Is a \"no thanks\" too much to ask?

13 Nov 2007

I read ads and profiles and send messages to ones where I'm certain as can be that I'm in the area of what/whom they seek, messages that show I HAVE actually read their ads and profiles lol, but I know the odds of even getting a 'no thanks' are pretty low because of the sheer volume of the PMs the ladies or couples get.
It's a fact of SH life, a fact that in my selfish moments I too feel it's unfair on those of us who are genuine and really do have something to offer but it's the way swinging cookie crumbles because there are loads of single males, loads and loads and loads!
And loads! rolleyes

13 Nov 2007

Quote by MikeNorth
In addition some pushy people here see a "thanks but no thanks" reponse as an invitation to start up a "why not" dialogue when it isn't,

i really really hate that its one of my very few pet hates on here, i think its just done to put you on the spot and make you feel bad and change your mind, if someone sends you a pic or you have chatted and they say no thanks its bloody obvious why not.....CAUSE THEY DONT LIKE YOU lol
If someone turns you down never ever ask why not :jagsatwork:

13 Nov 2007

Quote by Pendulous007

Still Its a shame that considerate people (like me ) who do follow the rules and make an effort get treated the same as the chancing jackasses that are flooding the mailboxes in the first place. Grr!

How would you know that there are chancing jackasses who flood mailboxes?
Looking at the above replies. Have you never had one? As a couple surely you must have?
so what makes a reply genuine and what makes you a chancing jack ass?

13 Nov 2007

Quote by Cherrytree
He's surely allowed to put what he wants on his profile - and if that includes NOT elaborating on his partner, well that's his choice!
If folk dismiss his advert because of lack of information, that's their choice too - but loads of people have bugger all on their profiles!

The subject of strap-ons etc seems to be invading every thread in this forum! :shock: lol

13 Nov 2007

Quote by danne
iv only ever put one ad on and got hundreds of replies, most of which i wasnt interested in but i did reply to them all..........it took me months...
however i took the ad of in the end cus it got to much :D

No more ads for you though, now you're all 'loved up' :inlove:

13 Nov 2007

Quote by fabioplum
iv only ever put one ad on and got hundreds of replies, most of which i wasnt interested in but i did reply to them all..........it took me months...
however i took the ad of in the end cus it got to much :D

No more ads for you though, now you're all 'loved up' :inlove:
true lol

13 Nov 2007

Bugger bugger bugger mad

:x
Just added a long reply to this thread and feckin' lost it so you're all gonna just have to imagine what I said! :lol2:
pink x

13 Nov 2007

Quote by blueandpink
Bugger bugger bugger :x
Just added a long reply to this thread and feckin' lost it so you're all gonna just have to imagine what I said! :lol2:
pink x

Awww!I was looking forward to reading it as well blueandpink, had even done a coffee and a plate of biscuits beforehand! sad

13 Nov 2007

Quote by niceandgentle
Bugger bugger bugger :x
Just added a long reply to this thread and feckin' lost it so you're all gonna just have to imagine what I said! :lol2:
pink x

Awww! I was looking forward to reading it as well blueandpink, had even done a coffee and a plate of biscuits beforehand! sad

Aw thanks niceandgentle, nice to know someone likes reading my posts wink

Well eat your biccies anyway (can I have one? :lol2 smile

and enjoy
pink x

13 Nov 2007

Quote by niceandgentle
Bugger bugger bugger :x
Just added a long reply to this thread and feckin' lost it so you're all gonna just have to imagine what I said! :lol2:
pink x

Awww!I was looking forward to reading it as well blueandpink, had even done a coffee and a plate of biscuits beforehand! sad

a plate full rolleyes

who are you inviting round my doggy luffs biccies well mine she does anyway and i enjoy reading pinks posts (i think it pink anyway im colour blind biggrin

)

13 Nov 2007

Quote by blueandpink
Bugger bugger bugger :x
Just added a long reply to this thread and feckin' lost it so you're all gonna just have to imagine what I said! :lol2:
pink x

