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Random question but what do guys think about basques and / or corsets on ladies with more than an ample bosom?
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woah guys lets play nice,everyone has their own reason's why they are here and IMHO it's not up to us to judge, but to welcome people to our bossom, ok
Or indeed flirtys boosom and a very nice one it is,or should that be they? :lol:
Welcome to SH, flirty
Or indeed flirtys boosom
and a very nice one it is,or should that be they? :lol: Welcome to SH, flirty
Well for me an ample bussom does not do it no matter how they are dressed up, though I am the first to accept that they do it for many others, that's the nice thing there is something for everyone and for me that would be a nice pair of pert breasts up to a maximum 34C
If I was down town I love to see a nice cleavage and yes a nice cleavage is great but to actually play with, gimme small boobs every time. Sorry but you did ask
As for here and cheating, your right that is your choice and nobody should reprimand you for it, and you should not feel the need to justify it because you think you have just cause for what you do, again personally I don't think there is a viable excuse for cheating but each to their own
you are honest about it (on here if not with your bf) so at least we all get the chance to choose if we would want to meet you or not) :lol:
If I was down town I love to see a nice cleavage and yes a nice cleavage is great but to actually play with, gimme small boobs every time. Sorry but you did ask
As for here and cheating, your right that is your choice and nobody should reprimand you for it, and you should not feel the need to justify it because you think you have just cause for what you do, again personally I don't think there is a viable excuse for cheating but each to their own
you are honest about it (on here if not with your bf) so at least we all get the chance to choose if we would want to meet you or not) :lol: Mod
Quote by flirty_4
Ah if you could just step into my shoes and then you'd see
As the old jokes goes,
"Before you insult a man, walk a mile in his shoes
That way, when you insult him, you'll be a mile away and you'll have his shoes"
:lol: :lol:
Thanks Midscouple. I didn't join this site to be ticked off and if I wanted to air my problems I wouldn't do it here. Erm, anyway not on here to judge anyone..to swing or not to swing but personally I prefer sliding down a nice smooth slide *cough*
Well I only asked the basque question as I was having a mooch on amazon looking for another top, looks like a sexy basque this time :twisted:
As for my bosom, I get about fine with mine. Bigger than a handful? Maybe! Depends how big the hands are lol. Thanks for feedback though x
*cough*Well I only asked the basque question as I was having a mooch on amazon looking for another top, looks like a sexy basque this time :twisted:
As for my bosom, I get about fine with mine. Bigger than a handful? Maybe! Depends how big the hands are lol. Thanks for feedback though x
Quote by woohoo
Ah if you could just step into my shoes and then you'd see
As the old jokes goes,
"Before you insult a man, walk a mile in his shoes
That way, when you insult him, you'll be a mile away and you'll have his shoes"
:lol: :lol:
I have walked that mile and still remember the hurt and pain
Sex God
I can't help but judge a person on a swinger site playing behind their partners back and I can't think of a reason to find it acceptable although but would be more than happy for someone to enlighten me with one.
as for basques? Yeah they are cool although, like Mids, The smaller to medium is my preference
as for basques? Yeah they are cool although, like Mids, The smaller to medium is my preference
Sex God
:welcome: flirty
corset over basque every time they just shape so much better, can be picked up on sites like ebay quite cheap
corset over basque every time they just shape so much better, can be picked up on sites like ebay quite cheap
Welcome to the forum flirty.
I couldn't give a stuff about basques or corsets, but then to each his own, and I prefer my girls in smaller proportions anyway. Generally I'd say you should go with whatever you feel good in.
I'm sure you'll have no trouble whatsoever in attracting guys who couldn't care less about your personal circumstances. Your problem will be deciphering the timewasters from the genuine guys. You should aim to appear on cam in chatrooms yourself, thus confirming that you are both genuine, and female. (don't laugh) You'll also get a better idea of who's who.
I couldn't give a stuff about basques or corsets, but then to each his own, and I prefer my girls in smaller proportions anyway. Generally I'd say you should go with whatever you feel good in.
I'm sure you'll have no trouble whatsoever in attracting guys who couldn't care less about your personal circumstances. Your problem will be deciphering the timewasters from the genuine guys. You should aim to appear on cam in chatrooms yourself, thus confirming that you are both genuine, and female. (don't laugh) You'll also get a better idea of who's who.
Quote by Lost
I can't help but judge a person on a swinger site playing behind their partners back and I can't think of a reason to find it acceptable although but would be more than happy for someone to enlighten me with one.
