After the goings on in here http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/25116.html I'm compelled to voice my reasons clearly as to why I am on a swinging site.
Yes, sex brought me here. I won't deny that fact. To be more specific, it is sex with more than one partner which happens to be my curiosity. This girl happens to have a thing for bi men. There, it's out in the open, those I speak to already know. None of us on here are *straight laced missionary in the dark* kinda people. But I'm sure some of you will understand when I say, even though sex brought me here I'm not quite ready for the great big leap just yet. I don't want to swing on my own. I'd like to find a partner with whom I'm comfortable with first. In the mean time I enjoy the forum and the people I've bonded with on here. It's the people and the friendship I've found on SH which has me coming back for more. My journy of exploration has only just begun. How far will it take me and what are the limits? I don't know. It's slowly slowly for now.
If I had to put myself into a box or was asked to describe myself it would have to be....I'm a swinger who doesn't swing (yet)
There's a lot of people just like me.
Nicely said Libra, we swing but only on rare occasions, call us picky! But in the meantime, I have been up to a bi fem Ann Summers party, and chatted in PM with lots of friendly people, posted lots of message and just generally enjoyed myself in here. :thrilled:
Well said Libra Love
The whole point of fantasies is to enjoy the journey, not just try and get it over with ASAP. So you carry on exactly as you are, it suits you and that's what's important.
I am in a similar position, there are a couple of fantasies that I would love to carry out one day. They have got to be with the right person, in the right circumstance and at the right time etc.
Until that time happens, or even if it happens, then I'm determined to just have a great time and enjoy myself within my limits for now.
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I and my other half Angelica don't swing. The fact that this place is at least partly populated by swingers is very attractive to me but not because I want to swing with them. I find people who accept swinging to be generally open minded, tolerant of others' views, with a humorous outlook on life. These are just a few of the qualities of people I really like here. I'm sorry - a little of the subject but something I wanted to say.
It is an interesting thread.
People are on here for all sorts of reasons and at different stages of their experience journey. It doesn’t matter whether Libra is ready to swing or not just that she is honest. Whether or not Libra could be labelled a swinger is irrelevant she is Libra.
Thanks to all who have read and/or responded to this thread. I now feel like I can kick the door in and yell, 'Hi honey I'm home.' Reckon it's time to pack those boxes off to the Big Yellow Storage too. :P