Is it okay to ask for a shag ?

26 Sep 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
Though I'd shag him right now if he called :twisted:

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I was reading this thread quietly and carefully and then you say that! Very funny indeed.
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26 Sep 2006

Quote by Kiss
Though I'd shag him right now if he called :twisted:

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I was reading this thread quietly and carefully and then you say that! Very funny indeed.
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Saddest part is it's very true hunni redface

26 Sep 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
Though I'd shag him right now if he called :twisted:

I knew that

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26 Sep 2006

We think its OK to ask for a shag with other people who you know are swingers.
John & Shel

26 Sep 2006

Quote by dambuster
pmsl - Ey up stranger.
Hope you and yours are well.
See you in January ??

Yup. Hotel was booked the same time I posted a request for an invite. redface

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Looking forward to it. Have you got your comb and your coffee cup in a safe place, ready? :P :lol:
Right, enough of this hijack, back to the serious ( :shock: confused

) stuff.

26 Sep 2006

i guess asking for a shag is fine if that's what you need. but maybe it would be better would be a uncontrollable puncing on each other and each other alive in the throes of passion.
if there is really chemistry between two people that will happen naturally.
if not,well you may as well have wanlk.

26 Sep 2006

I think it is perfectly possible, if you got to know someone well enough to ask and you have been in a situation where the question is reasonably put with an option for no to be available as an escape route for the shocked then why not. If the recipient is asked the right way they should be flattered and not offended and if it is done in the right way then it should be ok.
However, the other person may not be able to handle the closeness this represents after the event and may move away to re-establish the gap between being a friend and being more intimate and that can get a little difficult.
Some I have asked I have not regretted because I asked and I wish I had been braver to ask others where it may have been much more worthwhile than a sharing of the moment.
No rules? Perhaps the old adage of it is up to the boy to ask and the girl to say no! (choose you r own modern genders)
S

26 Sep 2006

In real life I usually wait for an approach from someone or some clear signal though I in turn do make it rather clear that I am free to go that way with them if they so thats not the case I can still value them as a friend.

27 Sep 2006

Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
I think it's perfectly acceptable to ask someone for a shag.
It's equally acceptable to say no.
If you're going to be upset or feel uncomfortable if the person your asking says no then don't ask.
If you're not then do

If you are going to feel upset by 'no', is it more than a shag. There fore is it more reason to ask?
In terms of something a bit more casual. I am not offended. Sometimes I say yes. Sometimes no. Sometimes later please.

27 Sep 2006

Quote by shayz1
I think it is perfectly possible, if you got to know someone well enough to ask and you have been in a situation where the question is reasonably put with an option for no to be available as an escape route for the shocked then why not. If the recipient is asked the right way they should be flattered and not offended and if it is done in the right way then it should be ok.
However, the other person may not be able to handle the closeness this represents after the event and may move away to re-establish the gap between being a friend and being more intimate and that can get a little difficult.
Some I have asked I have not regretted because I asked and I wish I had been braver to ask others where it may have been much more worthwhile than a sharing of the moment.
No rules? Perhaps the old adage of it is up to the boy to ask and the girl to say no! (choose you r own modern genders)
S

:thumbup: Well put.