Is Anal sex the norm now, in real life and porn

I use a IPTV service that comes with porn channels..99% of the content shown includes Anal sex on Females. I am lucky, if you can call it that, my Mrs enjoys anal sex,she can orgasm from it, and is part of any meets we have(if the guy wants to do it, some don't). But watching some of this porn. I wonder if the Ladies in them do it, not because they want to or enjoy it, but because, if they do not they would not get the work and earn the money, because it's become the norm in the Porn industry now.   

I think porn has to be more and morefilthy to get people to watch, and this tend to spill over into real not a problem for me as I love anal, but some other genres are of putting such as gagging and double anal

my 1st wife loved it

my wife loves anal says the bigger the dick is the better

Personally I have never cared to try, more than happy with the other options, I know what's up there.  And yes, the nicer bits of porn are now ignored, get straight to the action, put the biggest you can find into the smallest and bang hard. These days I prefer to watch couples at home and I still like to see the clothes come off and the zippers unzip first.

In bed the other night after a little bit of playing Shel said to me "If you put the bedside light on and really lube me up I'll let you stick it in my bum"   So I followed her instructions and she let out one HELL of a scream as it went in !!!!!!

OK it was my fault, I should have let the bulb cool down first !!!!

Excellent!

LOL at Geordiecpl2001!

Porn is an industry, a pretty big one too, and I have to guess their output/product is what is demanded by the majority.  I would have though lesbian sex is still the top seller but I'm not into 'produced' porn so I really don't know.  MrAndMrsBad, maybe those channels were all 'popular straight' channels..?  I guess the bog standard formula is still BJ, tit sucking, cunni, sex (2 or 3 positions), anal then finish with a facial or cum on tits.

I've never understood how watching people 'act out sex' is a turn on but I admit I think am in the minority - plenty of my friends, regardless of gender and sexual tastes, enjoy 'produced' porn well knowning it's not 'real'... but then I guess I enjoy plenty of movies or TV shows and they are not 'real'.  I do like sex scenes in movies if they are well lit/shot, good sound, genuinely steamy, even if naked bodies are not on show.

I suspect being a full time porn 'star' is one of those jobs which, if you love sex, sounds like a dream job but in reality is just as crap as most jobs and gets worse as the years go on, for the women and for the men.

My wife and I have had anal sex for many years whilst we are not swingers, we have always experimented. She gets a massive orgasm from it and it happens quickly, although it is not something we rush. It happens once in a while certainly not every time we have sex. I do think the porn industry is promoting it big time and being honest it's not for everyone so I hope people don't think they have failed if they don't like/enjoy it

I never used to entertain anal until recently.  But my husband loves it and has gone a very lone time fantasizing about it but unfortunately he is too big for me . But only a couple of months ago he started to slip a finger in whilst pleasuring me and it has been the best orgasm I have ever had now I want it every time .

I guess its each to his or her own preference.  In my experience it's a different sensation fucking arse as to pussy,  not sure I have a preference down to what the lady likes.

Just remember guys to take it very slow with lots of lube.

I always wanted to have anal sex then a bout a year ago I meet a new girl we was having sex my cock was wet and she was cuming I was going to tease her by pulling out and just dipping the bellend in on the lips near to the clit she moved I lined up but turned out to be the bum was so tight it was like a virgin hole it felt lovely the next thing she says to me that’s my ass fuck me hard so I abliged tight wet no lube I cum inside her ass and her pussy was dripping wet she cumed so much I clean my knob gave it 10 minutes then we made love pussy sex was nice fist time now gave my brown wings 😀

All this talk is getting me going I'm so disappointed that I've never been allowed to try it. If there should be a willing lady out there please send me a message 🌹

The 1st time I did it was because my wife wanted it and she got a liking for it from her previous guy

Sammy has found she has the  "best" orgasms from anal and prefers it.  I dont really have a preference but it has been a part of most the sexual relationships ive had and does see to be a norm now.

Hey Snufflles can you give me Sammy's phone number lol

Anal sex isn't the norm here. It's something that's never interested either of us.

some people hate it and lots love it. most get put off from 1st experience with people who dont know what there doing. try a nice hot relaxing bath followed by a relaxing evening so shes nice and relaxed , always have LOTS of lube. no such thing as too much. if relaxed it helps.  but yes i think in porn they are trying to push it as normal but it aint for every lady . start small

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Hey Snufflles can you give me Sammy's phone number lol

 Sorry mate, google  manages my address book and she said " Im sorry but i cant help with that right now, but my team are always teaching me new things"  you could always submit a support ticket to google assistant 

I did say "a" norm to cover myself for this very eventuality! Maybe its a deviant Surrey thing or even a gamer girl norm!

read most of the answers and reply’s on here... well it’s not the norm in our relationship.... while stroking, playing and slight fingering seems to be erotic ... unfortunately when lots of lube and penetration did “happen” let’s say it never happened again! Lol

I’m not a Mr Holmes but I think the length was ok.... but the “girth” was I’m told unbearable.... so our anal sex is a closed book unless she can find a thinner penis or I can find a lady who likes the wider thicker penis?

Good post by the way.

well size could be a factor maybe my wife likes it as I am smallish 

Please STOP all this anal chat it's driving me nuts. Iv never had it, Iv never been allowed to try it and it doesn't look like I'm ever going to find out what it's like unless a willing lady can help me out

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Please STOP all this anal chat it's driving me nuts. Iv never had it, Iv never been allowed to try it and it doesn't look like I'm ever going to find out what it's like unless a willing lady can help me out

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Please STOP all this anal chat it's driving me nuts. Iv never had it, Iv never been allowed to try it and it doesn't look like I'm ever going to find out what it's like unless a willing lady can help me out

 patience is a virtue and a horny greedy girl dose help lol

To all you lovers of anal (female only please), how did you first get into it? Were you forced into it? Did you experiment when you were younger (if you're not young already)? Were you gently coerced into it by a partner - if so, how did you feel initially and how long was it before you were comfortable with the experience? How did you feel with first full penetration? I'm asking as I'm trying to introduce my wife to the experience after reading about how so many women say it's the result of the most intense orgasm they've ever had, and I'd like my wife to experience such an orgasm ... I'd be grateful for all (sensible) answers that could steer me in the right direction. We tried introducing a butt plug but she says it stings (and after having tried it myself I can understand what she means), we've attempted it with a 'rabbit' but she says she would much prefer me as my manhood would be more 'forgiving' ... please help of you can. Thanks ... 19Stevie59

Wife has never really been into it at all. On a few occasions we've attempted to stick my cock up her bum bit she says it hurts too much so I obviously stop. I've had a finger up her arse quite a few times but again its not something that is a regular occurrence and I always try to be careful and take it slow so I don't inflict any pain.

keep being persistent with out hurting her eventually she will be able to take it and want it regular ,thats what I did with my wife 

Think this is another of those marmite subjects. People seem to love it or hate it. I love it. I think lots of girls get put off from a bad first experience. In porn the guy just shoves his cock straight up the girls bum. Real life isn’t like that. Slow and steady is definitely the way to start with lots of lube. Also don’t forget you can train your bum by using toys and working up from small to large over time. I’m rather fond of bbc but I guarantee that none of the pornstars ever took one of those huge cocks you see in films for the first time. Be realistic about what you can manage at the start and take it from there.