Oi .............. you lot stop ganging up on me!! :giggle:
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ok, we cant ever verify that someone is genuine.
a verification could only show that a couple is a couple ( unless they have set up mates to help them fake it,split up in the mean time)
that a man is a man
that a woman is a woman
as with both not if they are single.
im guessing you would have to submit a picture then talk to a answer machine to prove your gender.??
this will all be done by admin, so people cant do each other a favour and verify mates that are not what they say,are set up more than one profile and verify themselves.
there would have to be a date stamp of when verification happened and members willing to report those suspected of cheating that system.
this will take time and money.
or verification happens by other members, open to even more abuse, and if no ones verified and you have to be verified to verify what come first the verification or the verifying?
presuming the above is what were talking about what will you gain??? to know people are male or female?
not if they are really a couple or really a single or really swing.
so we get into the realms of feed back.
cant even be arsed anymore to point out the pit falls of this , the tackyness of this and the sheep rather than leader amongst swinging sites we used to be.
can we please clarify verification or feedback.
i dont like or want either as it proves fook all but causes a divide.
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sadely deviants i think there is a plan.
regarding the single fem i understand what you mean, but i wont be verified cuse i dont like it and if some see a verification as a tick to hound me not about to throw my profile into the pot.
when the profiles went to more detail,many didnt complete them as it worked well before. i swing from a filed in one to nothing cuse i get sick of people saying i like your ad??? iTS NOT A AD divvey.
i dont like the speed fuck thing. i think thats different to swinging, its only my outlook, and i know thers have different ones.
if i wanted a quick anonyomus fuck id go in town and trap off. its sex not swinging to me.
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i presume that the ad and profile search will have a tick box , only show verified members?
will in show in chat ?
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good bye swinging heaven hello sex hell
Do notchange SH, its still works, but real swingers like us will not be loging in, for the site admin's this will not be a problem they will still get their money, but for us it will not be a swinging site just a networking site.
so change the name to "SOCIAL HEAVEN"
sorry but thats how I feel
but other real swingers will logg in cuse it is different from the other sites.
regarding social heaven, isnt that the way its going , not the way we wanted it,those against verification are typically against news feeds quickies etc. judging from the polls and questionaires its going more like facebook and speed fucking.
speed fucking can be obtained at a club?
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