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hi there we are fantasycpl a lot ppl might have seen us on cam and a lot might not have we go in our room try to make it as friendly as pos and chat to everyone & do shows but not straight in there with them we lke to tease ppl along gets the banter going , can have good laugh with lots ppl but then u get the 1s who just jump str8 in there with get ur tits out and other things like this we do try to be polite and warn them we not like it and a lot of other ppl on cams not as well but they carry on. when will they learn if ever? yes we know there are ppl who might say well u go on cam u deserve what u get , but a lot of ppl go on cams so we not all bad are we?
hiya fantasycouple, know exactly wot your saying,nothing wrong with goin on cam ,if you enjoy bein watched then thats your right and for the so called directors,i look at it this way when watching a cam. the best meal ull ever eat out is one ull hav to wait for not one served strait up out of the hotpan!. happy cammin n hope to catch u soon, 69position
I don't mean to have ago but this has been done to death here in the forums,i'm sorry some guys are spoiling the fun in your room.
hi, just like to say than i've seen you on cam and have read wot ppl put and think your rite. It's better to be teased alittle. And as for the ppl that come out with the "get your tits out" and "go on give it to her" lines I think you should kick them out. that way they may learn.
sorry to say its just one of them things and unless your going to pay someone to police the chat rooms 24 hours a day its something you will never get rid of, i have seen some really nasty abuse in the chat rooms from guys perstering women to flash then turning nasty when they say no, but you have to just ignor them the worse thing you can do its react to them, they soon get bored and sod off lol
Hi fantasycpl
Yeap seen you in the chat room and very nice too. Like you we also go on cam and get people trying to direct us. For us we see it as one of those things and ignore what they say. We will do what we want, when we want, and how we want. If they don’t like it they don’t have to watch our cam. Don’t let it spoil you fun, it doesn’t ours
Sussex2
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Hi fantasycpl
Yeap seen you in the chat room and very nice too. Like you we also go on cam and get people trying to direct us. For us we see it as one of those things and ignore what they say. We will do what we want, when we want, and how we want. If they don’t like it they don’t have to watch our cam. Don’t let it spoil you fun, it doesn’t ours
Sussex2
xxx

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Shireen
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Hi Fantasy, yeah I've seen you on cam, and very nice too.
You don'y hear a lot from me in there cause I am appreciative of what the people like yourselves do for everyone, maybe a few comments now and again. It annoys me also what goes on and I've seen more and more lately, with some getting very annoying and even abusive, Difficult to ignore them, but they are getting known and a lot of people are getting pissed off with them spoiling it for everyone else. All you can do if it bothers you, which it obviously does, is kick them, or start passwording. The only trouble with passwording is you wont get to meet new people as they wont be able to get password.
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... i have seen some really nasty abuse in the chat rooms from guys perstering women to flash then turning nasty when they say no, but you have to just ignor them the worse thing you can do its react to them, they soon get bored and sod off lol

I think that the users themselves have a certain responsibillity for policing their own chat as well.
If someone is being a twat then tell them!! Experience shows that people will soon round on them and force them to behave, apologise or bail out.
If that doesn't work then report the user to an Op.
Fants, you have fun and ignore the amateurs.
xx
There are a number of issues here. Some straight-forward, some not so.
If people are in a "full time site opened" chat room, then they are governed by the rules of the site, including the chatroom rules, and the site AUP.
although I disagree with it on a personal point of view, directing cams is permitted in the chat rooms.
When these directors have their requests refused (or ignored) they can become very offensive, and annoying pretty quickly.
Personal abuse will not be tolerated anywhere in this site! :Mad:
"Temporary, user opened" chat rooms also have to abide by the chat room rules, and the site AUP, but some of them also have their own rules. Sometimes these rules are known to the people joining the room, sometimes not.
There does seem to be a small number of individuals who have decided in their wisdom to set up their own rooms and just kick away all night long. We, as chatroom op's are beginning to get to know who these people are, and slowly but surely the problem is being removed.
One thing I would like to propose to Admin (if enough room creators think its a good idea) , is the following.
If you wish to create your "own room" on a regular basis, and you wish to add your own rules, over and above the rules that govern chat on this site....
Maybe we can have a separate
User Chatroom Rules Page.
Maybe it could say something like....
Midlands Room
Ususal times of opening 5pm - midnight every evening
Room owner whoever
Special Rules no directing of cams, no couples
that way, chatters can find the rooms when they are open, and be 100% sure before they enter the room what the rules are.
Ian
we think that is a brilliant idea. why didnt someone come up with it sooner biggrin worship
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we think that is a brilliant idea. why didnt someone come up with it sooner biggrin worship

I think Ian thought of it ages ago, but just wanted to make a grand entrance and be workshopped by the masses lol
bolt
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Ian
You are a genius! kiss

