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As some of you may know, I'm looking for another job as my contract in one job runs out at the end of June. The other job has ceased due to no more funding.
I have been to a few interviews now but not managed to overcome my nerves. This makes my mind go blank & so I totally feck it up banghead
I know I'm very good at what I do but I just need to promote myself better in the interviews.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated as I have another interview on Tuesday
worship
My top tips for interviews:
1/ When sitting and talking, keep good eye contact.
2/ Don't fiddle with anything at all, keep your hands still.
3/ Be energetic in your speech, bubbly (if you can)
4/ Have loads of questions to ask THEM.
5/ Hair make up and nails ARE important (unfortunately) so make the best of what you have.
6/ If you're not sure of the answer to give don't be frightened to ask them to clairify the question.
7/ Be completely honest when asked your opinion. Even if you think they won't like the answer, they will love your honesty.
Hope this helps hun
and good luck
Fire xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
A usefull if simple one I picked up when I went for an interview with a big company is if they ask are you nervous always say YES as people who arn't tend to not give a fook about the outcome of the interview and thats excactly what they told me when I replied yes biggrin :D
My top tips for interviews:
I know all this but
1/ When sitting and talking, keep good eye contact.
If I fancy any of the male or female my eyes sillyhwoar:
2/ Don't fiddle with anything at all, keep your hands still.
I like fiddling with things lol
3/ Be energetic in your speech, bubbly (if you can)
I am bubbly & energetic in my speech, can't shut me up sometimes :gagged:
4/ Have loads of questions to ask THEM.
Questions? when are you free"
My place or yours?
innocent
5/ Hair make up and nails ARE important (unfortunately) so make the best of what you have.
Hair & nails aways done :thumbup:
6/ If you're not sure of the answer to give don't be frightened to ask them to clairify the question.
can I just rub my leg up & down theirs & hope for the best dunno
7/ Be completely honest when asked your opinion. Even if you think they won't like the answer, they will love your honesty.
Hope this helps hun
and good luck
Fire xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx[/quote
thanks hun
I went for a job interview last monday :shock: they called me Monday morning and I literally had to go that day so no time to be nervous!
Good prep tips :-
Have a copy of your CV, application letter and any certificates in a presentation folder.
Have your own copy of the CV with more detail than you would include in an application, particulary dealing with your own skills, weaknesses, future plans etc. Make sure you have a 5 yr / 10 yr plan.
Know your own strengths and weaknesses! Be prepared to sell yourself like a product, don't overplay your skills, and don't ignore your weaknesses! Keep to the slogan "does exactly what it says on the packaging", if you are aware of your weaknesses what are you doing to improve them? Don't make out you're a hotshot if you can't deliver! However, don't undersell yourself, the interviewer needs YOU to tell them why they should employ you.
Look on the internet for the company website and print any useful information, try the local newspapers online for news stories relating to the company.
Cx
Quote by Calista
I went for a job interview last monday :shock: they called me Monday morning and I literally had to go that day so no time to be nervous!
Good prep tips :-
Have a copy of your CV, application letter and any certificates in a presentation folder.
Have your own copy of the CV with more detail than you would include in an application, particulary dealing with your own skills, weaknesses, future plans etc. Make sure you have a 5 yr / 10 yr plan.
Know your own strengths and weaknesses! Be prepared to sell yourself like a product, don't overplay your skills, and don't ignore your weaknesses! Keep to the slogan "does exactly what it says on the packaging", if you are aware of your weaknesses what are you doing to improve them? Don't make out you're a hotshot if you can't deliver! However, don't undersell yourself, the interviewer needs YOU to tell them why they should employ you.
Look on the internet for the company website and print any useful information, try the local newspapers online for news stories relating to the company.
Cx