What a welcome to the site but you stand your ground Flirty and ignore the ones knocking you. Welcome to the site and I hope you find what you are looking for.
If we are going to set rules then we need to ban time wasters, 40% of the couples profiles (at least) will need to go as the other half has no idea what is going on, another 40% of the couples profiles go as there is no other half . . . . . .
People join this site for many reasons, sex, friendship, just to chat. And for those that don't agree with someone's lifestyle or reason for being here don't hook up with the, friend them or have anything to do with them . . . . . but please play nicely with everyone !
Its all supposed to be fun !
Sex God
Quote by Gerty35
I can't help but judge a person on a swinger site playing behind their partners back and I can't think of a reason to find it acceptable although but would be more than happy for someone to enlighten me with one.
What a welcome to the site but you stand your ground Flirty and ignore the ones knocking you. Welcome to the site and I hope you find what you are looking for.
If we are going to set rules then we need to ban time wasters, 40% of the couples profiles (at least) will need to go as the other half has no idea what is going on, another 40% of the couples profiles go as there is no other half . . . . . .
People join this site for many reasons, sex, friendship, just to chat. And for those that don't agree with someone's lifestyle or reason for being here don't hook up with the, friend them or have anything to do with them . . . . . but please play nicely with everyone !
Its all supposed to be fun !
Cool its right people say what they believe in.
As for time wasters and people who bullshit their statuses on their profiles ... Yeah if there was a way to ban them then that would be cool and should be done. There should be and are rules some of which are not really enforceable though.
Just because a person doesn't agree with another doesn't necessarily give them the right to stop others the right to do as they do or feel granted. Some would say that what Lost does swing wise is unacceptable and to them it would be at least there's no deception there.
Always good to debate issues and if there were no differing of opinions or ideas then what a shame that would be.
If someone felt insulted or hurt by what I said then I'm sorry for their discomfort nut having any debate or counter arguement couldn't help me change how I feel.
Swinging is meant and should be fun for those that indulge and are fully aware of what they do.
As for being godlike hmm I can't change that but being fully atheist I would if I could.
Maybe have something like gobshite instead would be cool though.
Thanks for the feedback but I merely asked a question and, since I am a "newbie", assumed I would get a friendly welcome. After all, treat those how you'd wish to be treated - yada yada. So if you like to be spanked, expect a spanking back
Judging is all fair and well but until you've been in my situation exactly, you can't judge (nerrr nerrr) *sticks tongue out* :censored:
Ah, am just up for friendly banter me. We all got our own opinions great but I joined this site for what it is, not relationship counselling heehee.
Thanks Gerty for the welcome and Lizaleanrob :happy:
Is there a way of tagging people in forums? I'm still trying to figure things out!
Judging is all fair and well but until you've been in my situation exactly, you can't judge (nerrr nerrr) *sticks tongue out* :censored:
Ah, am just up for friendly banter me. We all got our own opinions great but I joined this site for what it is, not relationship counselling heehee.
Thanks Gerty for the welcome and Lizaleanrob :happy:
Is there a way of tagging people in forums? I'm still trying to figure things out!
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Is there a way of tagging people in forums? I'm still trying to figure things out!
Nope, but it might be worth adding to the Suggestions forum. :thumbup:
From our perspective, "cheating" is an evocative (and somewhat all encompassing) word and not something we'd usually condone by playing with the protagonist. But we'd also not condemn someone without knowing the full story, so :welcome: to The Site, and the rather dusty old forums. ;)
Quote by skinnyIm with skinny on this one, genuine on this site is as rare as rocking horse shite, as for the ticking off from others, people who Live in glass house and all that shit,,,, opinions are like arse holes,,, every one has one
Welcome to the forum flirty.
I couldn't give a stuff about basques or corsets, but then to each his own, and I prefer my girls in smaller proportions anyway. Generally I'd say you should go with whatever you feel good in.
I'm sure you'll have no trouble whatsoever in attracting guys who couldn't care less about your personal circumstances. Your problem will be deciphering the timewasters from the genuine guys. You should aim to appear on cam in chatrooms yourself, thus confirming that you are both genuine, and female. (don't laugh) You'll also get a better idea of who's who.
