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is 50+ to old to swing ???

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Quote by celestria
oh er sassy had looked but was just a question but thanks for the polite no lol ......was wondering if any girls go specifcly for an older guy or given the choice between an under45 or a over 50 which one would be chosen ??

The one with the nicest bedside manner wink
:thumbup:
Quote by stevestoo
thanks for that celestria have just added it to my profile..... well you never know it might work lol biggrin lol

pppsssttt while I'm doing profile tips... try a bit of punctuation in yours hunny... it's fecking hard to read without any wink
not my stronest point celestria.....!!!!! good bedside manner ...... bad grammer lol
Quote by stevestoo
not my stronest point celestria.....!!!!! good bedside manner ...... bad grammer lol

not mine either if I'm honest. Tell you what we'll try a little experiment. Try reading your profile aloud but you can only take a breath where you see a comma or a full stop.
Now when you've gone blue, passed out and come round again have another look at it and put the "breathing spaces" in wink
lol having read and recovered after a 999 call have now re done ... please miss a silver star at least lol
Quote by stevestoo
lol having read and recovered after a 999 call have now re done ... please miss a silver star at least lol

Quote by celestria
thanks for that celestria have just added it to my profile..... well you never know it might work lol biggrin lol

pppsssttt while I'm doing profile tips... try a bit of punctuation in yours hunny... it's fecking hard to read without any wink
aint life full of little surprises...like.... a cockney trying to teach english grammar lol!!!
bolt
RWL
xxx
Quote by redwine_lover
thanks for that celestria have just added it to my profile..... well you never know it might work lol biggrin lol

pppsssttt while I'm doing profile tips... try a bit of punctuation in yours hunny... it's fecking hard to read without any wink
aint life full of little surprises...like.... a cockney trying to teach english grammar lol!!!
bolt
RWL
xxx
I am not a flucking cockney grandad :giggle:
Quote by celestria
thanks for that celestria have just added it to my profile..... well you never know it might work lol biggrin lol

pppsssttt while I'm doing profile tips... try a bit of punctuation in yours hunny... it's fecking hard to read without any wink
aint life full of little surprises...like.... a cockney trying to teach english grammar lol!!!
bolt
RWL
xxx
I am not a flucking cockney grandad :giggle:
cya up the "apple and pears", (comma) with a smile on your "boatrace", (comma)
flipa
RWL
xx
Quote by redwine_lover
cya up the "apple and pears", (comma) with a smile on your "boatrace", (comma)
flipa
RWL
xx

Shut it... you're tighter than most Yorkies I know, you sure you're a Lanc Lad?
:thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled:
I hope 50's not too old to swing, we all will be one day (with luck) and I'd hate to think that I have to give up at 49, I'm just getting started!!!!
I tend to go with my own age group (ish) but that is merely because of mutual social interests ie music etc, having said that I have played with older and younger. At the end of the day it's down to attitude not age.
H.x
Quote by celestria

cya up the "apple and pears", (comma) with a smile on your "boatrace", (comma)
flipa
RWL
xx

Shut it... you're tighter than most Yorkies I know, you sure you're a Lanc Lad?
:thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled:
thats what i love about the younger swingers...such maturity and quality of conversation
hahahhahahhahahah
RWL
xxx
Seems some of you on here subscribe to sex over 50 as asomething odd - unusual - not quite right while others agree that just because you pass that magical big 50 life doesn't stop. In fact many of us over 50s are in our prime.
After all it takes me all night to do what i used to do all night ........... and no complaints from the good friends I have made here on Swinging Heaven! I am in my late 50s and am having a ball, and not just with people around my own age. There's something in the mature and experienced tag younger women sometimes like in their men. Don't knock it until youve tried it.
Regards Beej23
I'd love to meet up with someone over 50 biggrin
I did do a search on profiles here the other morning but I just dont believe the couple who are both 96 :!:
Regards
Harry Jones
To old to swing at 50+!!!!
Happy to report that this is definately NOT so.
If anything Ms Reiki and I are having more fun now than we have had in years, although she has yet to hit the big 50. I like to think that I am a better and more adventurous lover now than I have ever been.
Its taken me 30 odd years (some very odd) to aquire the skills and abilities that I have now and I don't intend to give it all up. Most of our play partners are well over 40, but thats not really a conscious decision, we just have more in common with people in our own age group. With age comes a confidence and a security that flows across into all areas of life.
So there ya go ....50+ and having plenty of fun :swingingchair:
Certainly not too old for swinging, although perhaps not swinging from the chandelier ............
Quote by NLondonJohn
Certainly not too old for swinging, although perhaps not swinging from the chandelier ............

