hello lads and ladies.
I am a married guy who has been on here for a while , my wife hates sex and i love it , hence why i am on here. I have been a pornomaniac for years and have moved on to actually meeting people. I sometimes feel like a pervert and sometimes i dont.
Why do we love sex so much ,its weird and very interesting.
anyone fancy a conversation on this matter.
all the best , pete x
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is anyone else addicted to sex!!does it make you feel like a
Orgasminator
perhaps she doesnt hate sex but just gone off sex with you ... it happened with me. as soon as i got out of my marriage i found a renewed liking of sex and realised it was just my ex i didnt fancy having sex with any more.
perhaps the reason you feel like a pervert is that you are feeling guilty of cheating on your wife as well ... just a thought
perhaps the reason you feel like a pervert is that you are feeling guilty of cheating on your wife as well ... just a thought
Sex God
Sorry, I find this kind of thread hilarious!
Quote by Sara2010
perhaps she doesnt hate sex but just gone off sex with you
:scared: Ouch! But so very true that one can 'go off' sex.
:lol: LG.
Sex God
Ohhhh the presumptions. He may be cheating but he never said he was 
Maybe she knows 
And yes I like sex but I think its simply nature wanting us to breed.
Maybe she knows And yes I like sex but I think its simply nature wanting us to breed.
The problem may be:
1) Sex with you
2) Sex generally
3) Stress in the workplace
4) Doubts about her own sexual attractiveness
5) Illness
6) Six hundred other things I can't be bothered to type
The next question is how much do you want to stay together? If you are both determined to work it out, a professionally-qualified counsellor or therapist can help the two of you uncover the real problem. Choose one that is BACP registered.
1) Sex with you
2) Sex generally
3) Stress in the workplace
4) Doubts about her own sexual attractiveness
5) Illness
6) Six hundred other things I can't be bothered to type
The next question is how much do you want to stay together? If you are both determined to work it out, a professionally-qualified counsellor or therapist can help the two of you uncover the real problem. Choose one that is BACP registered.
Sex God
Quote by duncanlondon
in what way is it considered addictive? i mean i pee several times a day, but is it an addiction?
How many times do you pee Duncan. Could be a prostate problem
As for sex, I don't know I guess it feels good it's something most of us can do with or without others and get pleasure from and it's one of the basic human instinctual needs along with along with food warmth. How about talking to your wife finding out her needs and expressing yours to see how some middle ground can be found.
If it is a serious problem which is putting an otherwise loving marriage that you want to keep but the no sex thing is throwing up big issues then go see a marriage guidance counsellor before it's too late
Sex God
A sensible test of 'addiction' although not an official one - is that the activity impinges on normal life. If people risk their jobs, relationships or health to pursue it - then you could call it an addiction.
A relationship can survive a difference in sexual appetite, so long as a) is willing to give up their share of sex for the sake of the other OR b) is willing to put up with the classic definition of being cheated on for the sake of the other. Relationships aren't dependent on equal sex - they are deppendent on a willingness to adapt. Not all can - especially in extremes.
I'm not addicted to sex, or anything I think. But I have gone through horny-hell where I want/need sex and aren't getting it/enough. that's just bloody annoying to be honest cos it's distracting.
A relationship can survive a difference in sexual appetite, so long as a) is willing to give up their share of sex for the sake of the other OR b) is willing to put up with the classic definition of being cheated on for the sake of the other. Relationships aren't dependent on equal sex - they are deppendent on a willingness to adapt. Not all can - especially in extremes.
I'm not addicted to sex, or anything I think. But I have gone through horny-hell where I want/need sex and aren't getting it/enough. that's just bloody annoying to be honest cos it's distracting.
Thanks everyone for a good read,some replys made me think a little,some just plain obvious. I have the worst trait a human can have,I feel no shame and am happy with what I do. This was not a plea for sympathy or even empathy my friends,just to see if anyone else had opinions,and I thank you for them all.
Much love xx
Much love xx