Quote by Katniss
Im not a guy but i thort id give my opinion anyway
:welcome: to the forums and to the site chick, lookin forward to seein you in chat coz you is a bit feisty
:thrilled::thrilled::thrilled:
Thanks hun
Feisty, me? Hehe. I'm not sure if that's my Irish side or my horny side or a combination of both lol x
Quote by maverick40Im with skinny on this one, genuine on this site is as rare as rocking horse shite, as for the ticking off from others, people who Live in glass house and all that shit,,,, opinions are like arse holes,,, every one has one
Welcome to the forum flirty.
I couldn't give a stuff about basques or corsets, but then to each his own, and I prefer my girls in smaller proportions anyway. Generally I'd say you should go with whatever you feel good in.
I'm sure you'll have no trouble whatsoever in attracting guys who couldn't care less about your personal circumstances. Your problem will be deciphering the timewasters from the genuine guys. You should aim to appear on cam in chatrooms yourself, thus confirming that you are both genuine, and female. (don't laugh) You'll also get a better idea of who's who.
Thanks for the input. I need something to control my rather ample bosom and as I'm a fan of the dressing up side of things, I adore outfits that enhance my figure. I may not be a skinny bird but that won't stop me, heeehee. :rude: x
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Thanks for the input. I need something to control my rather ample bosom and as I'm a fan of the dressing up side of things, I adore outfits that enhance my figure. I may not be a skinny bird but that won't stop me, heeehee. :rude: x
Skinny girls have their place ...which is somewhere like Outer Mongolia where I don't have to see them.
Corsets are ok but whenever I see them on a slightly larger frame than say a 14 I just see it as depseration when trying to keep the extra folds in *smiling* and wayyyyy too much effort in getting them on also. Never been a fan of them, I prefer to breathe nice n easy and not to struggle too much when putting something on and given the corset is from the back as opposed to the basque from the front then the lazy part of me plumps for the front.
Of course most men may comment on their preferences but at the end of it all they much prefer them to be on the floor, stands to reason dunnit.
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Thanks for the input. I need something to control my rather ample bosom and as I'm a fan of the dressing up side of things, I adore outfits that enhance my figure. I may not be a skinny bird but that won't stop me, heeehee. :rude: x
Skinny girls have their place ...which is somewhere like Outer Mongolia where I don't have to see them.
Corsets are ok but whenever I see them on a slightly larger frame than say a 14 I just see it as depseration when trying to keep the extra folds in *smiling* and wayyyyy too much effort in getting them on also. Never been a fan of them, I prefer to breathe nice n easy and not to struggle too much when putting something on and given the corset is from the back as opposed to the basque from the front then the lazy part of me plumps for the front.
Of course most men may comment on their preferences but at the end of it all they much prefer them to be on the floor, stands to reason dunnit.
normaly because
1: they havent been fitted for a corset first
2: they are wearing the wrong type for their body frame
we have seen many larger women look fab in in waspies and underbust corsets, over bust like you say has a habit of pushing parts of the body out even with liza's small frame.
imo
Quote by Lizaleanrob
Thanks for the input. I need something to control my rather ample bosom and as I'm a fan of the dressing up side of things, I adore outfits that enhance my figure. I may not be a skinny bird but that won't stop me, heeehee. :rude: x
Skinny girls have their place ...which is somewhere like Outer Mongolia where I don't have to see them.
Corsets are ok but whenever I see them on a slightly larger frame than say a 14 I just see it as depseration when trying to keep the extra folds in *smiling* and wayyyyy too much effort in getting them on also. Never been a fan of them, I prefer to breathe nice n easy and not to struggle too much when putting something on and given the corset is from the back as opposed to the basque from the front then the lazy part of me plumps for the front.
Of course most men may comment on their preferences but at the end of it all they much prefer them to be on the floor, stands to reason dunnit.
I agree kinda. I think anyone can look sexy, big or small, large or skinny, legs or no legs. We've only got one body and how you work on or with it, well make of it as you can. I actually admire people who flaunt their bodies bumps and all! We live in such a shallow world and we're either too fat or too thin, can't bloody win lol. I however shall be embracing my body until I pop my clogs
First of all...welcome ...especially as a local.
With outfits....I think its what you feel comfortable in. I always find if someone os comfortable in the way they look, they show confidence, and walk and hold themselves in a way that tends to excite.
However if you do wish to try and few outfits on....I'll pop round and give my visual advice..lol...Ever helpful ..me !!!
With outfits....I think its what you feel comfortable in. I always find if someone os comfortable in the way they look, they show confidence, and walk and hold themselves in a way that tends to excite.
However if you do wish to try and few outfits on....I'll pop round and give my visual advice..lol...Ever helpful ..me !!!