wow thanks :shock:
bet you got your job last week lol
Well I havn't worked for some time so maybe I have an "atitude" problem.....or maybe not, but I don't see why one should be nervous at an interview. You get the job and after a few weeks everbody is badmouthig the boss and getting up to all the little tricks that probably was the reason why you left your last job !
An interview is only a business meeting and I feel its a two way thing. Such questions as why do you want this job can be answered in all sorts of flowery ways but the bottom line is usually profit and If a business does not accept that as a ligitimate reason then maybe its not such a good place to consider working for !
I personally don't see my lack of work as not being good enough, rather that I have not so far found a business good enough to employ me !
the only advice i can give you is be prepared...
Know what your CV says (we all lie a little bit).
Know your future employee.
Dress smartly..
Be interested in what they have to say and what you have to say...
Take any documents or qualifications they may ask to see..
You have been asked for an interview so you have already got past the application form stage so you have what they are looking for now on paper its just up to you to prove to them that you have the personal skills as well to fit into their little team..
if you are not succesful you can ask to be informed of the reason why, in writing, and they have to , by law, respond.. this may be useful in future interviews. after all no-one is 100% perfect..
Good Luck
I'm watching this thread with interest biggrin
Interviews are my big downfall - I cant brown-nose the panel, I'm not good at 'big upping' myself, I'm far to straight up to give them any twaddle about 'why do I want this job' etc, and I really really REALLY hate it when people 'judge' me, which is of course exactly what they're doing in an interview rolleyes lol
I know my line of work inside out, I can do most of the jobs I apply for standing on my head - my big problem is conveying that to a panel of people I think are trying to trip me up, asking dumb ass questions and who are gonna 'discuss' me when I leave. Full on paranoia - especially if its a job I really want :lol:
and it doesnt matter how well I prepare for interview, I always either go blank cos i'm trying so hard to give them the answers they want to hear (and i find that really really difficult hence go blank in the process of trying :lol: ) or I have so much I could talk about and use as examples to answer the question that I get it all in a knot and end up saying 2 sentances :shock:
bloody job interviews :roll:
wink
Act and speak like a MP. Tell all the lies you can, just like them.
You will get the job:- xxxx
I went for an interview last week for a part-time job and I think I have got it lol = only four candidates.
Good luck hun kiss
Phredd
Quote by hisandhers
wow thanks :shock:
bet you got your job last week lol

Still waiting to hear :shock:
Had a phone call Friday morning asking for the phone numbers of my references, although they did still have 2 more people to interview :shock:
Hopefully will hear tomorrow.
Cx
Assume a correct and appropriate seating position in front of the panel/interviewer

innocent
Quote by Darkfire
I'm watching this thread with interest biggrin
Interviews are my big downfall - I cant brown-nose the panel, I'm not good at 'big upping' myself, I'm far to straight up to give them any twaddle about 'why do I want this job' etc, and I really really REALLY hate it when people 'judge' me, which is of course exactly what they're doing in an interview rolleyes lol
I know my line of work inside out, I can do most of the jobs I apply for standing on my head - my big problem is conveying that to a panel of people I think are trying to trip me up, asking dumb ass questions and who are gonna 'discuss' me when I leave. Full on paranoia - especially if its a job I really want :lol:
and it doesnt matter how well I prepare for interview, I always either go blank cos i'm trying so hard to give them the answers they want to hear (and i find that really really difficult hence go blank in the process of trying :lol: ) or I have so much I could talk about and use as examples to answer the question that I get it all in a knot and end up saying 2 sentances :shock:
bloody job interviews :roll:

ive always taken in notes...as an interviewee or an interviewer, it shows that you have prepared if you sometimes have to consult your notes..we can all give advice but in the end sometimes it not about whether you can do the job but whether your face fits and ive been turned down for a few i thought i could do with my eyes shut and then been offered ones i thought were beyond me..
I've solved my interview problems......
self employment.
Seriously, it may sound stupid but remember to breath - practice some deep, relaxing breathing before you go in.
H.x
Interviewing is not a science and interviews vary greatly from person to person and sector to sector. If you get an interview it's for one reason only - because they like you! Hence take what may seem like rude or harsh questions or remarks about such things as age, experience, qualifications etc. with a pinch of salt. Such apparent issues are the interviewer's way of testing you out to see if you really have what it takes. Stay calm, confident and in control at all times. If you've done your preparations properly you should have antiipcated the sort of questions you're likely to be asked and be ready to counter any comments which highlight apparent weaknesses. Identify and be prepared to highlight your strengths with examples and facts to support your case - if you're not confident in your own ability why should the potential employer be?
Good luck!
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Assume a correct and appropriate seating position in front of the panel/interviewer

innocent

Your hired............... Now where is that Vacancy???
sassy you never fail to make me lol thanks hun
Phredd, Darks, daveanddebbie69, sheddy, & peanut thanks
still :scared: though
gonna imagine thenm all with no clothes on!!
hunni, just be yourself and you'll be fine kiss
Good luck hunni :thumbup:
Quote by osemlover
Interviewing is not a science and interviews vary greatly from person to person and sector to sector. Having said that I've been working in this field for over 20 years now and the single most important piece of advice I can give you is:
If you get an interview it's for one reason only - because they like you! Hence take what may seem like rude or harsh questions or remarks about such things as age, experience, qualifications etc. with a pinch of salt. Such apparent issues are the interviewer's way of testing you out to see if you really have what it takes. Stay calm, confident and in control at all times. If you've done your preparations properly you should have antiipcated the sort of questions you're likely to be asked and be ready to counter any comments which highlight apparent weaknesses. Identify and be prepared to highlight your strengths with examples and facts to support your case - if you're not confident in your own ability why should the potential employer be?
If you want more advice please PM by all means.
Good luck!

