Is it or isnt it sex?

12 Feb 2007

Yeah, I know, I ask too many questions
Was talking today about David Camerons admission re canabis and the conversation moved on to Billy Clinton and his admission he had smoked dope too but didnt inhale etc, ......or wasnt that all about Monica with a cigar and did she inhale, or was it suck? and did he shag her or just have the blow job and therefore what constitutes sex?
So what is the definition of "SEX"
Is it intimate touching?
Is it oral?
Or is it full penetration?
Remember, If your into counting partners the answer to this can dramatically effect your score biggrin

12 Feb 2007

Feeling someone up is a form of sex (sexual contact)
Oral sex is sex
penatrative sex is obviously sex
etc etc
you could argue that thats correct

12 Feb 2007

I aree with drewxcore: sex, to me, is genital contact by what ever means in order to stimulate arousal.

12 Feb 2007

As Drew says sexual contact but then when is touching being flirtasious as many women do that, to a guy doing it and it being misconstrued(sp?)
for me i would say sex is oral and penetration, touching and kissing in a minor way is not. playing with sexual organs wouls also be classed as sex in my eyes

12 Feb 2007

I consider 'sex' to be oral or penetration only. This would be the legal definition I believe.
But what about the silly term 'phone sex'? I certainly don't consider that to be sex, wanking certainly.

12 Feb 2007

I suppose if just feeling someone up was classed as having sex then that would mean i lost my virginity when i was 8:dry:.....dont ask

12 Feb 2007

I think Clinton said 'I did not have sexual relations with that woman'.
The crux there is in the word relations. I think his definition was fairly narrow - yup he didn't marry her!! Hehe.
He sure as hell had sex and when he smoked the cigar afterwards I bet he inhaled!!!
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12 Feb 2007

The proof is so often in the pudding. So if she turns up with a baby and points the finger. Then yes you can be sure you had sex! rolleyes

12 Feb 2007

I used to go out with a girl who thought giving a guy a bj was not being unfaithful :shock: .
I think kissing someone is being unfaithful.

12 Feb 2007

Quote by browning
I used to go out with a girl who thought giving a guy a bj was not being unfaithful :shock: .
I think kissing someone is being unfaithful.

Your profile picture shows you standing in front of a jeep with a gun!!! Surely that limits the amount of success you get here|?

12 Feb 2007

Quote by duncanlondon
The proof is so often in the pudding. So if she turns up with a baby and points the finger. Then yes you can be sure you had sex!

Can you? if i was wearing a condom at the time i'd be anything but sure, and even more so in the clinton scenario, i would think if he did have sex with her he would have used protection and not just for his sake but for his wifes too.
But they could all be classed as sex, as for the virginity bit drew mentioned isn't that sexual intercourse or penerative sex rather than a sexual act, you could have or give oral sex all your life and still be a virgin but that doesen't mean its not sex, surely any type of sexual contact for the purpose of pleasure can be seen as sex.

12 Feb 2007

Quote by Drewxcore
I used to go out with a girl who thought giving a guy a bj was not being unfaithful :shock: .
I think kissing someone is being unfaithful.

Your profile picture shows you standing in front of a jeep with a gun!!! Surely that limits the amount of success you get here|?
you saying that to a man with a gun are you mad :eeek: bolt

13 Feb 2007

Quote by browning
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I think kissing someone is being unfaithful.

Agree with ya! Unless its a pec on the cheek smile

13 Feb 2007

Jeremy Kyle will tell you what constitutes sex and how it differs from sexual contact wink

13 Feb 2007

It's a land rover, not a jeep.
Don't upset a man with a gun wink

13 Feb 2007

Dont upset a man that can spin a cocktail shaker in one hand and cut up limes in the other x

13 Feb 2007

What is sex, what is not/
It is a bit like what defines the Bermuda Triangle, it depends a which mystery you wish to include. It is defined differently by different people. Perhaps the best definition is, if you did it with out consent, would you be guilt of indecent assault or just assault.

13 Feb 2007

Quote by Mallock2006
Jeremy Kyle will tell you what constitutes sex and how it differs from sexual contact

hwoar: u mentioned Jeremy :inlove:

13 Feb 2007

Quote by jaymar
Jeremy Kyle will tell you what constitutes sex and how it differs from sexual contact

hwoar: u mentioned Jeremy :inlove:
Now I know your weakness :rascal:

13 Feb 2007

I think any sexual contact counts as sex theres just diffarent levels of sex

13 Feb 2007

Personally, I think sex is anything sexually orientated. It cannot be defined as just penetrative, it cannot be defined as just oral or both, kissing, touching, caressing etc.
For example, if you take a couple where one of them are physically unable to have penetrative sex, they can still make love and have sex but in different ways.
Am I doing one of my super rambles again? :shock:

13 Feb 2007

Quote by
What is sex, what is not/
It is a bit like what defines the Bermuda Triangle, it depends a which mystery you wish to include. It is defined differently by different people. Perhaps the best definition is, if you did it with out consent, would you be guilt of indecent assault or just assault.

The new Sexual Offences 2003 says both - it all comes down to interpretation and what one person interprets a sex act to be, that and age, mental stability etc.

14 Feb 2007

Well wikipedia says

Which is all a but biology textbook for me
My personal definition would be anything that could be defined as the persuit of sexual pleasure involving more than one person would constitute sex.
So Phone Sex with a real person is sex in my world but phone Sex with a recording is not.
smile

15 Feb 2007

...but phone with a recording that you think is a real person. Is that sex?

15 Feb 2007

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...but phone with a recording that you think is a real person. Is that sex?

It is if you're playing with yourself (well not you literally I might add wink

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