Is it alright to pay for it ?

13 Sep 2007

Quote by Shireen
I have come to the conclusion that Essex4M likes having his arse spanked!!
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:

Oh hell yes!

13 Sep 2007

Quote by essex34m
Thats why the concept of pay as you go was invented

Or pay as you cum? wink

13 Sep 2007

Of course its ok Phil. If thats what you want then go for it, enjoy it and dont let anyone else judge you for it!

13 Sep 2007

Quote by essex34m
I have come to the conclusion that Essex4M likes having his arse spanked!!
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:

Oh hell yes!
DAWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are needed :giggle:

14 Sep 2007

Quote by poshkate
.............Good question......I don't think I would pay for it myself, as FB said I have a vibrator for if I need that :lol2: and I don't think I'd do it just to go somewhere, ie. in the true escort sense, not sure why really but partly because, friends, family and colleagues would be a bit surprised as to where this mystery bloke has popped up from and I'm a crap liar anyway :lol2:

OK so why would you feel the need to lie to peers and family? Why not just tell them that he's a bloke you've rented to accompany you? Surely there's nothing wrong with that? confused

Quote by splendid_
if someone wants to pay me for sex
so be it...................

20p and a half chewed humbug do ya ?
splendid
You really need to check his references before you start making generous offers like that. :giggle:
:P bolt

14 Sep 2007

i do not think i would ever pay for it, it just would not do it for me. in the back of my mind would be the fact that he was only doing it for the cash, thats not going to make me feel horny is it!
secondly, thanks fuck i have never had to go without anyway lol.
as for women dopning it, i do not have anything against them - but the low level street variey i feel very sorry for them. can you imagine feeling so desperate that all you can do is put yourself at risk of godknows what in order to make a few quid. knowing that you are posibly going to have to go near some dirty smelly slimeballs? how can you hate them for that? i applaud their determination and strengh, cos no way could i do it!
the "higher class" type of hooker, who gets to spend her nights in posh hotels and so on, i dont have any feelings about one way or the other. i do not feel sorry for them, but niether do i dislike them or anything, i just think they are doing a job they are obviously happy to do, i could not do it though.

14 Sep 2007

Well now, as a 64 year old swinger, I've never had to pay for sex yet, apart from a few drinks and the odd meal or two, which I don't exactly class as paying for 'it'.
At the last count I have bedded over 200 women, many more than once, and I have lived with seven for periods of two or more years. I married once, for five years.
I suppose I've been very fortunate that I've never contracted any infection from any of my partners, but in my earlier days such infections were much rarer than they are today. I've been lucky I suppose.
I still 'Swing' now and then, but I do have regular partner of over 30 years standing who I see for horizontal refreshments on a regularl basis.
I'm no longer a good looking 'young lad' but I can still pull the odd bird. lol.
I used to have a 'yen' for older women, but sadly there are now few older women than me who are interested in a sexual relationship. (sob)
I still get more than enough to keep me happy, even if old age and the odd medical problem make it a little more difficult to have sexual relations than it did forty years ago.
The day I have to pay for sex is the day I think I'll give it up. lol.
Best wishes to all those on this site who remember me from years ago.
Harry0

14 Sep 2007

Good to see you back Harry - very best wishes to you too. :thumbup:

14 Sep 2007

Quote by MikeNorth
Good to see you back Harry - very best wishes to you too. :thumbup:

Hello Mike North,
It's nice to see I'm remembered, lol. biggrin

Harry0

14 Sep 2007

Quote by harry0
Good to see you back Harry - very best wishes to you too. :thumbup:

Hello Mike North,
It's nice to see I'm remembered, lol. biggrin

Harry0 wow blast from the past!! Was only reading an old thread the other day and your name came up! Lovely to see you kiss

:kiss:

14 Sep 2007

Quote by splendid_
if someone wants to pay me for sex
so be it...................

20p and a half chewed humbug do ya ?
splendid
so you would then.............. wink

14 Sep 2007

First thing to say is 'Hi' to Harry O - what a pleasure to touch base again!
Would I pay for sex? (to get back to the point of the thread. I am in the blessed position of not having to, but I don't want to avoid the question.
I know that there are some genuine independent women out there who have made this a career choice - good luck to them. However, there are a lot of women (particularly those who have been lured here from Eastern Europe or the Far East) who have been virtually enslaved here and I really wouldn't want to be a party to that exploitation. That would be my main concern.
Will

14 Sep 2007

Quote by Dawnie

Only quoted you Dawnie as you were the first one to say it, but prostitution is not illegal, only soliciting. I may be cynical, but when I hear politician's going on about banging on about legalising things to protect the girls on the street etc, it's actually because they know that the girls at the top end of the market are earning good money and very few of them declare their earnings, so they are missing out on a big wad of revenue......as I said, probably just me being cynical :lol2:

You might be right about politician's PK but if anyone else that has a job has to pax taxes, why shouldn't a sex worker dunno

I'm in no way saying that sex workers shouldn't pay taxes, just that I think that the governments reasons behind legalising the industry are possibly more but to the fact that they realise they can earn more revenue by regulating it. Some working girls do declare their earnings, but a lot don't, and the government are are aware of this......that was all I was saying.

Quote by Dawnie
Health cover is there for those that want it...if you ever ring up your local GUM clinic for an appointment and they tell you there's awaiting list.....try ringing them back a bit later and tell them that you're a hooker......generally they'll then see you that day or the next....ok this may not be the case everywhere but it's just an example.

There is some kind of ruling now which means anyone that rings a GUM clinic should be given an appintment within something like 48 hours. (I should has listened more at my uni lectures to know the exact details)
What I meant by health care though PK is proper health care that other workers get, payment when off sick type of stuff like any other worker would get, not just easier access to a GUM clinic.
I'm sure there is some sort of ruling now about people visiting GUM clinics.....but I'm not sure if the NHS are able to cope with at the moment....or at least this is what I've been told by people attempting to make appointments at the GUM clinic.
As for sick pay etc.....yes whilst in an ideal world that would be fair.....in practice, in an industry where girls change where they work as often as they change their knickers, I can't really see how that would work out.

Quote by Dawnie
I don't think I would pay for it myself, as FB said I have a vibrator for if I need that :lol2: and I don't think I'd do it just to go somewhere, ie. in the true escort sense, not sure why really but partly because, friends, family and colleagues would be a bit surprised as to where this mystery bloke has popped up from and I'm a crap liar anyway :lol2:

I have been thinking about this since I asked the question confused

If I wasn't involved in swinging then I think I might be tempted to pay for sex. I do have toys and they would keep me amused for a while. I could even consider going to a normal bar and attempting to pull some lonely male. After a while I just think I might need a good hard fuck and if paying for it was the only option to get a seeing too when I needed it, I think I'd be bloody tempted :?
And if that was the case, good for you girl and I'd be telling you to go for it.....as I said to Phil, there is nothing wrong with paying for it, for whatever reason.

Quote by Dawnie
For some reason it seems to appear that women don't pay for it whilst men do.......is that because men have stronger urges, or is it just that it is more accepted within society for men to use hookers whilst women haven't got to that point yet. Or maybe it's because it's so much more readily available to men (if you don't believe me have a look in your local paper for massage parlours and you'll probably find there are a few in places that you pass everyday) and that women have to go to more effort to arrange something?

Is it more based on the easy of access though :dunno:
Street corners, phone boxes, back pages of the papers and Ian even got propositioned in Safeways but for men, you just don't see it :dunno:
I've rarely seen a male advertising unless it is for gay sex :?
I think that's the point I was trying to make....sorry I don't put myself across to clearly at times, I try to say something and it comes out as something else that no one can make sense of.....one day I'll work out a way to post where I make sense :?

15 Sep 2007

PK - Don't put yourself down - your posts on this subject have been informative and interesting, and put in a clear way.

15 Sep 2007

I believe the price for an hour is around £100 minimum in the south East and an hour is not a very long time for sex, but each to their own I guess. I have never visited a prosy and never considered doing so. £100/hour is an awfully high rate for an unskilled service.
As you might guess, I have left my brief time in swinging for the rewards of a relationship, but I pop back here from time to time to see how my 'mates' are fairing, until my subscription expires next year.

15 Sep 2007

It doesn't bother me if someone wants to pay a prostitute, and if Den wanted to, that wouldn't bother me either, but I don't think I'd ever be that bothered to want to pay for it myself, and I certainly wouldn't want to buy someones time to go to a function- I wouldn't have a problem going somewhere alone.
Sometimes I see the girls standing out in our red light area and I usually think that surely the guy can just chat up someone drunk at closing time?!?! :giggle:
As for doing it myself, I have considered it, but I'm far too fussy, I just don't think I could shag someone I didn't fancy!
It would have to be an awful lot of money though to make it worth it! lol

:lol:
I have no problems stripping during burlesque shows in front of hundreds of people, and I considered working as an actual stripper in a club. Me n Den went along to see one of our friends for a look about the club she worked at, and I realised I probably couldn't do it.
The dancing bit on the stage was fine, even dancing for one person I wouldn't have a problem with, but what I couldn't do was go round the club, hounding old men I didn't fancy, chatting them up to try and persuade them to dance with me.
She says its easy if you just treat them like walking wallets, but even so, I can't even chat up someone I don't fancy, so I think I'd make a terrible prostitute!
M xx

15 Sep 2007

Quote by Liaisons
I believe the price for an hour is around £100 minimum in the south East and an hour is not a very long time for sex, but each to their own I guess. I have never visited a prosy and never considered doing so. £100/hour is an awfully high rate for an unskilled service.

