Is it considered to be ok....

4 Nov 2004

To have more than one fuck buddy to go partying with? It probably sounds like a really silly question to ask a swingers forum but I was conscious of the fact the I was with a fuck buddy and not an actual husband or boyfriend at a couples night. Is it bad to go to a party with one guy then next time take a different one?
Sorry if I seem a bit naive but I am pretty new to all this and sometimes there are unwritten 'rules' which people like to stick to which I might not know about yet...

4 Nov 2004

personally i think it is fine.
there ARE some couples who only play with "propper" couples... so as long as you are honest and they therfor have the choice.. then i cant see a problem.

4 Nov 2004

It should be fine - Charlotte sometimes goes with a friend of ours as we cannot always organise a babysitter. It can be amusing sometimes - "Weren't you here with someone else last time?" redface

Roger the Dragon

4 Nov 2004

Thanks busty and Roger for clearing that up for me, I was a bit concerned that people may not like it if I turned up at a party with different men but I am honest about the sort of relationship I have with them.

4 Nov 2004

Quote by MQ
......but I am honest about the sort of relationship I have with them.

Honesty's the way forward in my book and if you're being honest then no problem.
smile

4 Nov 2004

absolutely no problem with us,from a "proper couple"perspective,as long as your honest and we all get on,its what swinging is all about"sex with people other than your partner"enjoy yourself wink