TY HLB. I'm used to people calling me a geek, but never a genius.
Maybe, cos i've been opping here for over 2 1/2 years, its my keeping the peace head i've got on tonite.
And believe it or not it WAS a spur of the moment brainwave.
ian
Funnily enough you got the directors cut.
I was going to post
You're a genius - a geek but genius. bolt
I know you've just walked in here and been the voice of reason, but you can't blame a girl for wanting to take piss.
And besides - if I made you sound too great you'd end up with more spam mail than Dawnie :giggle:
now now guys and gals we love the job u all do trying keep the peace in chat rooms lets not start on each other in here now lol lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
Wouldn't it be possible to add.....
1).....an ignore button ( so we can ignore people that are a pain in the arse ) ( maybe the ignored users can be stored in the same place as message ignore ) ?
2).....a button that you can boot people of your cam with when there being a pain ?
3).....a chat boot button ( not just any boot button, read below )
a).....the button will be in all rooms
b).....it takes say 10 other people to boot them
c).....once they had wound up 10 people and the 10 people have booted them they get banned out the room for say an hour.
Just that this idea might make it an easier job for the chat ops ??
This is just a little idea, i know it might not be the best, just trying to help smile
Shaz x
Quote by Ian_Mids
Ian
You are a genius! kiss

TY HLB. I'm used to people calling me a geek, but never a genius.
Maybe, cos i've been opping here for over 2 1/2 years, its my keeping the peace head i've got on tonite.
And believe it or not it WAS a spur of the moment brainwave.
ian
GEEK!!!!!
bolt
wink
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
3).....a chat boot button ( not just any boot button, read below )
a).....the button will be in all rooms
b).....it takes say 10 other people to boot them
c).....once they had wound up 10 people and the 10 people have booted them they get banned out the room for say an hour.

I really do not like this suggestion. It would be far too easy for a number of people to ban a person because he wasn't like rather than because he was an abusive twat.
Half a dozen couples or a few with a couple of log in names would be enough to get one poor person banned for personal reasons :shock:
Quote by Ian_Mids
There are a number of issues here. Some straight-forward, some not so.
If people are in a "full time site opened" chat room, then they are governed by the rules of the site, including the chatroom rules, and the site AUP.
although I disagree with it on a personal point of view, directing cams is permitted in the chat rooms.
When these directors have their requests refused (or ignored) they can become very offensive, and annoying pretty quickly.
Personal abuse will not be tolerated anywhere in this site! :Mad:
"Temporary, user opened" chat rooms also have to abide by the chat room rules, and the site AUP, but some of them also have their own rules. Sometimes these rules are known to the people joining the room, sometimes not.
There does seem to be a small number of individuals who have decided in their wisdom to set up their own rooms and just kick away all night long. We, as chatroom op's are beginning to get to know who these people are, and slowly but surely the problem is being removed.
One thing I would like to propose to Admin (if enough room creators think its a good idea) , is the following.
If you wish to create your "own room" on a regular basis, and you wish to add your own rules, over and above the rules that govern chat on this site....
Maybe we can have a separate
User Chatroom Rules Page.
Maybe it could say something like....
Midlands Room
Ususal times of opening 5pm - midnight every evening
Room owner whoever
Special Rules no directing of cams, no couples
that way, chatters can find the rooms when they are open, and be 100% sure before they enter the room what the rules are.
Ian

How many rooms are there now?
How many pages of rules could there be if every room opener wrote a set of rules?
Would anyone read that many sets of rules?
Quote by PoloLady
There are a number of issues here. Some straight-forward, some not so.
If people are in a "full time site opened" chat room, then they are governed by the rules of the site, including the chatroom rules, and the site AUP.
although I disagree with it on a personal point of view, directing cams is permitted in the chat rooms.
When these directors have their requests refused (or ignored) they can become very offensive, and annoying pretty quickly.
Personal abuse will not be tolerated anywhere in this site! :Mad:
"Temporary, user opened" chat rooms also have to abide by the chat room rules, and the site AUP, but some of them also have their own rules. Sometimes these rules are known to the people joining the room, sometimes not.
There does seem to be a small number of individuals who have decided in their wisdom to set up their own rooms and just kick away all night long. We, as chatroom op's are beginning to get to know who these people are, and slowly but surely the problem is being removed.
One thing I would like to propose to Admin (if enough room creators think its a good idea) , is the following.
If you wish to create your "own room" on a regular basis, and you wish to add your own rules, over and above the rules that govern chat on this site....
Maybe we can have a separate
User Chatroom Rules Page.
Maybe it could say something like....
Midlands Room
Ususal times of opening 5pm - midnight every evening
Room owner whoever
Special Rules no directing of cams, no couples
that way, chatters can find the rooms when they are open, and be 100% sure before they enter the room what the rules are.
Ian

How many rooms are there now?
Several static rooms and countless member opened rooms
How many pages of rules could there be if every room opener wrote a set of rules?
How long is a piece of string?
Would anyone read that many sets of rules?
As many as bother to read the rules we have now I suppose
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
2).....a button that you can boot people of your cam with when there being a pain ?

That's a very good idea actually.... Elliot would it be possible??
Shireen
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