I dont see how you can say its an unskilled service just because the lady/man providing the service does'nt have a diploma on the wall like the morgage adviser or the doctor it does'nt make them unskilled .
As for £100 an hr I suppose there are overheads .

15 Sep 2007

Most of the women who have answered this thread have said they would not pay for sex.
Here's a question tho.
What if there was a man who through a genetic mutation had sperm which if digested made you look 20 years younger.
How many women would give him a blow job?
John

15 Sep 2007

Quote by Geordiecpl2001
Most of the women who have answered this thread have said they would not pay for sex.
Here's a question tho.
What if there was a man who through a genetic mutation had sperm which if digested made you look 20 years younger.
How many women would give him a blow job?
John

A lot of straight men would give him a blow job lol

15 Sep 2007

Quote by Geordiecpl2001
Most of the women who have answered this thread have said they would not pay for sex.
Here's a question tho.
What if there was a man who through a genetic mutation had sperm which if digested made you look 20 years younger.
How many women would give him a blow job?
John

I`d have to say no I wouldn`t. I`d only look about 5 :shock: :giggle:

15 Sep 2007

Quote by Shireen
I have come to the conclusion that Essex4M likes having his arse spanked!!
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:

Oh hell yes!
DAWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are needed :giggle:
Well its a tough job but someones got to do it rolleyes

Bend over :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :giggle:

15 Sep 2007

Quote by harry0
Well now, as a 64 year old swinger, I've never had to pay for sex yet, apart from a few drinks and the odd meal or two, which I don't exactly class as paying for 'it'.
At the last count I have bedded over 200 women, many more than once, and I have lived with seven for periods of two or more years. I married once, for five years.
I suppose I've been very fortunate that I've never contracted any infection from any of my partners, but in my earlier days such infections were much rarer than they are today. I've been lucky I suppose.
I still 'Swing' now and then, but I do have regular partner of over 30 years standing who I see for horizontal refreshments on a regularl basis.
I'm no longer a good looking 'young lad' but I can still pull the odd bird. lol.
I used to have a 'yen' for older women, but sadly there are now few older women than me who are interested in a sexual relationship. (sob)
I still get more than enough to keep me happy, even if old age and the odd medical problem make it a little more difficult to have sexual relations than it did forty years ago.
The day I have to pay for sex is the day I think I'll give it up. lol.
Best wishes to all those on this site who remember me from years ago.
Harry0

HARRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It is fantastic to see you posting kiss

Hope you are well drinkies

15 Sep 2007

Quote by sword-stileto
I believe the price for an hour is around £100 minimum in the south East and an hour is not a very long time for sex, but each to their own I guess. I have never visited a prosy and never considered doing so. £100/hour is an awfully high rate for an unskilled service.

I dont see how you can say its an unskilled service just because the lady/man providing the service does'nt have a diploma on the wall like the morgage adviser or the doctor it does'nt make them unskilled .
As for £100 an hr I suppose there are overheads .
Its unskilled because sex is an instinct, requires no practise and therefore is unskilled behaviour. You would not say farmyard animals mating were skilled would you?
Certainly there can be some technique that is learnt, but that is more on the part of the man since in most cases women just lie back and enjoy it.
While I'm here, the tragic case of the 'insult chat room' where that man committed suicide, do you think other forums closer to home could be thought of as a type of 'insult chat room'?

15 Sep 2007

Quote by Liaisons
I believe the price for an hour is around £100 minimum in the south East and an hour is not a very long time for sex, but each to their own I guess. I have never visited a prosy and never considered doing so. £100/hour is an awfully high rate for an unskilled service.