Yes.... it would be awkward if I dropped my Zimmer frame from on high..... wink
CB
think its more difficult to swing, find people who are happy with a single 50 odd year old especially when there are a lot younger fitter guys about to choose from ??
Quote by lifesacool
think its more difficult to swing, find people who are happy with a single 50 odd year old especially when there are a lot younger fitter guys about to choose from ??

not true...
50 is the new 40
RWL
Quote by redwine_lover
50 is the new 40

Aha! That must mean I'm 40 on Tuesday lol
CB
I can remember getting a mail saying we were too old from a couple..... well the male half lol.. as it turns out we met at a Munch and we have all been best ''friends'' ever since.
Your never too old for anything if your able to do it..... I think most people think older means being boring.. just prove em wrong!
Mike
Well I didn't start playing till I was 50! and that was with a 39 year old. To be honest, I'm fighting men off with a stick! But i admit it's probably cos I'm female and young men want older women either as a mother substitute or because of the experience and there are far more men on the scene than women.
Having spoken with playbyte on this, I can see that more mature men have a more difficult time because people see the age and think, ooooo over the hill, But to coin a phrase age is but a number and one of my best swinging buddies is a year old than me.
Probably this isn't the best medium for older swingers because it's a very monochrome situation and once you meet up, you would see how much fun you can have.
And when all said and done -it's about having fun
One of my best ever experiences was with a guy in his 50's- when I was in my early 20's.
MMMMM....I can still smell the Baileys :lickface:
Yes Ladydark we did have a good chat about this and a good meal into the bargain as well.
Terrific personality that mrs playbyte and i like very much indeed.
let's face it when you are past 50 theres a lot more hanging off you that you can swing around!!
:twisted:
What's that supposed to mean nougatlouisiana?
The problem with people especially within the U.K is that we are told/programmed that having Sex after a certain age is demeaning / wrong.
I believe that this is wrong as my basic knowledge of Science is that continuing to think about Sex (Erotic) or even doing the act gives you a longer life – ‘put’s petrol in the engine’.
So I say NO; if you can get your leg over then keep bouncing if it’s 18 or 80…
Let’s get the party stated because England just cannot take penalties so we need to keep a smile on our faces.
Quote by ladydark
Well I didn't start playing till I was 50! and that was with a 39 year old. To be honest, I'm fighting men off with a stick! But i admit it's probably cos I'm female and young men want older women either as a mother substitute or because of the experience and there are far more men on the scene than women.
Having spoken with playbyte on this, I can see that more mature men have a more difficult time because people see the age and think, ooooo over the hill, But to coin a phrase age is but a number and one of my best swinging buddies is a year old than me.
Probably this isn't the best medium for older swingers because it's a very monochrome situation and once you meet up, you would see how much fun you can have.
And when all said and done -it's about having fun

Hiya ladydark.
Regards from over the fens, ohh and I go for the experience, not the mother substitute wink
If your stick starts failing you will find me politely waiting at the end of the queue (my normal place in life)
Regards
Harry Jones
Got to be honest, when I started in this game three years ago at 47, I thought I'd be too old. There is certainly a bit of "diminishing returns" as there are less people swinging in the 50's plus range and there is a certain degree of ageism.....
BUT...
I've still had fun, just that I now want more....more.....more..... redface
aka Grumpyoldpervert
EDITED : to edit out my obvious lack of numerical skills surprisedops: