Is it just me, or is just about everyone who has joined up this year been a tosser and timewaster. Could we have aystem that shows the difference between full and part time members, maybe it could incorporate a way of encouraging peole to join, (limited offers etc). Just trying to save members time and help the owners of SH run the place well, (I've got my own business and know that profit is the essesntial one)!
whilst I find your post quite offensive.........i think that you will find that all the marketing tools that you have mentioned have actually been used by the management........
sorry that you feel everyone is a 'tosser or timewaster'.........maybe spend a bit of time seeing how the site works etc ..........
Whilst I think you might be right about a possible need to identify more clearly different types of member, I can also understand why some people might not wish to be more clearly identified. Arranging it so that the "zombie hoardes" know who to "target" as real members will only increase the meaningless traffic on their accounts that they have to sift through.
The couple of weeks quiet surfing around the forum and chatrooms I have done have shown me who some of the key players are here. I've even managed a few posts myself. You have been a member since January time and seem to have chosen your first thread/post to abuse people, amongst whom there will indeed be those whose intentions are less than they advertise.
But there will also be many amongst them who are genuine people. Ordinary, just like you and me.
Couples who are exploring new sides to their relationship and are more scared than they let on, but are going to give it a go anyway, together, because life's too short.
Single men and women who are fearing that this may be their last hope of finding a partner who understands more readily their particular kink or is at least more likely to accomodate it or even discuss it.
To dismiss "just about everyone" as "tossers and timewasters" is not a good start. I can well imagine this thread filling up quickly tommorrow daytime when sassy, missy, sheddy and the other regulars find it.
Now when did I join? You can not be talking about me. Still self criticism is good, it can lead to self improvement Good luck with your efforts.
OH NO, 10 days, 1 month, that's all between me being a time waster and almost a respected member of SH. The shame of it, what am I to do?