Would you .... do things to, or with other people that you wouldn't do with (I was going to say "your partner")the one you desire. We could be talking swapping or fetishes, or just bum sex even....and we're always assuming you'll be open with your partner. Are there things you will seek to do with others that you won't ask a partner to do?
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Sex God
Quote by Ben_Minx
Quite the reverse.
Exactly.
Sex God
Quote by Ben_Minx
Quite the reverse.
Same here
I do not "take one for the team"
I do not have bisexual sex in any format because I am straight
My partner loves me and therefore would not ask me to do something I am uncomfortable with.
I love my partner and therefore never ask her to do anything she is not 100% happy to do or even feel uncomfortable doing.
To ask each other otherwise would be to show that it is not true love
I do not have bisexual sex in any format because I am straight
My partner loves me and therefore would not ask me to do something I am uncomfortable with.
I love my partner and therefore never ask her to do anything she is not 100% happy to do or even feel uncomfortable doing.
To ask each other otherwise would be to show that it is not true love
along with not coercing your partner into doing things they are not comfortable with.....
I thought that swinging offered the opportunity to actually improve or enhance one's sexual experiences with others who do have that special interest or skill. that you and your partner are of that share and share alike mentality?
Does that also mean that you would seek to prevent the other players from giving your partner a memorable experience?
the rules seem to work for each couple, but how do they work when swinging? There seems to be an incongruity going on here?
I thought that swinging offered the opportunity to actually improve or enhance one's sexual experiences with others who do have that special interest or skill. that you and your partner are of that share and share alike mentality?
Does that also mean that you would seek to prevent the other players from giving your partner a memorable experience?
the rules seem to work for each couple, but how do they work when swinging? There seems to be an incongruity going on here?
Orgasminator
Yes, there are things I would do with (certain) other people that I wouldn't do with *Him*
There's a side of me that just doesn't work with the kind of relationship we have. It's a side i'd be happy to do nothing about, but if the opportunity comes up, i'll take it and run with it.
He's fully aware of it and it doesn't make what we have any less.
*Her*
There's a side of me that just doesn't work with the kind of relationship we have. It's a side i'd be happy to do nothing about, but if the opportunity comes up, i'll take it and run with it.
He's fully aware of it and it doesn't make what we have any less.
*Her*
Quote by skinny
Would you .... do things to, or with other people that you wouldn't do with (I was going to say "you partner")the one you desire. We could be talking swapping or fetishes, or just bum sex even....and we're always assuming you'll be open with your partner. Are there things you will seek to do with others that you won't ask a partner to do?
I've read this through...and the responses, or some of them.. There is no inference here of any "unwillingness" by either partner or of "asking" the partner to do something. I was assuming that we know our partners likes and dislikes. No mention of anything which implies that the partner would be displeased with the other's activity. I wasn't actually thinking in terms of bisexual activity, because obviously, if one or other engages in same sex activity then that would in many cases fit the description!
Quote by tweeky
Quite the reverse.
Exactly.
I thought my question was quite simple, but both of the first two responses...."quite the reverse" and "exactly" have caused me to look at the question....but still don't get the response... I mean reverse of what?, which then asks how come "exactly", is there something written here that I don't see...please enlighten me, this is not a criticism!
Sex God
Quote by skinny
Quite the reverse.
Exactly.
I thought my question was quite simple, but both of the first two responses...."quite the reverse" and "exactly" have caused me to look at the question....but still don't get the response... I mean reverse of what?, which then asks how come "exactly", is there something written here that I don't see...please enlighten me, this is not a criticism!
Anything I would want to try I try with Mrs Tweeky as I am more comfortable with her than I am with a stranger or swinging partner. I think we have tried most things anyway not sure what more there is to do. Luckily we both seem to be on the same wave lenght so there do not seem to be any underlying urges that one of us has that the other could not accomidate. There are some things we may look at that we are not sure about. If I decided I was interested in one of them but Mrs Tweeky was not that would be the end of it. I have no desire to try things minus Mrs Tweeky. Without her I loose interest.
Quote by skinny
Would you .... do things to, or with other people that you wouldn't do with (I was going to say "your partner")the one you desire. We could be talking swapping or fetishes, or just bum sex even....and we're always assuming you'll be open with your partner. Are there things you will seek to do with others that you won't ask a partner to do?
Hi Skinny I think your op is a little vague in what you are asking.
Are you suggesting that you wouldn't ask your partner because your relationship feels more loving and sensual so maybe you would feel embarrassed to own up to a hidden fetish or a secret fantasy?
That is outside the quote "Normal" within a loving relationship?
Sex God
Would you .... do things to, or with other people that you wouldn't do with// your partner
Not a chance!
EVER!
if we can't do it together, then what is the point in doing it!
Not a chance!
EVER!
if we can't do it together, then what is the point in doing it!
