This site never ceases to amaze me. Usually they are good things but occasionaly I discover something that just really shocks me.
I have just read an ad from a couple seeking a man.
The want a man or a group of men to make a friend of theirs pregnant. Bloody hell!!! The implications to this are mind numbing. Group unprotected sex by one or more groups.
Is it just me?
Am I out of step or out of touch?
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Sex God
It ain't you Keeno thats for sure. I think it's sick :-( No doubt there are some that would say that its all down to personal choice but amongst a few other things in my book what you saw is just so horrid :-(
Sexpert
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Is it just me?
Am I out of step or out of touch?
Well if you are hun... so am I....lol.....
Madness......
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This site never ceases to amaze me. Usually they are good things but occasionaly I discover something that just really shocks me.
I have just read an ad from a couple seeking a man.
The want a man or a group of men to make a friend of theirs pregnant. Bloody hell!!! The implications to this are mind numbing. Group unprotected sex by one or more groups.
Is it just me?
Am I out of step or out of touch?
Use the report button so we can find it to have a looksee :smile:
In Edit: found it!
:? I once saw a chatroom on similar. It is terrible, I can't help but think about the poor baby who is conceived from the 'party'.
But, we have to bear in mind that everyone is here for their own purpose and we shouldn't really stand judge and jury on them.
I still can't bear to think of it though, not to mention the STI's.... off to stand on soapbox!
But, we have to bear in mind that everyone is here for their own purpose and we shouldn't really stand judge and jury on them.
I still can't bear to think of it though, not to mention the STI's.... off to stand on soapbox!
Orgasminator
Cheaper and faster than a fertility clinic, but with unpredictable results and not really different to what has gone on for years when women get "broody" and hubby can't fix it !!
And at least most of the swingers here are responsible enough to get tested for STIs which is a better risk than picking up someone at the local pub.
And at least most of the swingers here are responsible enough to get tested for STIs which is a better risk than picking up someone at the local pub.
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Anais - I wasn't reporting them as such. It's their choice if they want to take those risks. I was just appalled by what was suggested.
What am I saying?
I ain't snitching on them
I know Keeno :smile:
I wondered it was against the AUP to be honest and wanted to have a peek! Sometimes people press that report button because they aren't sure either and that's fine.
Personally, I don't think that type of Advert belongs here - for many reasons
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The want a man or a group of men to make a friend of theirs pregnant.
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This is a new one for me.... and i like to think i have a broad and open mind.
Is there a name for this??
Is it a game for adults ...like Russian Roulette?
is it just a ploy to get the new child loads of birthday presents every year?
is it a typer of "lottery"... where matching DNA wins prizes?
Would the CSA demand a list of partygoers?
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Sex God
Quote by DeeCee
The want a man or a group of men to make a friend of theirs pregnant.
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
This is a new one for me.... and i like to think i have a broad and open mind.
Is there a name for this??
Is it a game for adults ...like Russian Roulette?
is it just a ploy to get the new child loads of birthday presents every year?
is it a typer of "lottery"... where matching DNA wins prizes?
Would the CSA demand a list of partygoers?
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
Oh god would I like to see a Jeremey Kyle (yak yak) programme with a DNA lottery :lol2: that would at the least make e smile
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The want a man or a group of men to make a friend of theirs pregnant.
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
This is a new one for me.... and i like to think i have a broad and open mind.
Is there a name for this??
Is it a game for adults ...like Russian Roulette?
is it just a ploy to get the new child loads of birthday presents every year?
is it a typer of "lottery"... where matching DNA wins prizes?
Would the CSA demand a list of partygoers?
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
I believe its a form of cuckolding.
from wikipedia
"The wife who enjoys cuckoldry is sometimes referred to as a hotwife or cuckoldress. In a broader context, the contrast between a cuckold and the additional male participant is sometimes used to summarize an individual's personality or behavior and the variability commonly seen in male libidos; the cuckold or beta male suggesting a lack of virility or smaller phallus and the additional male participant or alpha male representing virility, potency, a larger phallus, fertility, masculinity, strength and a sense of confidence in the ease with which he may sexually possess another man's wife."
