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Lilmiss
Sex God
..........on 1 this morning or does it really annoy you when it clearly states in the forum what somebody is looking for yet get replys from the wrong critearia? mad
For instance... Today, i have just read the LMU section where 2 seperate threads have been posted from different people. One for a "bbw cpl" and the other a cpl seeking a "bi fem"....
So why?... does a single guy reply to both posts??? Can they not read dunno or are they just to ignorant to take notice?
Once again it brings us back to the proof that people do not read what others want. mad
Rant over!
nellie1
Sex God
maybe they are ever hopefull lol
or think they can change people minds about what they want lol
i get annoyed when men whose profiles say they are straight, tell me they are really bi and therefore fit our criteria !!
Miss_B_Having
Orgasminator
Some people do just try their luck, personally I would never dream of answering an ad that I didn't fit the criteria for...
Actually I would just never answer an ad redface redface redface
Lilmiss
Sex God
Quote by bbw_wboro
Some people do just try their luck, personally I would never dream of answering an ad that I didn't fit the criteria for...
Actually I would just never answer an ad redface redface redface

My thoughts exactly.
This isnt the 1st time ive seen it happen... but then when they don't get replys to there ads... they "flounce" wink on here whinging about it!!
Phuckers
Sex God
another overflow of steamroom
Lilmiss
Sex God
Quote by Phuckers
another overflow of steamroom

Well don't reply then lol
Phuckers
Sex God
Quote by Lilmiss
another overflow of steamroom

Well don't reply then lol
what dunno
Lilmiss
Sex God
Quote by Phuckers
another overflow of steamroom

Well don't reply then lol
what dunno
Why is it "another overflow of steamroom"??
Calista
Sex God
Quote by Phuckers
another overflow of steamroom

another back seat moderator rolleyes
Phuckers
Sex God
Quote by Calista
another overflow of steamroom

another back seat moderator rolleyes
ha ha,i cant even dream of it
bouncy332
Sex God
a whole room to steam ya greens in jeezzeeeeee thats a lot of greens rolleyes
Unknown User
I thought it was a dodgy sauna in the back room of a seedy club somewhere dunno
Freckledbird
Sex God
Quote by Phuckers
another overflow of steamroom

No, it's not.
twos_company
Sex God
yep sure they just trying lady luck..
we ask for some thing on a day n we get can`t this week ,,,but can next pmsl
next week no good for us...so why answer ??
Peanut
Sex God
Quote by sparky33
Another single male bashing thread, and they wonder why I comment!
Sometimes you gotta wonder how they ever got a partner considerring they dislike single men so much.

If one is very paranoid then one could think everything is aimed at them.
This isn't a single male bashing thread, it's a fuckwit bashing thread. If you believe you fit that category then yes it could be about you, whereas if you don't consider yourself a fuckwit then it isn't. QED.
Lilmiss
Sex God
Quote by sparky33
Another single male bashing thread, and they wonder why I comment!
Sometimes you gotta wonder how they ever got a partner considerring they dislike single men so much.

Now who has the chip on there shoulder??!!!!! Why is it a "single male bashing"???
It was a question. Would you reply on a post as a single male that is not asking for you? If not, then stop getting on your high horse coz it simply doesn't involve you!!
As for this comment... "Sometimes you gotta wonder how they ever got a partner considerring they dislike single men so much"...... You are most definently barking up the wrong tree as i DO meet single men!!!
Lilmiss
Sex God
Quote by sparky33
She continually uses the descriptive "single males" I'm a single male, so ergo, fall into the "single male" category, if she said why do fuckwits not read ads properly, then fair enough.
Plenty of couples don't read ads properly either, so if I said why do couples never read ads properly, you would take it as all, not if I said fuckwits.
But bashing single males seems to be a regular pasttime for some.

"She"... is obviously me.. but i am well known on here are Lilmiss rolleyes
It was a "single male" who replied to BOTH of the threads in the forum. I used the term "Single male" as i am NOT allowed to name the person who did it. Other wise what else would you like me to refer to him as???
YOU are not the "single male" who replied..so what is your problem?
Lilmiss
Sex God
Quote by sparky33
It would appear you do, as you regularly slag off single guys, there are plenty of things I see on here that I feel are "foolish" but I don't comment, like the amount of ugly couples (yes beauty is subjective) that basically say only "Adonis" need reply to our ad.

I do NOT slag anybody off on here at all. Yes, i have my opinion as everybody else does. It "appears" to me... that when i post, you have seem to think you have the right to slag me of for it. Double standards or wot?
Miss_B_Having
Orgasminator
I think that if you take the thread in the way that it was meant then you'll find that it's not another single male bashing thread at all.
All Lil was trying to get across was that on two different posts, single males had replied although they were not what the poster was looking for.
As for people having a chip on their shoulder, I won't go into that as that's not what I'm here for.
Everyone has the right to an opinion, and in the same light people have the right to disagree.
But I don't think that this should be turned into a slanging match, and Sparky I think that's what ya trying to do.
Quote by sparky33
Another single male bashing thread, and they wonder why I comment!
Sometimes you gotta wonder how they ever got a partner considerring they dislike single men so much.
Peanut
Sex God
Quote by sparky33
I only comment directly when you knock single guys in general, which you do quite regularly.
And just to point out, I'm not the only one who notices, just support tends to be sent privately, as they know if they offer support in public, it's detrimental to themselves.

