I would love to hear from couples particularly white cpls why they enjoy bringing a black man into their sex lives. I have been meeting white cpls for ten years and really get off on the fact they want black men. Thoughts pls.
Now....this is what i call inter-racial fun !!!!..lol Sitting together on a train, travelling through the Swiss Alps, were a French guy, an English bloke, a little old Greek lady, and a young blonde Swiss girl with large breasts. The Train goes into a dark tunnel and a few seconds later there is the sound of a loud slap. When the train emerges from the tunnel, the French guy has a bright red, hand print on his cheek. No one speaks. The old lady thinks: The French guy must have groped the blonde in the dark, and she slapped his cheek. The blonde Swiss girl thinks: That French guy must have tried to grope me in the dark, but missed and fondled the old lady and she slapped his cheek. The French guy thinks: That English bloke must have groped the blonde in the dark - she tried to slap him but missed and got me instead. And the English bloke thinks: I can't wait for another tunnel, just so I can smack that French bastard again
Quote by Kaznkev On the topic, i cant think of anything that matters less to me than the race of the person i am shagging, but if i had to pick a favourite it would be Celts followed by Tibetans. Its the mountain air i think!
Scientific evidence recently showed that French men have bigger penis's than any other European. I think the Italians had the smallest.
Quote by blacklondonguy I would love to hear from couples particularly white cpls why they enjoy bringing a black man into their sex lives. I have been meeting white cpls for ten years and really get off on the fact they want black men. Thoughts pls.
Have you thought to ask the couples you've met? I wouldn't say I look for any race or colour particularly; it's about the person, not the colour of their skin :-?
Quote by deancannock Now....this is what i call inter-racial fun !!!!..lol Sitting together on a train, travelling through the Swiss Alps, were a French guy, an English bloke, a little old Greek lady, and a young blonde Swiss girl with large breasts. The Train goes into a dark tunnel and a few seconds later there is the sound of a loud slap. When the train emerges from the tunnel, the French guy has a bright red, hand print on his cheek. No one speaks. The old lady thinks: The French guy must have groped the blonde in the dark, and she slapped his cheek. The blonde Swiss girl thinks: That French guy must have tried to grope me in the dark, but missed and fondled the old lady and she slapped his cheek. The French guy thinks: That English bloke must have groped the blonde in the dark - she tried to slap him but missed and got me instead. And the English bloke thinks: I can't wait for another tunnel, just so I can smack that French bastard again
Quote by blacklondonguy I would love to hear from couples particularly white cpls why they enjoy bringing a black man into their sex lives. I have been meeting white cpls for ten years and really get off on the fact they want black men. Thoughts pls.
Hi and welcome to the forums. I'm not part of a couple, so I guess I'm not your target audience but I thought I'd join in. There are some couples who do actively seek out black guys to play with. (I'm not sure if you've seen the black guys/white women chatrooms, I think on server 3?) I'm not sure why this is a choice/preference they have. But anyway, I'm waffling so I'll stop. :welcome: to the site though - hope you have heaps of fun. Nola x
Hi and welcome to SH I guess there's a novelty fascination with shagging a person of another colour if your used to people of the same colour. I know we'd love to play with a black woman or couple although our boundaries and limits wouldn't change to do so. Yes I think it would be novel and a cool visual experience.
I have often found this a point of view which is conveniently overlooked. It being; is it racist to seek out other races for pleasure, as opposed to the more familiar hatred? logically it must be, as the only significant reason is based on the difference in race. so its not race hate, its race admiration but with the utilisation of sexual attributes for a specific purpose. ie fantasy realisation and fulfillment. as I usually point out its familiarisation which brings on the desire of the fantasy. few of us fantasise about sex involving Mongolians, simply because there are usually none about. Although I have actually had sex with Mongolian woman.) So does racism include admiration or is it only employed as a hate thing? I think it includes both and several things between.
Interesting notion Duncan. I think that as racism is primarily used if not exclusively with negative connotations then in the case were on about here I cant see it being racism at all. What would be interesting is to discuss whether actively avoiding and not wanting and disliking the idea of sex with people of a different race/colour/creed I guess that could be racist I guess.
its probably because we are conditioned to think in certain ways. but it seems to me that it racism must have an equal and opposite effect. that it's not just hatred but desire as well.
On the topic, i cant think of anything that matters less to me than the race of the person i am shagging, but if i had to pick a favourite it would be Celts followed by Tibetans. Its the mountain air i think!
Scientific evidence recently showed that French men have bigger penis's than any other European. I think the Italians had the smallest. Does that include expats? :twisted: I wish!!
the taboo effect comes into play as well. but again its familiarity and access. also its romeo and juliet again. its a specific thing to set about doing. on the one hand people will say they don't have a prejudice against race, but they can't have the experience without being selective on the basis of race. so there seems to be a conditioning to only see a situation in a certain way and little or no acknowledgement in the other.
I'm not part of a white couple that seek out black guys (see signature). But I have thought a lot about why I like black guys. And my preference for black guys is, in the first instance, based on contrast. Black skin against white. The clear demarcation that distinguishes male from female, him from me. Don't ask me why I find that enhances the desire - it just does. That and gorgeous dark brown eyes looking deeply into mine. (phew, is it getting warm in here?) But after the first 'phwoar' personality is a must. It's just that in a situation with plenty to chose from, I filter first on looks and then on personality - it's simply more convenient that way round.
