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Im giving my first blow job tonight - tips please?
Master of Sex
do it as you would like someone doing it to you,watch any porn film and copy that(thats how i did my 1st BJ).
dont worry bout it to much it wll cum to you :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
dont worry bout it to much it wll cum to you :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
I find it helps to vary what you're doin - suck it abit, then take it out ur mouth and lick it up and down, then suck some more, maybe just on the head then suck it in as far as u can without gagging and do whatever cums naturally! 
blimey, writing that really got me in the mood for sucking some cock!! :shock:
blimey, writing that really got me in the mood for sucking some cock!! :shock:
Quote by sexyjess23
I find it helps to vary what you're doin - suck it abit, then take it out ur mouth and lick it up and down, then suck some more, maybe just on the head then suck it in as far as u can without gagging and do whatever cums naturally!
blimey, writing that really got me in the mood for sucking some cock!! :shock:
me to........gulp..... .nicely put jess..........
:twisted:
I am meeting a guy tomorrow night, and am giving my virginity to him - I am after hints and tips to make the time count - I am a first timer who will be giving hima blow job (any tips please) before he takes me - I know lube, lube, lube, but how do I get the best out of this experience for him and (more importantly) myself?
Well, you asked this question yesterday about anal sex.. have you ANY experience at all at anything sexual???
:shock:
1) Tell him it's your first time
2) Eye contact is always good
3) Listen to him - when he says 'aaaaaaauaahhaaaauuugh that's niiiiiiiice!', do whatever you did again!
4) At some point it will probably go too far down your throat - If he's really lucky, you'll find you like this :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: however this is rare. Be prepared for a choking sensation, and back off a bit. Try not to throw up, it's rarely a turn-on.
5) You are in control. You say what happens and when. Stop if you are not BOTH having fun.
6) The first time is not a good time for him to be thrusting up at you, or grabbing the back of your head and pushing down. He may need reminding of point 5!
7) If it's too dry, lick it!
8) Breath through your nose.
9) If you hate the taste of Nonoxyl9 spermicidal coating, wipe the covering off with a tissue first. Do NOT use oil on it, and replace it if it's going into any other orifice after you've wiped it!
10) Things that some men like, and others don't... try them, and look for signs of enjoyment/pain/both!
i) Gentle biting
ii) Firm biting
iii) Using your hand(s) too
iv) Gently playing with his balls at the same time
v) Firmly playing with his balls at the same time
vi) Porn style moans and commentary... "ooh it's so big! mmmmmmmm oh yes, ooooh baby!" etc.
vii) Carrying on gently playing aftyer he's cum.
Have fun!
2) Eye contact is always good
3) Listen to him - when he says 'aaaaaaauaahhaaaauuugh that's niiiiiiiice!', do whatever you did again!
4) At some point it will probably go too far down your throat - If he's really lucky, you'll find you like this :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: however this is rare. Be prepared for a choking sensation, and back off a bit. Try not to throw up, it's rarely a turn-on.
5) You are in control. You say what happens and when. Stop if you are not BOTH having fun.
6) The first time is not a good time for him to be thrusting up at you, or grabbing the back of your head and pushing down. He may need reminding of point 5!
7) If it's too dry, lick it!
8) Breath through your nose.
9) If you hate the taste of Nonoxyl9 spermicidal coating, wipe the covering off with a tissue first. Do NOT use oil on it, and replace it if it's going into any other orifice after you've wiped it!
10) Things that some men like, and others don't... try them, and look for signs of enjoyment/pain/both!
i) Gentle biting
ii) Firm biting
iii) Using your hand(s) too
iv) Gently playing with his balls at the same time
v) Firmly playing with his balls at the same time
vi) Porn style moans and commentary... "ooh it's so big! mmmmmmmm oh yes, ooooh baby!" etc.
vii) Carrying on gently playing aftyer he's cum.
Have fun!
Quote by redstilletto
I find it helps to vary what you're doin - suck it abit, then take it out ur mouth and lick it up and down, then suck some more, maybe just on the head then suck it in as far as u can without gagging and do whatever cums naturally!
blimey, writing that really got me in the mood for sucking some cock!! :shock:
me to........gulp..... .nicely put jess..........
:twisted:
willing volunteer for you both here, also happy to be performin on you ( gotta make you cum by tongue )
Sex God
only advice is..,,,
if u need to cough... take it out first! :shock:
if u need to cough... take it out first! :shock:
Quote by sexyjess23
I find it helps to vary what you're doin - suck it abit, then take it out ur mouth and lick it up and down, then suck some more, maybe just on the head then suck it in as far as u can without gagging and do whatever cums naturally!
blimey, writing that really got me in the mood for sucking some cock!! :shock:
No please don't literally suck it makes the cock sore.....
I think men vary enormously on how much friction they like. Sometimes you can be quite rough, others prefer it exceedingly gentle. For uncircumcised men, the end bit is often particularly sensitive. While some men like gentle biting they are perhaps in the minority - certainly, if I think a pair of teeth is coming anywhere near my penis I can't relax enough to enjoy it!
Varying it a lot probably works for most men. Think of it as a performance (is that why it's called a blow "job"?) and do it impressively.
Then there's classy phrases . . . .
The two nicest I've ever had are
* "May I rest my head in your lap?" (seated in a lift at a posh hotel late at night - I was so slow I literally thought she just meant 'rest' it!! - at least for a few seconds . . .)
and a mindblowingly tasteful: (said in a matter of fact tone before diving under the bedclothes)
*"Excuse me - I have to go and worship"
I agree that porn films are a good intro.
A (bi-lady) friend of mine and her (bi-male) pal had a vigorous end-of-party discussion the other night as to whether men or women are better at blow jobs. Any opinions?
Varying it a lot probably works for most men. Think of it as a performance (is that why it's called a blow "job"?) and do it impressively.
Then there's classy phrases . . . .
The two nicest I've ever had are
* "May I rest my head in your lap?" (seated in a lift at a posh hotel late at night - I was so slow I literally thought she just meant 'rest' it!! - at least for a few seconds . . .)
and a mindblowingly tasteful: (said in a matter of fact tone before diving under the bedclothes)
*"Excuse me - I have to go and worship"
I agree that porn films are a good intro.
A (bi-lady) friend of mine and her (bi-male) pal had a vigorous end-of-party discussion the other night as to whether men or women are better at blow jobs. Any opinions?
Quote by sexyjess23
I find it helps to vary what you're doin - suck it abit, then take it out ur mouth and lick it up and down, then suck some more, maybe just on the head then suck it in as far as u can without gagging and do whatever cums naturally!
blimey, writing that really got me in the mood for sucking some cock!! :shock:
Wish I'd been around at 3:53 when Jess was in the mood
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