I dont see how you can say its an unskilled service just because the lady/man providing the service does'nt have a diploma on the wall like the morgage adviser or the doctor it does'nt make them unskilled .
As for £100 an hr I suppose there are overheads .
Its unskilled because sex is an instinct, requires no practise and therefore is unskilled behaviour. You would not say farmyard animals mating were skilled would you?
Certainly there can be some technique that is learnt, but that is more on the part of the man since in most cases women just lie back and enjoy it.
While I'm here, the tragic case of the 'insult chat room' where that man committed suicide, do you think other forums closer to home could be thought of as a type of 'insult chat room'?
I may be reading this wrongly but are you implying that this forum is similar to that of an insult chat room??

15 Sep 2007

Quote by Liaisons
I believe the price for an hour is around £100 minimum in the south East and an hour is not a very long time for sex, but each to their own I guess. I have never visited a prosy and never considered doing so. £100/hour is an awfully high rate for an unskilled service.

I dont see how you can say its an unskilled service
just because the lady/man providing the service does'nt have a diploma on the wall like the morgage adviser or the doctor it does'nt make them unskilled .
As for £100 an hr I suppose there are overheads .
Its unskilled because sex is an instinct, requires no practise and therefore is unskilled behaviour. You would not say farmyard animals mating were skilled would you? No, but would you want to shag a pig?
Certainly there can be some technique that is learnt, but that is more on the part of the man since in most cases women just lie back and enjoy it.
Stepping away from the keyboard
:gagged:
While I'm here, the tragic case of the 'insult chat room' where that man committed suicide, do you think other forums closer to home could be thought of as a type of 'insult chat room'?
Nope. But mainly because I just gagged myself.

15 Sep 2007

Quote by Liaisons
I believe the price for an hour is around £100 minimum in the south East and an hour is not a very long time for sex, but each to their own I guess. I have never visited a prosy and never considered doing so. £100/hour is an awfully high rate for an unskilled service.

I dont see how you can say its an unskilled service just because the lady/man providing the service does'nt have a diploma on the wall like the morgage adviser or the doctor it does'nt make them unskilled .
As for £100 an hr I suppose there are overheads .
Its unskilled because sex is an instinct, requires no practise and therefore is unskilled behaviour. You would not say farmyard animals mating were skilled would you?
Certainly there can be some technique that is learnt, but that is more on the part of the man since in most cases women just lie back and enjoy it.
While I'm here, the tragic case of the 'insult chat room' where that man committed suicide, do you think other forums closer to home could be thought of as a type of 'insult chat room'?
If sex is an instinct then all the sex therapists would be out of a job.
I take it the 'insult chat room' bit is a reference to you taking offence at someone (me) disagreeing with your opinion!!
Sorry if you dont like my opinion but it is mine & I feel no guilt about voicing it .

15 Sep 2007

I think the real question here is why/when would you pay for it!
If suddely there was a massive lack of the opposite (or same?) sex and your only option was to pay or go without would you really go without for the rest of your life?
Seriously if you pay for it you can have sexual intercourse without the social intercourse
We as a couple have paid for another womans company (although not in the UK). In the UK we just go to a club and see what happens but we would pay for it in the UK, if there was a safe environment to meet and chat beforehand.
Threesome and moresome are fun.

15 Sep 2007

Quote by cpl4fun6
Seriously if you pay for it you can have sexual intercourse without the social intercourse .

If I don't want the 'social intercourse' then I have toys.....

Quote by cpl4fun6
Threesome and moresome are fun.

Yes, but it's not just the shagging on it's own that makes it fun, or is that just me?
If you mean the 'quick shag' without the chat, then you can certainly get that without paying for it too!
wink

15 Sep 2007

Quote by sword-stileto
If sex is an instinct then all the sex therapists would be out of a job.
I take it the 'insult chat room' bit is a reference to you taking offence at someone (me) disagreeing with your opinion!!
Sorry if you dont like my opinion but it is mine & I feel no guilt about voicing it .

Sex therapists are a breed who obtain an income by praying on people's emotional problems, and the canny ones earn a fair wage from it.
It is a 'reference' to on-line anonymous interaction in general, the response; yours or anyone else's to the posting is the point, not the post itself.

15 Sep 2007

Quote by mazandden

Seriously if you pay for it you can have sexual intercourse without the social intercourse .

If I don't want the 'social intercourse' then I have toys.....

Quote by cpl4fun6
Threesome and moresome are fun.

Yes, but it's not just the shagging on it's own that makes it fun, or is that just me?
If you mean the 'quick shag' without the chat, then you can certainly get that without paying for it too!
wink

my post seems to have been removed....not sure what I said.
maybe I have to brush up on the chatting up without chatting situation....
well it's sat night time to get ready to go out just having a quite one tonight unless we get lucky :-)