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Is it a numbers game ?
I arrived purely out of interest in the scene ( a date had told me about it) with the intention of becoming invovled in it...
Its become much more than that now, I actually forget its a swinging site (sorry folks :lol2
and treat it like any other site I belong to. I do take from it though in all many ways...
Its become much more than that now, I actually forget its a swinging site (sorry folks :lol2
and treat it like any other site I belong to. I do take from it though in all many ways... Funny enough I was in the 'wrong place at the wrong time' I signed up replied to a few add & actually met someone rather quickly!
:doh: fluck knows who she was but the words 'fanny resembling a ripped out fireplace' seems to come to mind :giggle:
Hey... she said it first!!!
But now I'm here I just love to have a giggle & chill out with a few SH friends, sex is just the cherry on top! :bounce:
But then I live close to Tesco's... so cherries are in constant supply!
:doh: fluck knows who she was but the words 'fanny resembling a ripped out fireplace' seems to come to mind :giggle:
Hey... she said it first!!!
But now I'm here I just love to have a giggle & chill out with a few SH friends, sex is just the cherry on top! :bounce:
But then I live close to Tesco's... so cherries are in constant supply!
Sex God
once upon a time it was somewhere just to have a natter, then it was somewhere to fall in love, then it was somewhere to swing...now i really dont know why we bother..but thats today speaking tomorrow it could all change
And I feel so guilty about the poor ladies of SH who have suffered you ever since. :dry:
When we joined, I felt "pounced" upon by some members who lived close by. I felt very much like fresh meat.
I just can't find someone attractive unless I know them, so this place is a catalyst for making friends really, then, who knows
And my meat is pretty rancid now anyway!
:giggle: :rotflmao: :giggle:When I first joined I was looking to the established members for their pearls of wisdom and guidance rather than notching a few shags up. Then I realised most of em speak the same bollocks as me so now I'm just here to perv :twisted:
Seriously, I came to make some new friends ( and have some fun on the way :twisted: ) and I've done just that! I still feel 'pounced upon' when I put an ad up for guys and still have one or two stalkers from here who still haven't learnt the error of their judgement
All in all, the friends aspect is more important to me than getting my leg over. It's great to be able to chat to someone so openly about sex and preferences without getting a sideways glance ( vanillas just don't get it do they? :doh: )
and I get a shag along the way :grin:
Seriously, I came to make some new friends ( and have some fun on the way :twisted: ) and I've done just that! I still feel 'pounced upon' when I put an ad up for guys and still have one or two stalkers from here who still haven't learnt the error of their judgement
All in all, the friends aspect is more important to me than getting my leg over. It's great to be able to chat to someone so openly about sex and preferences without getting a sideways glance ( vanillas just don't get it do they? :doh: )
and I get a shag along the way :grin:
Sex God
We only ever thought about the occasional foray into the 'darkside' of extramarital sex and that is what it remains. The opportunity to dip a toe. (dip a toe ffs) The social side is 95% of it for us though at times we think to ourselves. "blimey theres people out there doing it every day with loads of other people " should we be more like that?
NO . What comes along does when it does and thats great. We have had some really great times. we might meet again in a couple of days or in a couple of months who knows? we don't. The social has to take precedent always. If it doesn't then for me Mr Lost its over. I really think though it's 'only just begun' (cue Carpenters)
NO . What comes along does when it does and thats great. We have had some really great times. we might meet again in a couple of days or in a couple of months who knows? we don't. The social has to take precedent always. If it doesn't then for me Mr Lost its over. I really think though it's 'only just begun' (cue Carpenters)
Casanova
Quote by helnheaven
I dont 'do' numbers
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My lucky number is 5......hence fantasy of Rich,me and 5 bi fems
Love chatting to people :high-smile:
Dont do full shags with others :undecided:
Love the social side of meeting peeps in the flesh so to speak
dee n Rich xx
I joined the site when I was fresh out of a relationship and I wanted NSA sex with women, who wouldn't want to marry me and bear my children.
Then I began to question my sexuality as I became attracted to a certain man and wasn't sure if it was just cos I thought his wife was fit.
