could we please have peoples opinions on something that really makes us rage when we go to clubs.
Our problem is people who go in orgy or couples only rooms at clubs and then sit either before or after sex and have a rather loud conversation ( 1 couple had a full blown domestic) whilst others in the room are trying to have sex.
We find this very off putting and have asked people nicely to be quiet in the past and just wondered if its just us that finds this kinda thing very rude and annoying
Zoe & Steve
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Not noticed that exact problem, however I do think sometimes tensions can run high in a club or at a party if people perhaps haven't been clear with boundaries and/or expectations first.
I've experienced the whole "noisy conversation and associated laughter" whilst playing in an orgy room, and it's very distracting!! Bad enough when it's just a loud conversation, but the laughter is awful because you're left wondering whether they're laughing at their conversation or at you 
I should imagine that a full on domestic going on in the corner's distracting too; I don't know why people can't just have a bit of consideration. Clubs have so many different areas, why not choose a social area to have their loud natters?
I should imagine that a full on domestic going on in the corner's distracting too; I don't know why people can't just have a bit of consideration. Clubs have so many different areas, why not choose a social area to have their loud natters?
Personally I find situations like that can be down to poor management!
People can be so intrinsically self gratifying to the apparent lack of concern to others around them and a 'properly' run club should have staff reminding the clientele to be discreet & respectful whilst on the premises.
Common sense really! :jagsatwork:
People can be so intrinsically self gratifying to the apparent lack of concern to others around them and a 'properly' run club should have staff reminding the clientele to be discreet & respectful whilst on the premises.
Common sense really! :jagsatwork:
Yep, happened to me too, while i had my then partner tied to a table whilst doing deliciouly evil things to him..lol.. was very put off by a loud female voice, laughing and joking, putting me right off what i was doing.
I told her loudly to shut up! It did the trick!
The way i see it is, that it's up to us as invididuals not management to sort things out as they happen. Management cant be everywhere, and a notice on the wall, well who reads those? Speak up, speak loudly and embarrass those concerned - it usually works.
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I told her loudly to shut up! It did the trick!
The way i see it is, that it's up to us as invididuals not management to sort things out as they happen. Management cant be everywhere, and a notice on the wall, well who reads those? Speak up, speak loudly and embarrass those concerned - it usually works.
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