to get photo-verified.
The system is entirely optional so that's everyone's personal choice.
Q. I don't want to get photo-verified because I'm scared about my privacy.
You don't need to show your face or make yourself personally identifiable. If you don't want to show your face, full length nude shots are fine (you must of course still be holding the piece of paper).
Q. The new system doesn't prove anyone is a "genuine" swinger.
That's correct, all we meen by genuine is that it does is verify that there is a couple / fem / male present and aware that they are on the site. Look for other verifications if you want to see if someone is actively meeting.
Q. Will the verification photo show on my profile?
No, it won't show on your profile. At some point in the future we may give you the option of showing it on your profile, but it will be entirely your choice and the default will always be for your verification photo to be 100% private.
Q. Why bother with this when other members can verify people?
There are flaws in both systems, but taken together if someone has been verified by others and photo-verified that is a very good sign. Photo verification is great for single females or genuine couples who have joined but not yet met or cammed, to proove that they are genuine. If you spot suspicious female or couple profiles e.g. with fake looking photos and no verifications it's now easy for us to compell them to photo-verify.
A major flaw with the current verification by others system is that it is very easy for a single guy to get verified on cam without any meets then verify a single fem or couple profile (we'll be making this much harder for people to do also). """"
shows they realise it was a slipery sloop to problems as they have one system and see it is open to abuse.
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understand if this needs to be deleted as its from another site, but ive quoted so not copywrite issue
I had a swing mate once who found swinging easy. He was popular and at most of the events. But he had no real passion for it. He was just there to fill some time, because it would have been churlish not to have turned up to the invites. He was a genuine time waster. He wasted his time not anyone else's.
What is a swinger?
What is real swinger?
what is a fake swinger?
What is a timewaster?
what are we?
I am confused how I would be precieved
We did meet have met a couple of guys this last year, but have decided not to meet at this stage due to other family stuff going on, we don't know at this stage if it is something we might light to do at a later stage or not.
If we did come back would we be fake as having no tick?
Should I not be here?
thats the point single guys or fakes will do ANYTHING to appear genuine or more meetable including making a one off payment for a months subscription for a 2nd profile just to varyfie themselves and if its anonymous who's going to be any the wiser? They have their green tick and can time waste to their hearts content! Independant verification is the only way it would work if we had to have it. Though don't see why we should!
777 forgive me if I am wrong, but dates for ticks has not be mentioned before, so prehaps that is something else that would be needed.
I have just cast my vote on the new verification survey.....lets all sit back and watch now!
Just read the Verification Poll and it seems a bit either one sided or ambiiguous on this question >>>>
Quote:- No, I would not like to see an Optional Verification System on the site. unquote
The word "Optional" .. Optional to what ???