Quote by foxylady2209 I'm not part of a white couple that seek out black guys (see signature). But I have thought a lot about why I like black guys. And my preference for black guys is, in the first instance, based on contrast. Black skin against white. The clear demarcation that distinguishes male from female, him from me. Don't ask me why I find that enhances the desire - it just does. That and gorgeous dark brown eyes looking deeply into mine. (phew, is it getting warm in here?) But after the first 'phwoar' personality is a must. It's just that in a situation with plenty to chose from, I filter first on looks and then on personality - it's simply more convenient that way round.
Mrs777 would agree with that Foxy....plus it does look rather horny from where I was standing.
I'm really not racist at all, but I dont play with black guys. I dunno why, it just dont do it for me. I suppose if I found one that I fancied then I would do it but as yet I haven't. To be honest, the fact that almost every black guy has a username containing something like 'blackhung' and every message we receive from black guys has 'black and hung' as the title kind of puts me off! Maybe lots of them are well hung, but it don't mean that they know what to do with it!! I've also noticed that guys with really massive cocks lack quality of wood. We don't look for single girls neither. Maybe we're not normal??
:thumbup: J read your post and said that's how she felt about things too. With regards to the username point J also finds that a real turn off and avoids them I must admit i'm not keen on them either although, I'm sure if i sported 14" then I'd want the whole 'kin world to know about it Oh dear aren't we all just so fickle
having thought a bit and checked out a few things I'd say that the word racial describes your relationship with someone of a different race. being racist does not involve any real relationship. races are seen as objects of hate. my relationships with black and oriental women have often incurred the argument of 'did you just go out with me because i was different?' I have to say now that it was because of that. the mystery and allure were altogether stronger than the more familiar characteristics of my own race. we found ourselves behaving in quite different ways. there are many very good reasons why there are so many different races. and being involved and having a relationship is an adventure characterised by those differences. but swinging usually does not involve this, and subsequently no depth of racial interchange.
its more to do with it being one of the first few things to try out along with mmf or ffm. i had a few encounters with a couple and they drafted in a black fellow with a beezer of a knob. but actually her sexual skills were quite basic and what she really satisfied was a deep sense of greed.
Quote by Jawnathan Why do women only want huge black cocks? What about us with huge white cocks! Hmmm that may seem like a ooooh look at me comment, but er well it is!
I know what your saying, not that mine is in the VWE catagory but I get by No doubt if those ads were worded the other way someone would complain they were racist. Black cock white cock makes no difference bigs big regardless of colour.
Perhaps women should advertise that they have a twat like a tardis and want to let off a scud misslie inside it. but its just easier to say 'blacks welcome'
Quote by duncanlondon Perhaps women should advertise that they have a twat like a tardis and want to let off a scud misslie inside it. but its just easier to say 'blacks welcome'
Which implies they are bigger Seems though scientific studies are mixed on that most finding little variation between most races. Its one of the best invented myths of all time :dunno: dont go investigating cocks but studies dont seem to support it.
I suspect that there are as many large white cocks as there is black ones, it probably is a myth. I think its to do with the contrast in colour, I would like to sleep with a black woman for a similar reason.
Its arguable as to how accurate a poll can be and in which way it is designed to produce what it wants to its own advantage. Perhaps its a very old belief and one of mixed emotions towards black men. ie the attribute that makes it easier for racially sensitive white men to accept black men. a black fellow with an average cock obviously does not get considered. so clearly being black and having a big one are the 2 criteria for a certain type of swinging adventure. I don't find demands for black women with specific attributes amongst the general turnover of adverts. presumably its not required as any woman coming forth to swing is welcomed whatever her credentials. so again it seems to be one of the selective quirks of the game. but one which is the more likely to achieve a result, that is when people are first exploring swinging. where it often seems to have a significance. perhaps black guys do well within hetero swinging circles and well hung white guys do well within white homosexual circles.
I would like to think that people enjoy my company because I'm an easy-going, likeable chap rather than the colour of my skin. Discrimination on the scene works both ways, and I have been re-buffed from contacts purely on race. I have no issue with them, it is their choice and I have the self-belief and confidence in myself to avoid taking such rejection to heart. I have also been contacted by couples purely on race. Although I am flattered by their attention, I do try to make an effort to exhibit my personality as well as my prowess. Everyone on this site will agree that there is a significantly large number of single male profiles. All these guys are vying for your attention and, quite rightly, will use, in their minds, their best attributes to garner your interest. I would advise any single black male to not just rely on the colour of his skin to obtain a meet. As a group, you still outnumber the couples and females you want to meet so must still put the effort into developing a profile that carries your personality. Who knows, if you dazzle enough you may even convince people who have never considered meeting a black guy before to accept you on account of you as a person, not a stereotype. I would also like to pass comment on the attitude of the couples and fems that like to meet black guys. From my understanding of the previous posts, we all assume that these individuals are meeting black guys just on race. I'm not denying that happens, but some people do want to meet up with black guys from a culture perspective. Perhaps they share the same interest in music or food? Maybe they have had relationships with black men and find themselves more comfortable in that scenario. On the few parties I've attended with a black for white theme, there seems to be a significant emphasis on having a good time rather than getting as many meets as possible. I've met some fantastic women on here that only meet black guys due to cultural preferences and we've become great friends over the years, taking our relationship beyond the scene. Eventually, they become disillusioned when they discover I'm a complete geek, but that's irrelevant. What I'm trying to say is that's more important to be beautiful inside than to rely on what's outside all the time. Let us also not judge others on their preferences as we all have a right to decide who we are intimate with. We all know there is a whole world out there that totally disagrees with what we do on our own in private with other consenting adults, and it's hard enough dealing with them before we turnon each other. Mike x x x
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Hi and welcome to the forums.
Oh dear aren't we all just so fickle 