Awww! I was looking forward to reading it as well blueandpink, had even done a coffee and a plate of biscuits beforehand! sad

Aw thanks niceandgentle, nice to know someone likes reading my posts wink

Well eat your biccies anyway (can I have one? :lol2 smile

and enjoy
pink x
Well you may not like them blueandpink, they are Garibaldis, people say they look like they've got dead flies in them but you are most welcome to have one.
CLINK!CLINK!CLUNK!
Sorry, I'm trying to pass the plate over to you - but there appears to be some kind of glass screen in the way! confused

13 Nov 2007

Quote by niceandgentle
Bugger bugger bugger :x
Just added a long reply to this thread and feckin' lost it so you're all gonna just have to imagine what I said! :lol2:
pink x

Awww! I was looking forward to reading it as well blueandpink, had even done a coffee and a plate of biscuits beforehand! sad

Aw thanks niceandgentle, nice to know someone likes reading my posts wink

Well eat your biccies anyway (can I have one? :lol2 smile

and enjoy
pink x
Well you may not like them blueandpink, they are Garibaldis, people say they look like they've got dead flies in them but you are most welcome to have one.
CLINK!CLINK!CLUNK!
Sorry, I'm trying to pass the plate over to you - but there appears to be some kind of glass screen in the way! confused

I LOVE squashed fly biccies - be over in two tics lol

13 Nov 2007

Quote by niceandgentle
Bugger bugger bugger :x
Just added a long reply to this thread and feckin' lost it so you're all gonna just have to imagine what I said! :lol2:
pink x

Awww! I was looking forward to reading it as well blueandpink, had even done a coffee and a plate of biscuits beforehand! sad

Aw thanks niceandgentle, nice to know someone likes reading my posts wink

Well eat your biccies anyway (can I have one? :lol2 smile

and enjoy
pink x
Well you may not like them blueandpink, they are Garibaldis, people say they look like they've got dead flies in them but you are most welcome to have one.
CLINK!CLINK!CLUNK!
Sorry, I'm trying to pass the plate over to you - but there appears to be some kind of glass screen in the way! confused

Garibaldi's for the sin of tan (how many packets do ya buy in one go before ya become a mad women if its more than 6 packets the mad women is over there <<<<<<<<,-------------

13 Nov 2007

Quote by dekntan
Bugger bugger bugger :x
Just added a long reply to this thread and feckin' lost it so you're all gonna just have to imagine what I said! :lol2:
pink x

Awww!I was looking forward to reading it as well blueandpink, had even done a coffee and a plate of biscuits beforehand! sad

a plate full rolleyes

who are you inviting round my doggy luffs biccies well mine she does anyway and i enjoy reading pinks posts (i think it pink anyway im colour blind biggrin

)
Ah, but as said, these are Garibaldis, AKA dead fly biscuits, we are surely straying close to socks/marmite country here! :shock:

13 Nov 2007

socks ewwwww
marmite ewwwww ewwwww ewwww ewww
garibaldis mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

13 Nov 2007

Quote by blueandpink
Bugger bugger bugger :x
Just added a long reply to this thread and feckin' lost it so you're all gonna just have to imagine what I said! :lol2:
pink x

Awww! I was looking forward to reading it as well blueandpink, had even done a coffee and a plate of biscuits beforehand! sad

Aw thanks niceandgentle, nice to know someone likes reading my posts wink

Well eat your biccies anyway (can I have one? :lol2 smile

and enjoy
pink x
Well you may not like them blueandpink, they are Garibaldis, people say they look like they've got dead flies in them but you are most welcome to have one.
CLINK!CLINK!CLUNK!
Sorry, I'm trying to pass the plate over to you - but there appears to be some kind of glass screen in the way! confused

I LOVE squashed fly biccies - be over in two tics lol

What, by leaping through this glass screen thing?
Wow! cool

13 Nov 2007

Quote by dekntan
socks ewwwww
marmite ewwwww ewwwww ewwww ewww
garibaldis mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Dream.. or nightmare? :shock: :shock: :shock:
Seems everybody is into the dead fly garbaldis though! cool

13 Nov 2007

Quote by niceandgentle
socks ewwwww
marmite ewwwww ewwwww ewwww ewww
garibaldis mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Dream.. or nightmare? :shock: :shock: :shock:
Seems everybody is into the dead fly garbaldis though! cool

well in that order a really bad nightmare followed by a lovely dream lol
but they not for dipping they for munching

13 Nov 2007

Quote by dekntan
socks ewwwww
marmite ewwwww ewwwww ewwww ewww
garibaldis mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Dream.. or nightmare? :shock: :shock: :shock:
Seems everybody is into the dead fly garbaldis though! cool

well in that order a really bad nightmare followed by a lovely dream lol
but they not for dipping they for munching
It even says so on the packet: NO DIPPING
Fact! wink

13 Nov 2007

I dip them :P

13 Nov 2007

Quote by niceandgentle
socks ewwwww
marmite ewwwww ewwwww ewwww ewww
garibaldis mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Dream.. or nightmare? :shock: :shock: :shock:
Seems everybody is into the dead fly garbaldis though! cool

well in that order a really bad nightmare followed by a lovely dream lol
but they not for dipping they for munching
It even says so on the packet: NO DIPPING
Fact! wink

:thumbup: :thumbup: thats exactly what it says on my packet to biggrin

ok it seems i am priveliged rolleyes

i was in me kitchen n me dog starts going mad so me thinking a stark raving loon brave enough to knock on me door :shock: i find 2 workmen replacing the guttering :eeek: it was replaced last week :shock: and how come know one else has had theres done confused

: a right garibaldi moment this is

13 Nov 2007

Quote by Warmer
I dip them :P

There's always one rebel!
But I'll concede that dipping sounds more graceful than dunking.

13 Nov 2007

:small-print: garibaldi's do not have a dunking capability this is because the raisins keep them stuck together and the biccie does not fall off
Dunking means the biccie falls into the mug worship

13 Nov 2007

Quote by Warmer
I dip them :P

But you like M*rm*te too confused

Bad woman!
I love Garibaldi biscuits. No biscuit should ever be dipped. Yuk.

13 Nov 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
I love Garibaldi biscuits.

:thumbup: mmmmmmmmmmm
louise xx

13 Nov 2007

I prefer to dip all my biccies purely and simply as i am not keen on 'dry' things in my mouth confused

some of them you have to time well to make sure you don't end up with a mugfull of gloop..years of training and dedication that takes lol

oh and I don't let other people dip there biccies in my drink oh no!
Yes I stand up and admit I am a rebel and a bad woman smackbottom

but i don't do socks :lol:

13 Nov 2007

i sometimes get replies from guys over 200miles away suggesting we meet well lets be fair i know this is primaraly a sex siye but it does not mean i am willing to jump into bed with every guy on the site as soon as we meet so i cant really see the point in answering those types of ad

14 Nov 2007

Quote by Pendulous007
"winks wont be replied to"

Don't let that stop you.......... rolleyes

14 Nov 2007

Actually, I don't mean to be rude but looking at your profile I'd be reluctant to reply/contact you. You've gone from one name to another in a few weeks (which in itself isn't a problem) and you've put abs. nothing in your profile!.. not even rough ages, whereabouts, likes/dislikes.. nothing.
From where I'm looking I would then presume you were someone possibly not taking this as seriously as you would want people to think and therefore they wouldn't bother.
My opinion only :P

14 Nov 2007

Quote by jaymar
Actually, I don't mean to be rude but looking at your profile I'd be reluctant to reply/contact you. You've gone from one name to another in a few weeks (which in itself isn't a problem) and you've put abs. nothing in your profile!.. not even rough ages, whereabouts, likes/dislikes.. nothing.
From where I'm looking I would then presume you were someone possibly not taking this as seriously as you would want people to think and therefore they wouldn't bother.
My opinion only :P

Quite right Mar!
I've commented about this sort of thing before. It never seems like someone genuine.