is it just me

25 Feb 2006

or are some women being forced into swinging??? the pics are an eyebrow raiser sometimes but after the meet i had on thursday night its gone well beyond that,dont guys realise theres no fun for a single male meeting a fem thats not into it!!!
come on~

25 Feb 2006

It happens hun.... Some women will do it to please their other half but not really be into it....
They should have the conviction to say no but they dont dunno

Shireen
xxx

25 Feb 2006

That's why it pays to never promise more than you are prepared to offer. smile

25 Feb 2006

what happened????
maybe she`d had a really bad day , dose of pmt
she might have just not fancied u,
or maybe ... there r just...some guys out there like that...takes all sorts to make the world!!!!!!!

25 Feb 2006

its sooooo obvious though,at a meet its nlatant and embarrsing,on an ad its just frustrating knowing that people can be sussed out so easy and still not know.

25 Feb 2006

Quote by twos_company
what happened????
maybe she`d had a really bad day , dose of pmt
she might have just not fancied u,
or maybe ... there r just...some guys out there like that...takes all sorts to make the world!!!!!!!

it was blatantly obvious that she was forced/encoutaged etc
embarrasing!!!!!!
i made my excuses
the meet was not arranged through swingheaven biggrin

25 Feb 2006

Quote by robbie_rob
what happened????
maybe she`d had a really bad day , dose of pmt
she might have just not fancied u,
or maybe ... there r just...some guys out there like that...takes all sorts to make the world!!!!!!!

it was blatantly obvious that she was forced/encoutaged etc
embarrasing!!!!!!
i made my excuses
the meet was not arranged through swingheaven biggrin

Showing to a watcher is a very subtle and finite thing to do and we do not know right up till the time if it's right for us or not.
That's probably why it's best if it's an unplanned meet,just a thought really. smile

25 Feb 2006

well what do u expect if u don`t use the BEST site!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

25 Feb 2006

in an ideal world all meets would be unplanned. lol

25 Feb 2006

its easier when planned though cos you can book a taxi lol

25 Feb 2006

so go down a club & get a taxi home when u want to!!!!!!!!!
most of the people on here therye in the forums or in the chatroom...
u get a feel 4 them b4 u arrange anything
and there r the munches as well

25 Feb 2006

Quote by twos_company
so go down a club & get a taxi home when u want to!!!!!!!!!
most of the people on here therye in the forums or in the chatroom...
u get a feel 4 them b4 u arrange anything
and there r the munches as well

the vast majority are not in the forums and remain annonymous and unnaccountable
the ones on the forum are the ones confident enough that they will not be shot down in flames
i think anyway,,,,

25 Feb 2006

they`ve been shooting us down in flames 4 years!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
we`ve taken some real abuse from the regulars...and given some back.....
we`re a phoenix!!!!!!!!!!! rise from the ashes!!!!!
all the people who used to shout at us & lock our threads!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! seem to have vanished!!!
so we`ve crept out of the woodwork......sssssshhhhhhhhh dont tell any one....
now ??? what was that about a blackhole @ the back of sh towers???
rest in pieces guys!!!!!!!!

25 Feb 2006

Quote by twos_company
they`ve been shooting us down in flames 4 years!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
we`ve taken some real abuse from the regulars...and given some back.....
we`re a phoenix!!!!!!!!!!! rise from the ashes!!!!!
all the people who used to shout at us & lock our threads!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! seem to have vanished!!!
so we`ve crept out of the woodwork......sssssshhhhhhhhh dont tell any one....
now ??? what was that about a blackhole @ the back of sh towers???
rest in pieces guys!!!!!!!!

i will argue with the best but i cant find one for you!!!
i think you have it/me sussed
rob x

25 Feb 2006

Quote by robbie_rob
dont guys realise theres no fun for a single male meeting a fem thats not into it!!!

actually i think a lot of guys on here would still be happy to play knowing the woman wasn't really that into it :shock:

25 Feb 2006

Quote by twos_company
they`ve been shooting us down in flames 4 years!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
we`ve taken some real abuse from the regulars...and given some back.....
we`re a phoenix!!!!!!!!!!! rise from the ashes!!!!!

No ! ! ! ! !
I find that hard to believe wink

I think you'll find robbie_rob, that there are just as many "going along with it" men as there are women; possibly more so.
You are right tho - it's often blatantly obvious and very embarrassing for all concerned.
The fine line between doing something that you know your partner will enjoy - and doing something reluctantly isn't fine at all - it's fLucking HUGE ! !

25 Feb 2006

It's awfully English, isn't it, to go along with something, being polite and not protesting against anything, not willing to "rock the boat" for fear of spoiling things for others, without really knowing whether you're enjoying it or not, sometimes not even being sure afterwards whether you enjoyed an activity or not. And I agree with Db, it's something that's just as likely to afflict men as women.
Mike.

25 Feb 2006

Some men/women are nagged and overly encouraged by their partner to swing.
Some men/women think they can do it, but when push comes to shuv????
Some men/women think it is better to just try with anyone and then realise they need an attraction.
Some men/women just won't want to do it with you.
Some men/women are just fucking great fun.
That is the human race for ya!

25 Feb 2006

Quote by PoloLady
Some men/women are nagged and overly encouraged by their partner to swing.
Some men/women think they can do it, but when push comes to shuv????
Some men/women think it is better to just try with anyone and then realise they need an attraction.
Some men/women just won't want to do it with you.
Some men/women are just fucking great fun.
That is the human race for ya!

Here here!!! :thumbup:
If everybody fancied everybody you'd never see anyone on the streets-
GREAT BRITAIN? SHAGGING BRITAIN innocent

25 Feb 2006

mutual was the word i was looking for last night redface

no meets planned today but if any couples are handy at laying slabs then pm me,i forgot to put that in my ad lol

25 Feb 2006

or are some women being forced into swinging???
Hi Robbie,
think there is sometimes an element of one partner being more enthusiastic than the other. If you've arranged to meet a couple, and you've only swapped emails or chat in the chatroom, why not ask to talk with the woman on the phone before arranging to meet. If you're met with all sorts of excuses why it's not possible then you can be fairly certain that it's going to be a wasted effort.
We always insist on a phone conversation before meeting anyone, either a couple or single, it's a useful filter for avoiding disappointment.
Jane drinkies

25 Feb 2006

Quote by naughtynymphos1
dont guys realise theres no fun for a single male meeting a fem thats not into it!!!

actually i think a lot of guys on here would still be happy to play knowing the woman wasn't really that into it :shock:
Honest your wrong with that... well in our case anyway, we have met couples who have one or the other not 100% into it and we have genuinlely made our excuses...
Nothing less sexy that a woman going through the motions for me, its one thing we always bring up before hand and try to have the girls have a real chat before anything happens to be sure all are as happy lol...
Not just you single guys who come accross this... couples also!!
Mike and Julie xxx