Speaking as a single guy I think you're talking paranoid bollocks.
Lil was very specific about what she was pissed off about. The fact that you read into it what you did speaks volumes about your mindset, not hers.
And then to proceed to berate her for "slagging" off a whole (imaginary) group when you yourself are making personal comments about her is less than gentlemanly and is actually perpetuating some's opinions of single males.
Way to go Einstein.
Lilmiss
Sex God
Sparky.... i am really not interested in people mailing you privately and saying what ever about me. If they cannot say it to me then they are weak.
I also am not going to get into the slanging match your trying to make it.
My origional post was a question.. not an oppourtunity to slag any single male off as that is 1 think i have never done. I didn't post saying such things as "are they thick" or calling them "fuckwits" and i never will do. I posted on 1 of your threads a few days ago and didn't like what i said so tried to twist it as to i had a "chip on my shoulder". I am my own person and i will have my say. Unfortunetly, if you do not like it, then don't read it.
Miss_B_Having
Orgasminator
:thumbup:
Quote by Lilmiss
Sparky.... i am really not interested in people mailing you privately and saying what ever about me. If they cannot say it to me then they are weak.
I also am not going to get into the slanging match your trying to make it.
My origional post was a question.. not an oppourtunity to slag any single male off as that is 1 think i have never done. I didn't post saying such things as "are they thick" or calling them "fuckwits" and i never will do. I posted on 1 of your threads a few days ago and didn't like what i said so tried to twist it as to i had a "chip on my shoulder". I am my own person and i will have my say. Unfortunetly, if you do not like it, then don't read it.
Miss_B_Having
Orgasminator
I'm not "taking sides" with anyone, just saying things as I see it - your memory seems to be failing you Sparky as I've certainly also agreed with things that you have said on the forum!
Quote by sparky33
What a surprise the regulars take the side of the regulars, simple fact is, she had no need to comment on it, if the person that made the ad had commented, then fair enough.
And if it was a slanging match I would call her names, but as I said, if there is an oportunity to have a kick at single males, she's usually first in the queue!
Peanut
Sex God
Quote by sparky33
What a surprise the regulars take the side of the regulars, simple fact is, she had no need to comment on it, if the person that made the ad had
commented, then fair enough.

I don't know if you noticed but this is a forum, people comment on topics as you yourself have done.
It's not about regulars defending regulars, it's about trying to give you some perspective. Something you are spectacularly failing to do.
And if it was a slanging match I would call her names, but as I said, if there is an oportunity to have a kick at single males, she's usually first in the queue!

You did call her names. You're calling her a "single male basher" for one.
Can't you see that in your attempt to defend people who truly don't need defending, you are actually strengthening people's opinions on how 'single males' are perceived.
Phuckers
Sex God
Quote by sparky33
What a surprise the regulars take the side of the regulars, simple fact is, she had no need to comment on it, if the person that made the ad had commented, then fair enough.
And if it was a slanging match I would call her names, but as I said, if there is an oportunity to have a kick at single males, she's usually first in the queue!

have never seen a paranoid single male like you..relax mate!
Peanut
Sex God
Quote by Lilmiss
Sparky.... i am really not interested in people mailing you privately and saying what ever about me. If they cannot say it to me then they are weak.
I also am not going to get into the slanging match your trying to make it.
My origional post was a question.. not an oppourtunity to slag any single male off as that is 1 think i have never done. I didn't post saying such things as "are they thick" or calling them "fuckwits" and i never will do. I posted on 1 of your threads a few days ago and didn't like what i said so tried to twist it as to i had a "chip on my shoulder". I am my own person and i will have my say. Unfortunetly, if you do not like it, then don't read it.

I agree, and for the record, the choice of the "fuckwit" description was mine, not hers.
Miss_B_Having
Orgasminator
Look this is now getting out of hand - there is no need to get personal about people.
Perhaps you should take a break from posting on this thread before it gets locked...
Lilmiss
Sex God
Quote by sparky33
Sparky.... i am really not interested in people mailing you privately and saying what ever about me. If they cannot say it to me then they are weak.
I also am not going to get into the slanging match your trying to make it.
My origional post was a question.. not an oppourtunity to slag any single male off as that is 1 think i have never done. I didn't post saying such things as "are they thick" or calling them "fuckwits" and i never will do. I posted on 1 of your threads a few days ago and didn't like what i said so tried to twist it as to i had a "chip on my shoulder". I am my own person and i will have my say. Unfortunetly, if you do not like it, then don't read it.

I never said it was about "you" I said support (regards the topic and the bashing I get for standing up for single males).
And this is aimed at you, you are a very arrogant woman, you feel you have the right to comment in general, and make sweeping statements without reposse.
If I started pulling down couples i'd be flamed in no time.
Simple fact is, you know that as a group you can bully single males into either submission, where by they publically accept your views, or they curl up and die.
I'll do niether, not all single guys are idiots, just like not all couples are idiots, and single fems, but some most definately are.
I would never reply to an ad that is clearly not looking for my type, (unless it was a clearly humorous comment, not a direct reply), and I take the time to read profiles.
So therefore, as is plainly obvious, I will not sit back in silence and be lumped in as bad, by default.
It's time you (and others) chose your words more carefuly so that they are not so sweeping, you never even preceed the words "single guys" with the word "some" which then makes it not so generalised, and so therefore far less offensive.
So you feel you can intimidate others and nobody should say anything back... wotever.
I, as an induvidual, have the right to comment on anything that annoys me. You, have the right to defend yourself "IF" it is about you.
My origional post was not about you nor have i ever slagged you off... So why are you trying to make this into something it isn't?
Feel free to sit and call me as you do... but i'm not going to do that.. I do not know you as you don't know me.
In Edit - You posted this thread recently..
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/284443.html
If im arrogant... and always slagging single guys off... why didn't i post on this thread?