I went the full hog and became romantically involved with one man and began to also have sexual encounters with men on a swinging NSA basis.
Then I met 'wor lass' and we began an 'open' relationship. We both believe that an open/swinging relationship is the only way forward. I occasionally meet people as a single woman. If I come across someone interesting (not in a bukkake kinda way) then I may approach them on 'our' behalf.
We class ourselves as gay... she calls herself 'homoflexible' and I class myself as an open minded lesbian who wantonly uses men's cocks to give me pleasure. If the man happens to be married to a hot woman then I would like to devour her too. I rarely have sex with women off this site as they often come attached to a man who wants to watch and that makes my flesh creep.
But essentially to stop waffling now. I use this site for sex.
and chat.
but mainly with a view to having hard, soft, rough, steady, deep, wet, passionate, memorable, orgasmic, beautiful sex.
Then I began to question my sexuality as I became attracted to a certain man and wasn't sure if it was just cos I thought his wife was fit.
I went the full hog and became romantically involved with one man and began to also have sexual encounters with men on a swinging NSA basis.
Then I met 'wor lass' and we began an 'open' relationship. We both believe that an open/swinging relationship is the only way forward. I occasionally meet people as a single woman. If I come across someone interesting (not in a bukkake kinda way) then I may approach them on 'our' behalf.
We class ourselves as gay... she calls herself 'homoflexible' and I class myself as an open minded lesbian who wantonly uses men's cocks to give me pleasure. If the man happens to be married to a hot woman then I would like to devour her too. I rarely have sex with women off this site as they often come attached to a man who wants to watch and that makes my flesh creep.
But essentially to stop waffling now. I use this site for sex.
and chat.
but mainly with a view to having hard, soft, rough, steady, deep, wet, passionate, memorable, orgasmic, beautiful sex.
We joined up initially for a bit of a perve.......we have found that SH is a fun place with lots of fun people and have made many friends during our time here.
As for sex, well i couldnt possibly say - we are far too discrete :D :D
I suppose for us, we are lucky to already have done alot of naughty stuff with a particularly special friend outside of the site. Needless to say we have very high sex drives and welcome contact from others like us.
First of all we social people and so anyone we meet here has to become a friend before we do anything anyway. Everyone is different in their approach. This is what works best for us.
As for sex, well i couldnt possibly say - we are far too discrete
:D :D I suppose for us, we are lucky to already have done alot of naughty stuff with a particularly special friend outside of the site. Needless to say we have very high sex drives and welcome contact from others like us.
First of all we social people and so anyone we meet here has to become a friend before we do anything anyway. Everyone is different in their approach. This is what works best for us.
Sex God
Is it a numbers game? I wish
Joking aside, we are here mainly for the lovely, fun people we have met at various socials, parties and munches, the lovely fun people I talk to in the chatroom/forums/via pm and have not met (but still hoping) and for the banter.
Yes, swinging is still a big reason for keeping us here, but even if our swinging interest ended, I could not keep away from the forums and talking to some of the very special people we have met (both on line and in real life).
Joking aside, we are here mainly for the lovely, fun people we have met at various socials, parties and munches, the lovely fun people I talk to in the chatroom/forums/via pm and have not met (but still hoping) and for the banter.
Yes, swinging is still a big reason for keeping us here, but even if our swinging interest ended, I could not keep away from the forums and talking to some of the very special people we have met (both on line and in real life).
I use this site for the social side of things more than anything though I have had quite a few great shags from it too Although I remember everyone of them ( and some of them have been repeated a few times :twisted: ) I couldn't and wouldn;t want to put a number on them.
To me they're very pleasant experiences and not notches on my bedpost
Although I remember everyone of them ( and some of them have been repeated a few times :twisted: ) I couldn't and wouldn;t want to put a number on them. To me they're very pleasant experiences and not notches on my bedpost
Sex God
Quote by Sassy-Seren
I use this site for the social side of things more than anything though I have had quite a few great shags from it too
To me they're very pleasant experiences and not notches on my bedpost
Couldn't have put it better myself!!