aww bless thanks hun may take you up on that pm
Quote by osemlover
Interviewing is not a science and interviews vary greatly from person to person and sector to sector. Having said that I've been working in this field for over 20 years now and the single most important piece of advice I can give you is:
If you get an interview it's for one reason only - because they like you! Hence take what may seem like rude or harsh questions or remarks about such things as age, experience, qualifications etc. with a pinch of salt. Such apparent issues are the interviewer's way of testing you out to see if you really have what it takes. Stay calm, confident and in control at all times. If you've done your preparations properly you should have antiipcated the sort of questions you're likely to be asked and be ready to counter any comments which highlight apparent weaknesses. Identify and be prepared to highlight your strengths with examples and facts to support your case - if you're not confident in your own ability why should the potential employer be?
If you want more advice please PM by all means.
Good luck!
Quote by Calista

wow thanks :shock:
bet you got your job last week lol

Still waiting to hear :shock:
Had a phone call Friday morning asking for the phone numbers of my references, although they did still have 2 more people to interview :shock:
Hopefully will hear tomorrow.
Cx
Heard today and got the job :bounce:
Hand my notice in tomorrow biggrin
Stick to your guns :thumbsup:
Cx
Quote by Calista

wow thanks :shock:
bet you got your job last week lol

Still waiting to hear :shock:
Had a phone call Friday morning asking for the phone numbers of my references, although they did still have 2 more people to interview :shock:
Hopefully will hear tomorrow.
Cx
Heard today and got the job :bounce:
Hand my notice in tomorrow biggrin
Stick to your guns :thumbsup:
Cx
Fantastic news nun.......Im sorry, I have to leave that there its a bloody classic! I must be really pished!
Take 2.....Fantastic news HUN! Well done you :therethere: :thumbup:
Wooo hooo ! :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
CONGRATS HUNNI
kiss
the only piece of advice i can give that others havent is ....when they start asking you about your qualities, i fould that if you have the attitude of "i`m here to offer you an opportunity"...rather than the other way round........dont get me wrong...dont be arrogant, just know why they SHOULD be hiring you over anyone else... lol biggrin
every interview I've ever been for I have gone in with the "I couldn't give a shit whether you hire me or not attitude" Always been honest and answered the questions etc etc but in the end I've only ever failed at one interview.
well.
haie done- check
nails done- check
brain in gear- think so
right I'm off for my interview, wish me luck guys lol
Walks off to take some calms :scared:
Okies.. I apologise if I repeat any advice given already but here's my 2ps worth! Listed below are the things that helped me to get my current (geeky!) job.
Find out what you can about the company and it's ethos, showing that you are taking it seriously and that you 'do your homework' etc.
Ask a friend or partner to ask you possible questions - whether you are laying in bed or washing up I think it helps you to feel more confident.
Sit down and write a list of any questions that they may ask you - even if they don't come up in the interview you will feel more prepared and appear more confident and therefore more relaxed (hopefully!).
Just believe and know that you are more than capable but be honest and open.
smile
Quote by hisandhers
well.
haie done- check
nails done- check
brain in gear- think so
right I'm off for my interview, wish me luck guys lol
Walks off to take some calms :scared:

you're not going to need luck,you're going to be great.
H.x (the 'x' is my fingures crossed for you)
Quote by Calista

wow thanks :shock:
bet you got your job last week lol

Still waiting to hear :shock:
Had a phone call Friday morning asking for the phone numbers of my references, although they did still have 2 more people to interview :shock:
Hopefully will hear tomorrow.
Cx
Heard today and got the job :bounce:
Hand my notice in tomorrow biggrin
Stick to your guns :thumbsup:
Cx
well done you!! :lol:
Quote by H-x
well.
haie done- check
nails done- check
brain in gear- think so
right I'm off for my interview, wish me luck guys lol
Walks off to take some calms :scared:

you're not going to need luck,you're going to be great.
H.x (the 'x' is my fingures crossed for you)
thanks Hx your fingers crossed worked :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
I am officially a full timer again
wheres that bottle of wine when I want one :lol:
thanks for all your excellent advice kiss to you all