Sex God
any advertising for another who isnt the account holder is ... i think
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This site never ceases to amaze me. Usually they are good things but occasionaly I discover something that just really shocks me.
I have just read an ad from a couple seeking a man.
The want a man or a group of men to make a friend of theirs pregnant. Bloody hell!!! The implications to this are mind numbing. Group unprotected sex by one or more groups.
Is it just me?
Am I out of step or out of touch?
we are all consenting adults and you will be amazed the volume of replied they received but they've broken the SH rules because they advertised for a third party who is not a member of this site...
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Seems to me that everybody always assumes the worst !!
If the lady who wants to get pregnant is a level headed, mature (in outlook, not age !) sensible person who has decided that she needs to get pregnant without wanting the father to be involved after the event, then I can`t see the problem !!
Why does everybody assume that there is something wrong with her ??
I would prefer that all the men were tested before the event but plenty of people on here take risks
Why would the child ever find out ? There are plenty of children born to mothers without permanent partners.
On a site where people openly discuss and promote anal sex, gang bangs, bukkake and peeing on each other, it seems odd to accuse somebody who wants to get pregnant from a gang bang of being some kind of mad waster who`d be after maintenance from the father as soon as the baby was born !!
Personally I don`t think it`s a great idea but then I don`t think anal or the peeing thing are good ideas either !!! :P
Flower you and I had this discussion last night, you know how I feel about it so I will put it here to.
I feel it is ethically and morally wrong to want to do this my reasons for my opinion are these.
What consenting adults do I have no problems with, I say live and let live and let them get on with it, I don’t judge each to their own I say.
What this thread is about is a third party that being the unborn child!
I believe every child should know who their parents are and how they were conceived.
This is just my opinion!
The child in question might possibly be lied to his/ her entire life and ok the child may never find out
a) who his natural father is or
b) how he/she was conceived.
But what happens if the child does find out, if I was that said child, I really don’t know how I would feel it hasn’t happened to me.
But we all do like to think we were a product out of love, I know this isn’t always the case, and I know people make mistakes, but to elect to choose a baby in this way I just feel it is totally wrong.
I might get shot down in flames for my opinion but I am happy for people to know where I stand here to.
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Seems to me that everybody always assumes the worst !!
If the lady who wants to get pregnant is a level headed, mature (in outlook, not age !) sensible person who has decided that she needs to get pregnant without wanting the father to be involved after the event, then I can`t see the problem !!
Why does everybody assume that there is something wrong with her ??
I would prefer that all the men were tested before the event but plenty of people on here take risks
Why would the child ever find out ? There are plenty of children born to mothers without permanent partners.
On a site where people openly discuss and promote anal sex, gang bangs, bukkake and peeing on each other, it seems odd to accuse somebody who wants to get pregnant from a gang bang of being some kind of mad waster who`d be after maintenance from the father as soon as the baby was born !!
Personally I don`t think it`s a great idea but then I don`t think anal or the peeing thing are good ideas either !!! :P
Of course you are right Flower.
I was just shocked at how out of step they seemed to my moral values.
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Seems to me that everybody always assumes the worst !!
If the lady who wants to get pregnant is a level headed, mature (in outlook, not age !) sensible person who has decided that she needs to get pregnant without wanting the father to be involved after the event, then I can`t see the problem !!
Why does everybody assume that there is something wrong with her ??
I would prefer that all the men were tested before the event but plenty of people on here take risks
Why would the child ever find out ? There are plenty of children born to mothers without permanent partners.
On a site where people openly discuss and promote anal sex, gang bangs, bukkake and peeing on each other, it seems odd to accuse somebody who wants to get pregnant from a gang bang of being some kind of mad waster who`d be after maintenance from the father as soon as the baby was born !!
Personally I don`t think it`s a great idea but then I don`t think anal or the peeing thing are good ideas either !!! :P
Of course you are right Flower.
I was just shocked at how out of step they seemed to my moral values.
OMG Don't tell Flower he is right! :doh:
