The site now appears to be orientated to couples, unless you are a male model, ordinary guys do not get a lookin.I would be interested in comments from peeps.
Quote by scorpio1950 The site now appears to be orientated to couples, unless you are a male model, ordinary guys do not get a lookin.I would be interested in comments from peeps.
STOP :shock: I get it it's a this site is shit because I've not had my end away post isn't it, ffs I'm off out aswelll and i'm going to miss all the fun :cry: :cry: :cry:
Well that's a load of old hogwash! My personal opinion would be: If you are going to say you are intelligent in your profile, try using correct spelling and grammar. Join in the forums so we can see what a happy fun guy you are!
What did you expect, shag on tap. There are lots of single blokes on here having a good time, maybe you should read a few of their posts. Getting to know people in the first instance and maybe a little patience wouldnt go amiss. sierra x x
Sheddy clicks his fingers and waits for the girlies to come running and clicks them again :? and again :? :? then walks off podering if his fingers are actuially working :lol:
Quote by sheddy Sheddy clicks his fingers and waits for the girlies to come running and clicks them again :? and again :? :? then walks off podering if his fingers are actuially working :lol:
Starts running.............. But in the opposite direction! :giggle:
We'll we're a gay couple but if you're speaking about straight couples then I guess that makes us the equivalent of two 'normal', non-model, single males.... and we've had lots of fun This site is orientated to whatever you want to make it fella... it just takes time, patience, honesty and a little bit of self-investment :P
Confusing profile mr Scorpio... you state you're a straight male, but you're looking for "single straight male" or a "couple with a bi male" oh and in the bit you write about yourself
49yr old fun guy,seeking couples, and/or a lady who is fed up with her current relationship
what's wrong with ladies not in relationships or ladies in relationships who aren't fed up but who are looking for single guys to play with? Just trying to help
I've said this (so have others) so many times on here now! You get out of this site what you are willing to put in. If you put in sod all you will get sod all!
Starts running.............. But in the opposite direction! :giggle:
Come back ya sod I'll put a cock shot on my profile if that'll help :lol: Ooooo yes please - I need a good giggle! .... I am SO joking Sheddy... I adore you really .....
Quote by scorpio1950 The site now appears to be orientated to couples, unless you are a male model, ordinary guys do not get a lookin.I would be interested in comments from peeps.
Well, I am now part of a couple, but not so long ago I was a single guy using this site. I have had my share of success, and my share of failure, but havent we all? I am far from being a male model, over 50, a tad overweight, hardly a moviestar, but hey its mostly what happens between your ears that governs success or failure. If I may suggest a few hints? 1. Lose the quick shag mentality 2. Pay a bit of attention to your profile 3. Ditto your ads 4. Give it time, the paint isnt dry on your membership yet
Quote by scorpio1950 The site now appears to be orientated to couples, unless you are a male model, ordinary guys do not get a lookin.I would be interested in comments from peeps.
Another i'm feeling sorry for myself thread because i haven't had a meet yet.... you get back what you put in,here on this site...nothing is easy,it can be hard won't all come knocking at your door.....so quit whinging and do something about....you've only been using the site for two months...
that is the best advice weve seen in a long while......quick and to the point.......also add 6:....dont be a letch ....puts most people off!
Quote by Reikiradical The site now appears to be orientated to couples, unless you are a male model, ordinary guys do not get a lookin.I would be interested in comments from peeps.
Well, I am now part of a couple, but not so long ago I was a single guy using this site. I have had my share of success, and my share of failure, but havent we all? I am far from being a male model, over 50, a tad overweight, hardly a moviestar, but hey its mostly what happens between your ears that governs success or failure. If I may suggest a few hints? 1. Lose the quick shag mentality 2. Pay a bit of attention to your profile 3. Ditto your ads 4. Give it time, the paint isnt dry on your membership yet
Quote by Jags The site now appears to be orientated to couples, unless you are a male model, ordinary guys do not get a lookin.I would be interested in comments from peeps.
Quote by Reikiradical 1. Lose the quick shag mentality 2. Pay a bit of attention to your profile 3. Ditto your ads 4. Give it time, the paint isnt dry on your membership yet
:thumbup: We should use this as a standard response to this kind of whinge... wonderful and very wise words Reikiradical
Like others on here I used to be a single male... Yes I know hard to believe but I used to be one of the crowd lol.... not going to have a go... everyone else has done that... It is hard work to start with on this site... Like everything else no one knows you and they don't know what you are like can you be trusted are you who you say you are. This site is bout having fun with liked minded people it is also about banter and jokes and also support... its a group of friends who are relaxed and very open with each other. Get yourself known but be patient, be thoughtful, get to know people.. If you spend most of your time in the forum then post now and again on a thread. If you use chat then stick to the same chat room for a while and get to know people. Until you do that you ain't going to get anything. Once you are known come to a social / munch... Then you will see what this site is about. Yes you COULD end up having sex with someone it is never a promise or guarantee that you willl. If you are looking for that try elsewhere.. If you are really lucky you might meet someone and it becomes more than just a meet and a shag.. yes it does happen, happened to Reikiradical and also me. But you have to be yourself and be known before anything will happen. Don't be part of the group that spoil it, the ones that just look for a quick shag behind thier partners back, be part of the whole thing... there is more to this than you think...
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