No we do not play on our door step.
....but I would love to swing on both side, at the same time.
definetly NOT !!
for 2 reasons
1 they are to close to home (altho i had no problems with swinging with someone at work !)
2 none of our neighbours are the sort of person i would want to have sex with !
i do wonder tho how we/i would feel if we had neighbours who were our "type" .... probably still wouldnt want to swing with them or for them to know we swing, cus they are to close to home and the potential for our children and other family to find out would make us worry to much .... however i might feel different if we didnt have neighbours who gossip so maliciously about us anyway !!
i don't think we would don't really know why but just would seem odd
I wouldn't, whether they're my neighbours as they are now or someone new. Only people I know and trust from here know my address and someone from the same street or area is just a little too close for comfort.
For the same reason, I wouldn't swing with friends I already knew before finding out they were on this site. That's happened to me a couple of times so makes them out of bounds as far as I'm concerned
I was in chat one day..and noticed someone that was according to SH calculations 0 miles away from me. We chatted in whisper.....and it seemd 6 doors down was a freind. It has never been a problem, and indeed, has had its advantages. So long as you discreet I really can't see what the problem, is. we see each other in the street all the time, and stop and chat. Exactly the same as I do with any of the other neighbours. Indeed I have quite a few people living locally off sh. I was round our local Tesco other month and chatted to 8 people off here. It was as if every isle I went down there was another SH member. Its not as if you gona shout at the top of your voice....who you been shagging lately then !!! As I say...so long as you discreet, I really can not see why it should be a problem.
We discovered just recently that a VERY close neighbour is on this Site. Presumably, they don't know who we are, nor that we know about them but we did drop them a line suggesting very vaguely that according to the distance calculator we "could" be neighbours. They chose for their own reasons not to respond and we respect that decision and left it at that. We just feel a bit guilty and a bit sorry for them that they don't know who their swinging neighbours are, but we know them.
Not a good idea to play with people too close to you.
Playing with neighbours could cause all sorts of problems.
A no no here from us Losty.
At clubs we have found ourselves face to face with neighbourghs and work collegues, nowt you can do about it then. We actually went onto have fun with them.
But have also turned down meets from people who contact us via sites as they live too close to us.
John & Shel
We have done it and I would say DONT do it.
Some people have suggested they may not say anything or you can be discreet. Thats fine for you but what if they dont? I have had to deal with that situation and its not very nice I can assure you. The party in question has moved but there is always the chance they will return as they still have a readily available place to live in the area. So we are always checking to see if there is a different car in the drive etc etc. Dont want to be looking over your shoulder all the time, its not nice.
NO.
We did it with friends and it led to a real mess, jealousy, suspicion and finally the end of their relationship. A definate no-no. As a result, my partner will not entertain it any more (and doesn't know that I do) and it spoiled what was (at the time) a great time for all of us. It only takes one person to feel like that and it ends in tears.
Anonymity and distance woould have done a great deal to remove that doubt.
i think the problem is that altho people say they are discrete they often arnt ... as i found out to my cost !!!!
I've never lived so close to so many people than I do here.
And never felt such a lack of nieghbourlyness. (nieghbourlyness..?)
as for those people in the vacinity... well... no.
lp
Definitely not, this town is far too small. I prefer to go a bit further afield.
i had a mate who arranged a meet with a single fem lived fairly close and thought this is handy.....turned out to be his girlfiend! she had posted a diferent postcode.
Both our neighbours are!!!!!
:giggle:
its 1 of the reasons myself and John are together 
